In her awakening era, ask yourself, in close relationships, do you love yourself enough to accept yourself?
Recently, he did an emotional consultation case. The heroine was very anxious for her husband to say that she was not beautiful enough, and also felt frustrated and inferior because her husband said that his colleagues all thought he could find a girl who was more beautiful than her.
In fact, since the heroine's husband chose herself among multiple options, there must be factors worthy of her. It is just because of human nature that men seem to forget their original intention of choosing and forget what they saw when they decided to marry their wife. The wife must have a better quality that is worth more than being beautiful.
The heroine gradually forgot her confidence in her husband's day after day suppression, and forgot that she is worthy of having beautiful love and nourishing her body and mind. In an intimate relationship, in addition to seeing clearly the inability to accept or inferiority complex caused by a man's personality weakness, the heroine should also learn to love herself well and reject the intentional or unintentional PUA in an intimate relationship. Stay aware and never be completely dominated by the other party’s low emotional intelligence expression.
Adhering to the following principles will help women who are prone to fall into love brain to be an awakened and self-framed new era heroine.
Learn to reject uncomfortable interpersonal relationships and environments. If you feel that the other person is a person who does not love you and consumes you, communicate honestly and maintain a sense of psychological independence and distance.
Take care of your feelings and don’t do things that are bad for yourself unless the other party is very worth it;
Cultivate yourself as your daughter, read more books and learn exercise, and keep healthy and regular physical examinations;
In love (intimate relationship), 70% focus on yourself, 30% give to men, don’t be a romantic brain, don’t bother studying how a man thinks of himself in his heart;
Keep confident, only a confident woman has the courage to change the bad situation;
Enable yourself to make mistakes, do not fight in the accidental mistakes, don’t criticize yourself in your heart, and do not feel too guilty because of the other party’s accusations;
Don’t guess why others don’t like you, accept the fact that someone doesn’t like you, don’t please; be the real one you like, and keep improving your charm.
It’s good to be the real one you like;
Remember, loving yourself is not only a material desire, but also a spiritual independence, behavioral independence, and dare to say no to things you don’t like. Regarding this, in actual work, I found that many women have never seemed to be independent in years of intimate relationships, and they don’t know what freedom or independence means in love;
Be a truly independent and stable core, and once you find that the other person is trying to control you, stay alert. In addition, the arrangement of family division of labor is cooperation, not helpless concessions. If a man cannot realize the value of a housewife's labor and gives enough respect, he must not easily sacrifice a woman's career prospects and try to maintain family balance and stability.
