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I have always heard that marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
In marriage, marriage has always been a matter for couples. If one person puts all the burden on another person, then the marriage will not last long.
Molly did not dislike her husband's poor family, nor did she despise his original family's heavy burden, so she resolutely married him. But after three years, Molly realized that she had taken a look away.
02
When Molly married her husband, she didn't think too much about it. She just wanted to marry her beloved man. As for the family that her parents said was a good match, Molly thought it was just material and snobbery of her parents.
When we got married, the mother-in-law really did as my husband said, without paying a penny, no bride price, no wedding house, only the mother-in-law cried and complained from time to time.
Molly didn't care too much, because her parents were in good condition and she was the only child at home. Even though her parents were so angry about her, her cute daughter-in-law's parents finally bought her a wedding house and prepared an additional 200,000 yuan dowry for her to accompany her.
, and my husband also enjoyed her soft meal as he wished. Molly paid for the family's expenses, and her husband's own salary admitted that he would save it in case of emergency. Molly, who is generous and doesn't like to care about her, doesn't care about her.
03
Molly thought that her husband's stinginess would definitely change after having two children. But she guessed wrongly, and her husband became even worse after having children.
No matter what the child’s expenses are, he will not pay. Or it’s just an excuse that parents-in-law are rich and can rely on their parents-in-law to raise their children. How can they still need to contribute money and efforts by themselves?
The husband is stingy to his wife and children, but he is extremely generous to his parents. If Molly hadn’t accidentally discovered the transfer record of her husband’s in-laws, she wouldn’t have found that her husband’s salary was 8,000, but she would have given her in-laws 7,000 a month. Whenever parents-in-law ask for money, their husband will respond to any request.
How did Molly persuade him to stop at the right time? Instead, she was scolded by her husband: That's my parents, it's natural for me to spend money on their elderly care. Anyway, your parents are rich, and you don’t need the few thousand dollars I have to support my family.
04
Seeing that she was not convinced by her husband, Molly simply gave up and didn't make a fuss. However, when her parents-in-law asked for 20,000 yuan again, she drove her husband back to her hometown without saying a word. As for people, you have to witness it with your own eyes to believe in human nature.
Although my husband was not convinced, he also wanted to go back to visit his parents, so he took 20,000 yuan back to his hometown without saying hello to anyone. As a result, when he returned home, he saw his sister-in-law with a big belly and asking for money from her in-laws.
I heard my sister-in-law say, I am pregnant with my third child now and I am still a son in my belly. Your son cannot support the child if he is not capable of raising the child, so you parents have to help him support his wife and children. I must get the 20,000 yuan today, otherwise I will abort the child and make you regret it.
The parents were scolded by their sister-in-law and dared not say a word, but just kept saying good things: the youngest son promised us that we would send money back today. He has always been filial and does what he said. As soon as we get the money, we will give it to you immediately.
My husband felt uncomfortable when he listened to all this. He talked to his parents, but his parents said with confidence, "You have good conditions and if you don't give money, who will give money?" Your brother and sister-in-law have no job and have three children. You can't watch your brother and wife have a separation, right?
The words of my parents made my husband never want to stay again. He kept the 20,000 yuan and didn't give the money to his parents-in-law. Before leaving, he told his parents that 7,000 yuan will become 500 yuan in the future. Anyway, 500 yuan a month is enough for rural people to live. As for his brother, sister-in-law and nephew, he has no obligation to raise him.
Today's topic:
Do you support Molly's husband being cruel to his parents?
