In life, the closest people are relatives, partners and friends, but why is there a saying that "chai and mi couples, wine and meat friends, and box relatives"? What exactly does this mean? Let’s take a look together today.
Chaimi couple
Chaimi couple is also called oil and salt couple. When they were young, they were almost romantic. However, after the two got married, they had less and less love. Chaimi, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea became the most important things in the day, but these are two indispensable things in life. As the saying goes, "A poor couple is sad for everything." is a noble and talented person like Jiang Ziya , because his wife has no money to support his family, so he chooses to separate from him. Therefore, the Chai and Mi couple describe the fact that their living conditions after marriage may be boring, but they are also crucial. This is also a kind of yearning for a dull and happy life.
Food Friends
Food Friends 0Food Friends At first glance, everyone thinks it is a derogatory term. It refers to friends who can only be seen at the wine table and at the dinner table. Whenever there is serious matter, even people cannot be found. It also tells us that we cannot only make friends without affection. But in fact, for people with generous temperaments, when a good friend comes, he should use good wine and meat to entertain him. The guests and hosts will be happy, and this is only satisfied. Of course, whether to entertain friends with wine and meat or good tea depends on the situation.
box relatives
people often say that relatives should move more, so that they can enhance their feelings for each other. When walking around with relatives, I can’t avoid bringing some gifts, and many of them are still packed in boxes. So what I told my relatives is that when visiting relatives' homes, you cannot go empty-handed. Speaking of this, someone will be confused. Do you have to bring gifts every time you go to a relative's house? This is not the case. It’s just that Chinese people have always paid attention to etiquette. Everyone should be polite when they go to relatives’ houses. It is obviously not polite to come to the door empty-handed. There is also a saying that "Give goose feathers thousands of miles away, and the gift is light and the affection is heavy." When visiting someone’s house, bringing gifts is not only polite, but also reflects your importance to your relatives.
"Food and Mi couple, wine and meat friends, box relatives" These three sentences vividly tell us how to treat our partners, friends and relatives. Remember that the ordinary life between husband and wife is the truth. Friends who drink and eat should think carefully and be more respectful and polite to their relatives. Do you have any different opinions?
