Since the two of us are in love and we will decide for a hundred years.
Watching the internet celebrity songs on Douyin, I remembered the blind date daughter again. It has become a thing of the past. My blind date daughter and I have not been able to get together. Perhaps it is beauty that I can’t get. The blind date daughter is still a goddess in my heart. The blind date girl has long become a woman. It is meaningless for me to forget her, but I just can't forget her.
I still remember what my blind date girl once said to me, and of course I also said sad things to me, she said she would never forget them in her life.
The blind date girl proposed to break up, but she said it calmly. The blind date said that the breakup was so great, and others divorced after getting married. The blind date girl said, are you afraid that you will not be able to find it in the future after breaking up with me? I won’t answer, that’s right.
Blind date says we will divorce even if we get married, and this is also possible. I have nothing to do until now, that is, I have no house, and there is no house in the county town. In our hometown, more than half of them have bought houses in the county town. There is no car. Although there are cheaper second-hand scooters, I don’t have a driver’s license. At work, I am currently working as a pure coolie, with a hopeless future and no future. I am 40 years old. Liang Er, Guangxi, only got married and had children when he was 49 years old, and his life began, which was the minority.
The blind date girl said I'm sorry, but she wasn't sorry either. Less than a month after we broke up, I heard that she was with someone else, it was quite fast. We didn't break up. They may have been in contact all the time. There should be no need to guess this. I also have something wrong with the blind date girl.
I am quite destined to be with my blind date daughter. In early 2006, I had her phone number, and it was my sister who told me. At that time, my blind date girl was in Dongguan , and I was in Shenzhen. On Valentine's Day evening on February 14, I called my blind date girl and didn't chat for a long time, so I didn't know what to say.
As early as 2001, at the entrance of the handbag factory in Fucheng, Dongguan, I heard that the blind date girl was in that factory. At that time, the brother of the blind date girl was in the construction team. One day, I absent from work and went shopping on the street. I met three people from the construction team, including my second brother, seventh brother, and the brother of the blind date girl. When my second brother saw me, he said he had left the factory again. I lied that he was working in the night shift and did not leave the factory. Then I walked around with them and walked to the door of the handbag factory. I casually asked my blind date girl, is your sister in this factory? My blind date girl thought I wanted to chase her, but he said, "It's in this factory, if you want to chase her, go and do whatever you want to take her to sleep, I won't say anything." In other words, he supported it and did not object. If he had taken action, he would have become my wife long ago. But I didn't like her at that time. I chased my fourth sister-in-law in the first half of 2001. At that time, my fourth brother didn't know her fourth sister-in-law, and she was relatively mature at that time. At that time, I had no money. I either left my own way or was fired when I entered the factory. I saved several factories and couldn't protect myself, so I had to have money if I liked it. At the end of 2001, my daughter went back to her hometown early, but I didn’t.
In April 2006, I went to Houjie, Dongguan. My blind date girl was in Henry, Sangyuan, Dongcheng. When I had time, I wanted to make an appointment with her, but the phone could not be reached. I asked my sister and said she was snatched by a speed car.
When I was on vacation in the factory, I went to Henry, Sangyuan, hoping to meet my blind date daughter by chance. I went around Sangyuan Industrial Zone for a while, and there were people coming and going at get off work, but I didn’t meet by chance. At that time, my second brother was working on a construction site near Sangyuan, and by the way, I went to my second brother to take a seat. The construction team asked me if I was here to find a girlfriend, but I didn’t say yes.
If the blind date girl’s mobile phone was not robbed by the speed car and I made an appointment with her, would she have a good time to talk about love, get married and have children?
There is no contact, is the fate over?
There is no end, and there is still entanglement behind it. At the end of 2006, the blind date girl went home. My family found out that the blind date girl was still in the window period, so they called me to go home, which was considered a formal blind date.
The family also made some preparations, and first found a matchmaker to pass the message, and her family agreed.
What I know about my family also told me that the blind date girl had an ex. The ex went to talk to her for several nights in a row. The blind date girl originally planned to agree, but her ex-father's relatives said bad things about the blind date girl behind her back, saying that she was not very good. After it was reported to the blind date girl's family, her family firmly opposed it and later blew it.
On the day I got home, I saw the mother of my ex-dressing daughter passing by my doorstep, which was a little pitiful. Actually, I don’t need to be pitiful. Your son’s breakup has nothing to do with me, and he has been breaking up for a year. Rural women like to tell fortunes. In the past, I heard from the fairy that the ex-boyfriend of a blind date had a bad feng shui and would be able to kill children and grandchildren. It was not about the ancestral grave, and I didn’t know whether it was true or false. But his family is not very good until now. His three siblings died of illness and did not get married. None of the two brothers can marry a wife until now.
That night, I was ready to go to my daughter's house to go to my blind date. I missed her too. My family prepared big white rabbit milk candy for me, and I took it to me tonight.
The blind date girl seemed to know that I would come and was prepared. Her hair was still wet, and she might have just washed and not dried. I asked her when she would come back, and she said she had been here for a few days, and then we exchanged numbers.
Sit in the living room for a while while watching TV and chatting. Later, I went to the kitchen to roast the fire. The blind date girl asked me, and I heard that you were going back to Dongguan in advance. I said yes, the blind date girl said why, I said your ex is coming soon in a few days, and the blind date girl said that her ex would not come to her house again. In other words, I'll be relieved, my ex won't come and get entangled.
From here, you can see that my emotional intelligence negative numbers, this is a silly, and there are even more stupid ones behind it.
