seems to be always there. One day, when you send a message to someone, you will find that the message is rejected.
Or, when you look through your address book and see someone and want to check the other person's circle of friends, you will find that you can't read it at all. There is only one line in the circle of friends, and you can't send messages to the other person at all.
Yes, at a certain moment when you didn’t know, the other party had blocked you. While blocking
, it may also choose to delete it, leaving no room for you to disappear into the other party’s address book.
has never blocked a person, but is blocked by the other party. It is inevitable that your mood will be affected.
will be a little surprised, don’t understand why the other party is like this, and you will also be a little unaware of how to deal with your emotions and this relationship.
Whenever this happens, you don’t have to be confused. You can do it completely according to the specific situation.
irrelevant people, just block them.
There are always times in life. For some reasons, if you add someone, you always thought that you will have some interactions in the future, become familiar with each other, and you will have some contacts.
But in fact, after adding, there will always be some people who will not have any contact with you at all.
You will not have anything to do, you need to find the other party, and the other party will not have anything to do, you need to find you.
For each other, you are just passers-by, and you are completely unimportant at all. Even later, you can't remember who the other party is and why you added it yourself. The same is true for the other party.
If this is the case, it doesn’t matter at all. Then some people may choose to clean up you and don’t want you to stay in the friend list all the time, and think that it is not necessary.
If you are someone who blocks you and is just such an existence that is not important at all, then you really don’t have to take it seriously.
There is no need to care about who blocked him first. You just need to use the same method to block him and block him too.
Originally, there are never many people who are truly important in life. Even if some people come for a while and leave, it will not have any impact on your life at all, and you don’t have to take it seriously at all, and there is no need to mind.
is very close, find a way to recover.
is also possible. The person who blocks you is not only not a person who is not important at all, but is very important.
For example, if there is a problem between you and your partner, in anger, the other party chooses to block you and refuses to pay attention to you.
There will be some conflicts between lovers, which is normal. No matter what happens, some people will be more rational and will deal with it well, but some people will be really impulsive and directly use very irrational methods.
The moment when I was emotional, I couldn't care about so much. I only knew that I didn't want to pay attention to this moment and didn't want to have any connection. Even thinking that the other party was still on my list, I felt a little unbearable. If there is a problem with
, it is indeed not a good habit. However, when you meet such a person, of course you cannot just let it go, and you still have to take responsibility and solve the problem.
After all, the relationship between each other cannot end like this. There will be a future and this long time.
Faced with this situation, give the other party a little time to calm down. Don’t be too long, just a few hours to a day. Then you have to take the initiative to contact the other party, make peace with the other party, and let the other party recover.
A person who just chooses to block because of impulse. Once the emotions pass, everything will pass and you will not be allowed to stay on the blacklist all the time. As for this bad habit, it can also help the other party improve slowly.
was once related, so it depends on the situation.
In this world, except for strangeness and intimacy, relationships with more people often have some intersections at a certain period of time.
used to be a colleague, so I had some contacts, used to be friends, and went through the process together. I had been going on for a while because of some business, and I seemed to be quite close to each other, but all of this changed later.
Maybe it was a city, a job, or maybe it was a different pursuit of each other later. Anyway, the relationship began to become increasingly weak and no longer as it used to be.
Even so, in your heart, you didn’t actually think about blocking the other party, but the other party blocked you first and took the initiative to break off the connection.
. Although it is a bit regretful for those who don’t want to have anything to do with you again, if there is no entanglement between you and there is no need to keep in touch with you, then since the other party chooses to leave, you just need to make it happen.
There will always be people who will leave without saying goodbye after a brief intercourse. Even if you are reluctant to leave, you still have to learn to get used to it.
Of course, if the other party owes you money, it is a debt to you and choose to use this method to escape from you, then you naturally cannot just forget it. Just find the other party and ask the other party to return everything you owed you.
After the two clearances, we will disconnect from the contact and no longer have any entanglements with such people.
is blocked by others, this is not a big deal.
Everyone is actually the same. They will block some people, and you will, of course others will do it.
It’s just that when you block someone, you never thought about the other person’s feelings, and when the other person blocks you, you never thought about yours.
Since you can block others so lightly, you must allow others to treat you like this, even if that person is someone you don’t want to treat you like this. It's no big deal, just accept reality.
Most people, even if they lose it, it will not cause any trouble to your life at all.
is an important person, it’s okay. Since it’s important, the other party will naturally not really leave.
accepts the blockade calmly, let go of what should be let go, and find what should be found. This is really nothing.
text/Tan Meng
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