When you get married to a person, everyone is the same. It is hoped that you can be happy and for a lifetime.
However, it is not that easy to say that it is short and long for a lifetime. It is really not easy for two people to do this.
After all, living with one person, it is easy for each other to have some problems and easily get rid of their relationship.
What's more, in today's era, people are not so stubborn about marriage, nor are they as they used to think divorce is a very embarrassing thing, but they are all very brave and are not willing to settle for it casually.
This also leads to the fact that the current divorce rate is really very high. Many couples may not have chosen to divorce and quit each other's lives.
Yes, in marriage, there are always people who choose to divorce if they have a disagreement, and there are always people who are always thinking about whether they should divorce. In fact, it is not easy to be able to walk with someone. You shouldn’t give up until you have to.
Every marriage should be cherished, unless this relationship is really meaningless.
The other party has been unfaithful again and never changed.
marriages seem to be the same. When you get married with a person, you feel that the other person is the most suitable for you. After getting married, the other person will begin to be overshadowed, and many people will only begin to feel that people outside are better.
not only has such an idea, but will even do it like this, which is too much with other opposite sexes.
Found that a person is sorry for himself and betrayed his marriage, there will always be some people who will be very soft-hearted. As long as the other party admits his mistakes, he will guarantee that he will not be like this again in the future. Even if he can't get over it, he will still choose to forgive directly.
If you still have feelings, you can’t forgive me if you want to give the other party a chance.
is just after forgiveness. If the other party does turn back and does not do any extraordinary behavior in the future, then you can adjust your mentality and continue to live with the other party.
But if the other party is still messing around later, it is not recommended to keep such a person.
Those who really care about this relationship will not do this again and again. They have given a chance to choose unfaithful people. In fact, they no longer care about your marriage.
If you guard such a person, there is no need to do it. He will not really change it, and you will not feel any sense of security at all. You will only be very uneasy and will never be able to trust the other party anymore, and you will not be able to live with the other party well again.
号有新方日本 7, and he has very bad habits.
The person you chose has some problems with him before getting married, and you may not have discovered it.
But after getting married, everything gradually became exposed.
For example, he has a tendency to be violent and has a particularly unstable mood. When you have conflicts, he will attack you. For example, he likes gambling and even owes a lot of debts for it.
Anyone who has flaws that make you feel very scared will not be a qualified partner.
At this moment, he may not have hurt you much, but if you continue to be with him, you will really fall into the abyss because of him, and your life will become particularly bad. Not only will he not be your help, but it will only drag down your life.
is obviously not that reliable. People who make you feel very uneasy should not always think about saving him. What you should do is to draw a clear line with him as soon as possible and stop the loss in time before it causes greater harm to you and brings you more losses.
Although when you get married to a person, you should treat the other party as a whole and advance and retreat with the other party, even though you know that the other party is a pit and just a trap, there is no need to be determined to save him, and you will never hesitate.
Leave him and start over, so that you can have other possibilities, rather than ruining the rest of your life because of him.
is particularly painful and cannot see the future.
also has some marriages. It seems that the other party seems to be okay, knows how to make money, and does some housework, but when they get along, they are very tired and feel that something is wrong.
always has no way to communicate well, and they can't understand each other. Their pursuits and views on things are completely different.
There are always many contradictions and frictions between each other every day.
seems to be just some minor problems that are not worthy of being verbal, but I always feel very wronged and uncomfortable. I never feel any warmth. When I think about being with the other person in the future, I feel very dull and hopeless.
If it is not because the marriage has become dull and feels a little boring, but because they are really not getting along well with each other, they cannot blend together, they cannot respect each other, and they are powerless to change at all, then there is really no need to force such days.
Live in such an atmosphere. Every day you wake up, you feel tormented and always feel depressed when you fall asleep. This is really boring, but it is just delaying each other.
live with someone, and you don’t want to feel happy and happy all the time. At least you should have some thoughts. There is no happiness at all. It’s just consuming each other’s marriages. There is really no need to hold on.
This should not be what marriage should look like, and they are probably not the same, they are really suitable for each other.
Get married, you shouldn’t choose to divorce easily, and you shouldn’t divorce impulsively because of a small problem with the other party.
However, I don’t say that you must persist no matter what, and you cannot leave.
A person who never knows loyalty does not need to always have hope for him, so let him have the freedom he wants.
obviously has no way to live a good life. If you don’t know how to be down-to-earth, it will hurt your life and easily make your life an endless disaster. You must not have fantasies.
As for the other party, it doesn’t seem to have any major problems, but it just doesn’t care about you, doesn’t take you seriously, and doesn’t match your values. If possible, you can also give yourself a chance to make a choice again.
and different people will really be different marriages.
shouldn't have looked at the mountain high, but unfortunately, I should still think about it for myself.
text/Tan Meng
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