Author: Mo Xiaobei
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01: Introduction
You and me and most people around you seem to be like this, inexplicably unhappy, don’t know what problems you have, even if you have food, drink and live, you are still unhappy.
is unhappy, I don’t know why.
If it is a matter, then the material level is already OK. If it is not a matter, then I don’t know why I am so anxious.
The reason why a person is really unhappy is actually something he asks for.
In other words, you could have been happy, but you made things complicated, which led to unhappiness.
Writer Wang Zengqi in " Plants and Trees in the World":
"No matter where a person goes, he always has to find some fun and think of a way. He is always frowning. What are you doing!"
When we think things are complicated, then we are actually not smart enough. We are just tying ourselves. This unhappiness is just asking for it and has nothing to do with others.
02: Unhappy is because of competing
Before, I thought that only poor people would be unhappy because they could not eat or drink, and were forced to be unhappy by life.
But now, I find that it doesn't seem like this.
Some people, even though they don’t have to worry about food and drink, they are still unhappy. They really don’t understand why this is happening.
people are unhappy because of comparison.
You can't see what you have, just compare what you don't have with others.
When a person always wants to compare with others, his wisdom is not enough. The final result of this is to make himself particularly unhappy and even depressed.
If you cannot compete in life, you can basically say that you are the wise man of life and will live your life as you want.
03: Unhappy is because of insufficient wisdom
Everyone wants to be a wise person, but in many cases, they are obviously wise but do not. They know that doing so will make them unhappy, but they still do it.
For example, you have a scooter, a relatively stable job, and a small house of your own.
This is originally a blessing. If you have wisdom, you will feel that your life is very comfortable.
But if you don’t have wisdom, you will compare with others, compare other people’s luxury cars, compare other people’s good jobs, and big houses.
However, such comparison will make you particularly painful because with comparison, what you have suddenly become less fragrant.
But who can I blame this? I'm afraid I can only blame you.
If you didn’t have any more from the beginning, you wouldn’t let yourself suffer so much. Simply put, this pain is something you asked for.
Many times, we always claim to be particularly wise people, but we always do things without wisdom. We obviously have no pain, but we spare no effort to find pain. How sad.
04: Unhappy is because I only remember the bitterness
Some people say that people are born sensitive to negative information in their lives. For example, 80% of the year are sunny, but people remember 20% of the rainy days.
Many times, we will do this when we do things.
We often say that the happiest life is dullness, but we often ignore the dullness in life and think that spending a day safely is normal.
If one day encounters something bumpy, which makes you very decadent, anxious, and even begins to doubt your life, then you will remember this day.
In the end, you will use this day to punish you for many days afterwards. You will gradually become complaining about the world, unable to see the path of life, and lose the direction of life.
because you only remember the bad things of that day, but forget the dullness of the past and the beauty of a certain day. In " Living " by
, isn't a wealthy life miserable?
family destroyed and became beggars.
If he only sees the bad things in his world, he probably doesn’t have the courage to continue living.
As the saying goes, everyone has different sufferings in their life, and there are many bad things, but they are just for training you. If you are entangled in this, your life will definitely be dark.
Instead of doing this, it is better to try your best to adjust yourself. Only by trying your best to adjust can you avoid letting the pain come to yourself and live a happier life.
People are alive, happiness is really important. If we can embrace happiness, we must abandon pain. We must learn to be more wise and keep ourselves away from painful things as much as possible.
05: The best way to live is to make yourself happy
The most important thing for people to be happy in their lives. We must know that happiness is our own and has nothing to do with others. In other words, if you are happy, your world will be happy; if you are in pain, your world will be painful.
When we live, we must learn to make ourselves happy. Even if we encounter difficult things, we should try to smile as much as possible and welcome what is about to happen in the best posture.
Even if you encounter difficulties in your life temporarily, try to make yourself happy.
Because, only if you make yourself happy can you have a future. If you make yourself unhappy, you will lose hope in life. Once a person loses hope in life, what is the meaning of living?
people's life is really short. Since we don't have much time to make ourselves happy, why bother to make ourselves suffer?
Whether you believe it or not, life will not deceive us. What kind of attitude you have towards life will lead to what kind of life you will get. This really can't deceive anyone.
In this world, everyone wants a smooth life, but there is no such life in this world. If you have to ask for it, then the only one who suffers is yourself.
If our lives encounter storms, we can grit our teeth, gain strength from small daily things, and seek comfort in difficulties, which is to complete self-salvation in ordinary life.
06: Written at the end
There is a sentence in the book "I love this lively life" that I feel deeply when I read it:
"Life is always like this, it cannot make people satisfied everywhere, but we must live enthusiastically."
Yes, we cannot control our lives, but we can control our attitude.
When you face all this with a positive attitude, you will be happy and make yourself wise enough.
But if you face it with a negative attitude, it means you don’t have the manifestation of wisdom, because even if life is OK, you will not live happily and let your life down.
people have a short life. You have to live happily enough in this limited time. Only by doing this can you not be in vain to visit this beautiful world.
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