I have heard this sentence:
"A glance at the whole leopard, and you can see the vast ocean when you look at the drop of water."
In the process of getting along with people, although it is difficult for us to understand what others think at once.
But through some small things, we can see a lot of things clearly.
Take the most common WeChat reply as an example. There are traces to what the other party’s attitude towards you and whether it is worthy of deep friendship.
In life, if a person will reply to your WeChat in the following way, it means that he regards you as a friend and cherishes you when you meet it.
often actively contact
" Zodiac Story " says:
"I am a person who is afraid of actively contacting others. If I take the initiative to find you, it is because you are very important in my heart."
In this era when everyone's time is precious, we will not waste time actively contacting an unimportant person for no reason.
If a person often takes the initiative to contact you, chat about family matters, and contact feelings, it itself represents your important position in the other person's mind.
I once saw a story like this:
A young man, after graduating from college, his classmates who were once together were scattered all over the place, and almost everyone lost contact.
, but there is an exception to a classmate. Whenever there is a festival, you either send a message to greet you or contact me directly.
At first, he felt that the other party was just polite, and even if he received the other party’s message while he was busy, he would feel annoyed.
But until later, he encountered difficulties. When he asked his classmates for help to borrow money, many people gave him various excuses, and the classmate who often took the initiative to contact him without thinking, so he transferred 20,000 yuan to him.
That is at that moment, the young people truly understand that the other party has always maintained contact with them, not because of politeness, but because of caring.
In this world, everyone is very busy, and we don’t work hard to chat with a stranger.
If there is someone who will often contact you actively at this time, it means that he values your relationship very much and attaches great importance to you very much.
When you encounter it, you must know how to communicate with each other with your heart.
reply in time
know such a friend.
Not only will he respond in a timely manner to familiar people, he will not deliberately leave others alone when he receives messages.
Some time ago, I was on a business trip with him. To be honest, I was really busy at that time and there were a lot of things every day.
Once we were rushing for a plan, and he received a message and replied immediately.
I asked him, is this information important?
And he just said:
"It's just an ordinary friend who asked me for some questions. I was afraid that he would be anxious if he couldn't receive a reply, so I told him that I was busy and would answer him when I had time."
To be honest, seeing how he treats people, I also understand why he is so trustworthy. It is precisely because he can think about others that he is liked by everyone.
What is reliable?
likes this answer very much, that is:
"Everything has explanations, every thing has its conclusion, everything has its response."
In life, perhaps each of us will encounter such a situation, that is, when you send a message to someone who has a very important thing and cannot get a response for a long time, then you will be extremely anxious and very uneasy.
The person who always responds to information in time is not actually he is very idle, but he has empathy, he can feel the anxiety of others and feel the anxiety of others.
You will feel more at ease when you get along with such people.
Chat is never perfunctory
The best relationship ruler in the world is chat records. When chatting with an unimportant person, we will be particularly impatient, which is manifested in indifference and perfunctory in words.
But when a person is chatting with you, he is very sincere and will respond seriously to what you say.
So it means that he attaches great importance to your relationship and cherishes your friendship.
There is a video on the Internet:
When a man was having dinner with his friend, another friend of his sent a message, and some things needed his advice.
At that time, he immediately stopped picking up the chopsticks and learned in detail about the whole story with the other party. After thinking seriously, he gave him advice very seriously.
The friend who was eating with him saw him ask him this:
"Who is it, even such an important thing as eating, you let it aside?"
He just answered:
"A very important brother, his affairs are much more important than eating."
The friendship between people is actually so obvious.
If friendship is not available, then others will not be able to put your affairs in an important position, and they will not be able to delay their lives for your affairs.
When we look at those ordinary friends, even if they are chatting, they are basically just polite, and even a few perfunctory words like "hmm" and "oh".
When a person chats with you, he always takes it seriously and pays special attention. Then it is obvious that he treats you as a real friend.
has encountered it, so you must know how to cherish it.
As the saying goes:
"A drop of water can reflect the brilliance of the sun."
WeChat reply, although it is just a very small thing that makes us feel insignificant.
But there is a person's character and his attitude towards your relationship.
When getting along with people, if you meet someone who uses the above three methods to reply to your message, then you must know how to make friends.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
