In psychological counseling practice, there are always young girls who fall in love with an old man with a family, and they love each other to death, get deeply trapped in it, and they can't extricate themselves. Faced with this abnormal love, where should we go?
1. Girls are often mentally immature, which is the psychology of little girls. I always hope to find a man to take care of myself and love me; to coax myself when I am angry; to protect myself when I am sick. After all, married old men have experience in taking care of women. So, the little girl fell in love with the old man deeply.
In fact, falling in love with an old man with a family is just because the old man can take care of himself and love himself. This is a pathological psychology. Are you an elderly person over 90 years old who cannot take care of yourself? I just want to find a man to take care of myself. It's so shameless and ridiculous!
2. A young girl falls in love with an old man with a family. Why don’t you love a single man? Divorce is OK. That is because you don’t want to get into marriage and don’t want to take responsibility for marriage. Find a married old man and don’t have to worry about being chased by the old man to get married. This is exactly what you want. You just want to sell your body for the old man to pay material and money and take care of his life.
3. In psychological counseling practice, a girl falls in love with an old man. When she is in bed, the girl will ask the old man: am I young, or is your wife young? Is it me tight or your wife tight? Is my skin better or your wife better? Do you love me or your wife? Of course, a married old man must be keeping the girl and saying that it is better for girls. He turned around and kept his wife and said that his wife was fine.
Girls get strong vanity satisfaction through the constant praise, affirmation and praise of old men. Immerse yourself in the so-called happiness you create. A girl would rather be deceived to death than be angry to death. This is simply too profound!
In short, a young girl falls in love with a married old man. At this time, the girl really needs to deeply reflect on what she is doing. If a girl can figure out her position in such an inappropriate relationship and understand why she is immersed in it. Then, this abnormal relationship will return to normal.
It doesn’t mean that girls must leave the old man, or that girls can happily find a boyfriend to get married, and treating the old man as their ordinary friend, uncle or something like that is not impossible. In this way, you have a great boyfriend and a godfather who can spend money on you. Isn’t this killing two birds with one stone? You can kill two birds with one stone, it depends on whether you can get in and out emotionally.
