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Someone said, "If you don't pursue a marriage relationship, you are just hooligans."
agrees deeply.
Two people are together, but they have no long-term plans, that is a kind of deception and play.
Like someone, fall in love with someone, and naturally want to be with the other person forever, and wish you will never be separated forever.
The more sincere the relationship, the more reluctant you are to leave, and the more reluctant you are to let go. Since the other party moved into his heart, he could not lose it.
However, a long-term relationship requires not only a heart-warming, but also a knowledge of management.
How many lovers are there? When we were together, we were in love with each other, but within a few years, we fought hard and left without looking back.
If the relationship is not well managed, it will exhaust the deep love from the beginning, and even the passion from the past will disappear. All love becomes hatred, but it cannot end well.
So, what kind of relationship can last for two people to be together?
In fact, the longest relationship between two people is only six words, that is: " Sincere", "tolerance", and "cherish".
02.
Sincere: That is the basis of feelings
Any emotion is a dance together for two people, not a carnival for one person.
One person gives and plays with, and the relationship will inevitably last forever.
A person's feelings will eventually be tired, even more sad and heartbroken, and eventually leave in despair.
Only when we are sincere to each other and exchange sincerity for sincerity can we continue together.
In love, respond to the sincerity with sincerity, each other's hearts will be warmed and everything is worth it.
Many people have the belief in love: "You are true, I am more true; you are false, I will turn around."
No one wants to do it, and their sincerity is taken for granted, or trampled on.
If you are sincere and don’t get the response you want, you will take back your sincerity and turn around and leave without hesitation.
Sincerity is the foundation of feelings, the heart-to-heart moves together, and the determination to go on together.
Inclusive: That is the necessity of feelings
Two people are together, and at the beginning, they are full of freshness; but over time, they will find each other's shortcomings and flaws, and even various contradictions will arise.
Therefore, if you want to continue for a long time, you cannot do without tolerance.
The so-called tolerance means accommodation and a concession, which means not caring about everything and accepting everything from the other party with tolerance.
will not dislike or despise the other party’s shortcomings, but will accept them calmly.
When facing the other party’s small mistakes, they will not hold on to each other’s side, but will just pass by.
Without tolerance, it will gradually become resistant and rejection, and even feel bored and hated, and will eventually part.
is not tolerant, and the more you see it, the more you dislike it, you will get angry, get angry, argue, and even fight.
Only with tolerance can we truly live in harmony, both through the wind and rain together, and through the dullness together.
No matter when, you can never leave me, not dislike me, and not give up.
Tolerance is essential for love and a long-term necessity for love.
Cherish: That is the bottom line of feelings
Human nature has a characteristic, that is, "the more you can't get things, the more you want them; the things you get are no longer cherished."
Many people are prone to making such a mistake. After having someone, the other party may belong to them, so they don't cherish them much. When
is not together, you may care a lot, take it seriously, and take it seriously.
But two people are together, especially after being together for a long time, they may not take the other party seriously, they will ignore it, ignore it, and even be indifferent. What's more, they start cheating and betrayal.
Cherish is the bottom line of love.
Once you don't cherish it, it will inevitably destroy the relationship between the two people and break the relationship between the two people.
Only by cherishing it from beginning to end, managing feelings with heart, and maintaining and caring for feelings with heart, can the feelings last forever.
After a star was betrayed, he said this: "Cherish it all."
deeply agrees. The most important thing about love is to cherish it. Cherish it is a red line that cannot be touched and a bottom line that cannot be trampled on.
03.
To put it bluntly, all feelings are a process of changing people's hearts.
As a writer said: "All solid feelings cannot be separated from sincerity; all long-term relationships cannot be without sincerity."
There is no relationship between sincerity and sincerity, and certainly it will not last long, and one party will definitely be hurt.
Two people are together. Only by communicating hearts with hearts and exchanging hearts with hearts can the relationship become stronger and stronger over time and stay together for a lifetime.
After time tempering, we will eventually understand that the longest relationship is not a relationship maintained by money, but a relationship won by sincerity, tolerance and cherishment.
May you choose a city to live in the long river of time and live with one person.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
May you find warmth and belonging in my text, thank you for your attention.
