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I am Aunt Yang, 61 years old this year, and my wife is 63 years old.
My wife and I have not been low, and together they are more than 10,000 yuan a month, which is enough for us to live.
When my son was still in college, we bought a wedding house for him. The house was more than 130 square meters and the location was very good.
My wife and I worked hard for several years, and we finally paid off our mortgage in advance.
This house is written with my wife and I. When my son got married, my daughter-in-law also mentioned that she would add a name to the house book, but my wife and I didn’t agree.
At that time, the daughter-in-law was very unhappy. Fortunately, we gave her a 160,000 yuan gift, and the wedding was held, so she didn't say anything.
Why don’t you dare to add the house to your daughter-in-law’s name?
Because young people’s marriages are too unstable now, my wife and I have worked hard to buy the house. In order to pay off the mortgage, for several years, we were reluctant to buy even a new piece of clothing. Only you understand the hardships.
So, we just want to wait a little longer.
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Before the son got married, the house was decorated according to the preferences of his daughter-in-law, and the decoration fee was nearly 300,000 yuan.
It can be said that my son held a wedding and decorated it, which cost me and my wife and I a clean pension money. But with just such a son, what should be spent is still to be spent.
Son Zhou Yang is 31 years old this year and he has been married for more than a year. Unlike other parents who urged grandsons, my wife and I felt that it was their own business. They would want to have children whenever they wanted.
In June this year, my son suddenly came over and told us that his daughter-in-law Xiaoxue had changed into a new job, which was near where we lived. My son means that he and Xiaoxue plan to move back and live with us.
Because of his work, it is not far from where we live. In this way, they don’t have to spend a lot of time on the road every day and can sleep more in the morning.
My wife and I have no reason to object.
However, Xiaoxue has been working for less than 10 days and said that she is not suitable for her new job. Then, she slept at home every day, watched TV shows online, and did not mention finding a job.
My wife and I were very anxious to see it. We all have suffered, and young people still need to work harder.
I hinted several times and asked Xiaoxue to go out to find a job. Unexpectedly, she said that she had been working for several years and planned to take a break for a while and go there if there is a suitable one. But if she doesn't go to look for it, where is there a suitable one?
The salary of my son is not too high, more than 8,000 a month. Although there is no pressure from a mortgage, it cannot withstand Xiaoxue's daily purchases.
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When I feel uncomfortable, my wife and I can only comfort each other, and children and grandchildren will have their own blessings.
My wife suddenly fell ill last month and needed to be hospitalized for one week.
My son was a little busy during that time, so he told his daughter-in-law that he would go to the hospital every day to help me. After all, I am old and I can't tell the difference between the east, south, west and north with my wife upstairs.
Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law said that she had made an appointment with her friend and was going to to travel to Yunnan .
My son got angry with her, but unexpectedly, his daughter-in-law said in front of me: Whose parents, who cares!
My son was so angry that he heard this. I was also very angry, and more heartbroken.
On the day my wife's surgery, my son took a day off, and the next day, I drove him back. After all, people who work cannot ask for leave every day. As for the daughter-in-law, every day the circle of friends shows all kinds of delicious food and scenery.
She had a lot of fun, but I really felt bad when I saw it.
My daughter-in-law has been unemployed for so long, and my wife and I are afraid that she will not have money to spend, so we give her 2,000 pocket money every month. Not only that, she is at home, and I cook well every day, ask her to eat, and I do the housework. She is too lazy to wash her own clothes.
I can be said to be her 24-hour nanny.
But she is the one her son likes. For the sake of his son's goodness, we have to coax our daughter-in-law to live.
My daughter-in-law's actions this time completely broke my heart.
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When my wife was about to be discharged from the hospital, her daughter-in-law had not come back yet.
That day I suddenly received a call, which was called by the property owner of the community where my son and the others lived. Because when I bought a house, my wife and I were left there.
Floor Manager told me that the neighbor downstairs complained that after 11 o'clock in the evening, our room was either slapping a ball or jumping rope, which made them unable to sleep.
The neighbor knocked on the door several times and found that the people living inside were still the same. Yesterday, the building manager went to see it in person, and after asking, he found out that the tenant lives in our house. The building manager hopes that I can also tell the tenants, otherwise it will affect neighborhood relations.
tenant?
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I immediately called my son and asked him if the house was rented out by them?
The son was reluctant to say it at first. I said the property owner called me and said that the tenant was noisy every night, which affected the sleeping of the people downstairs.
The son admitted that it was his daughter-in-law's idea, and said that they would not live in the house anyway, and they would still rent it for nearly 5,000 yuan a month. The daughter-in-law said that the money was similar to her salary to work, so with the rent, she no longer wanted to go to work.
I feel sorry for my wife and I, and I am worried about her, so I give her pocket money. How stupid are we?
The most important thing is that the daughter-in-law is holding the rent and the pocket money we gave her. Her wife is sick and she still says such cold words.
I asked my son what he thought, so he let his wife do this?
The son said that as long as he said that his wife would quarrel with him. Anyway, my wife just doesn’t want to go to work, and she says it’s not bad.
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After my wife was discharged from the hospital, she was recuperating at home and I took care of him every day.
My daughter-in-law was playing outside for seven or eight days before she came back, and I no longer want to spoil them.
After my daughter-in-law came back, I told my son to let them move back to live in their own house. I have to take care of my wife every day and don’t have time to cook and wash clothes for them.
The son agreed, but he told his wife that his wife had a big argument with him. They were noisy in the room, and I heard it all in the living room. But I have decided and don't want to spoil them.
The next day, while my daughter-in-law went out and my son was at work, I called the moving company, packed their things, and let the moving company move them to their house. And I also took the opportunity to change the lock of my room door.
Before my son came back, I had called him to tell him this, but he didn't say anything.
The daughter-in-law couldn't open the door and shouted outside. I opened the door and told her through the security door, asking her to live in their own house.
The daughter-in-law was very dissatisfied and cursed outside, and I was too lazy to open the door. Anyway, I don't feel embarrassed. After
, my wife and I didn’t ask how our son was.
Half a month later, my wife and I came back from outside for a walk. My son stood at the door in disgrace and begged us to take him in for one night. My wife and I had to open the door and let him in without asking any more questions.
The same is true on the second and third day. On the fourth day, my son came back after drinking some wine. He said that his daughter-in-law had a divorce with him, saying that it was because my wife and I were too cruel. He also said where are we parents like this?
I said, where is there someone who is like this who is your son? What did your wife say when your dad and I are getting older and want to rely on you?
The son said that his wife was right, it was because we were too heartless that made his wife angry and wanted to divorce him. If he gets divorced, it’s all our fault!
I'm really angry! But I always hope that their son will be good.
Is it true that my wife and I really did something wrong? If it were you, what would you do?
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Taotao said:
I think Aunt Yang did the right thing because she has been spoiling her son and daughter-in-law, and she will only foster them.
The daughter-in-law found out that she could still collect rent and live, so she stopped going to work.
The son, he has no opinion, his wife wants to divorce, and blames her parents, but he does not reflect on his own problems.
If the daughter-in-law is a smart person, she should understand and live her own life well. Only in this way can Aunt Yang hand over her property with confidence.
The son is still protecting his wife and saying that his parents are heartless, such a son is really confused.
Hope, Aunt Yang protects her property!
What do you think about Aunt Yang’s experience? If you were Aunt Yang, what would you do?