I am a little worried that my ex is jealous. I can’t interfere when there are many people. I don’t like to gather together. Her ex is talking more than me. Will she isolate me? I thought about this too much. Her ex doesn’t have that ability. It would be better if I pretended not to know that she had an ex.
The blind date girl asked why she left in advance. If I said, don’t worry, I will take you with me with me. Will she feel warmer?
The blind date girl said, if she is sincere, she will stay, if she is not sincere, she will leave, I said she is sincere.
"I'm not very beautiful either. What if you don't want me in the future?" said the blind date girl, "Just find a kitchen knife to kill me," I said.
The blind date girl said that she didn't want to stay at home, and those women would gossip and point fingers, and when would her aunt ask her to go back to Dongguan to take her cousin with her.
The next day, I had nothing to say, so the two of them watched TV together for a while. During this period, the blind date girl also told me her heart. The blind date girl said, "Are you urging me at home?" My brother is the same."
I said something I shouldn't have said, I said, isn't it? I always urged me to make an appointment every day and taught me how to say it before coming. I asked when I went back.
I really want to slap myself twice! How can you say these words to the blind date girl?
Sit for a while and I came back without saying anything. The blind date girl also got up and stopped at the door. I said I would bring the food tomorrow. The blind date girl said, don’t bring it first. If I throw it outside the door, don’t be shy. The blind date girl sent it to her door. She closed the door after I left.
I came back and told my family that it was okay, so I would give you a red envelope first. The custom in our place is that if you seal a red envelope, it is usually 600 yuan or 800 yuan, which is considered to be engaged.
I conveyed the meaning of my family. The blind date girl said she should consider it, so she should think carefully and think about it for a day before she answered.
I went with the red envelope in the afternoon. My blind date girl happened to be at home. I went with 600 red envelopes to her, and she collected them. The blind date girl said, don’t worry, I won’t leave you in the future, I said, this is called modernization. "What are you doing with vegetables? Neighbors and relatives know what's the point," said the blind date girl, "I didn't answer." I didn't go to her house that night.
The red envelope was received, which means she accepted the engagement and agreed. I was going to go back to Dongguan. The meaning of my home was that was inappropriate and I had to have a meal. It was difficult to say hello to meet in the future, so I would rather take the food to her house for a meal together.
My concern is that I am afraid that she will really be thrown away or disappear. I am not here when I went there, and it is difficult to end and I didn’t take it.
My sister and my elder brother agree, saying that it would be fine if they were taken, but the blind date girl was telling a lie. My elder brother analyzed it very well, it was impossible for a blind date girl to say, OK, bring it to you.
My mother went to ask the aunt of the blind date girl and said that she would not let my son take the food and what should she do? Her aunt said that she should take it. Let's have a meal together, but I was still depressed.
Our rural market day is 369, which means two days are the market day. My father advised me to get the vegetables, which means it was a good day. I would buy some vegetables at the market to take them tonight. I was still indifferent. My father was in a bad mood and was drunk all day long.
During this period, she also went to talk to her father. Her father said, "You have married a daughter, and I have married a daughter, so I don't care about it at home anymore. Let them talk to themselves and take it away directly."
My three siblings are the eldest, one sister and the other is the younger brother, my sister was already married at that time. The blind date girl has four siblings in her family. She is the youngest, with two sisters and one older brother, and both of her sisters are married.
My mother asked the matchmaker to discuss it, and the matchmaker said, if you don’t take it, you won’t take it. Then stay until the New Year before going to Guangdong together. When you have time, you will often talk to her to enhance your relationship. Go to her now and I said we had nothing to say when we made an appointment.
The man took the wine and food to recognize his relatives, but the woman refused to eat it, which means she did not agree. There were previous examples in our place, and it was not impossible. But they are quite open-minded, and it’s no big deal if they don’t eat. If they don’t eat, they will take it home and invite a few friends to toast. My third and fourth brothers took the wine and food to recognize their relatives, but the woman refused. She refused and refused to eat at first. She said it hard for a long time and delayed it until midnight.
Recognizing relatives means that the man takes some wine and food to the woman's house, and asks a few relatives and friends to have a meal together. After recognizing relatives and friends, he changed his words. The next step is to get married, and I didn't understand at that time.
A few days later, night and dusk came, and I also went to see my blind date daughter at night. I also missed her and my family urged me. As I walked, I thought about what to say when I arrived at her house. I didn’t think about the lines and asked when I asked. It was all because the road was too close.
I looked in through the crack of her house to see if she was in the living room. If she was in the living room, I would go in and sit for a while. I would leave after she stopped living room and didn't see it for several nights.
At night, I went to her house as usual, and went to the door without thinking about what to say. I wandered for a while, and went home like a thief.
A few years ago, the countryside started growing corn. My blind date girl also went to grow corn in the morning. I saw her busy working in the fields. I didn't go over to talk to her, and I didn't know what to say. It's not right if I went there, nor if I didn't go there. I'm going there. With what kind of identity, I can't go there, but I can't speak for it. I'm obviously in front of me but I pretend not to see it.
As for taking the vegetables to her house, if I don’t take them, my family means it’s difficult to say hello to relatives, and I’m asking for the opinions of the blind date girl, and I hope she nodded in agreement.
That is impossible. She will not say it even if she agrees. This is the woman's thoughts. If she agrees, she is a fool. If she is not stupid, I am stupid. I can't guess, I'll be slap in the face now. In the entanglement in the future, the blind date said that I couldn't grasp her heart, which was a story later. The blind date girl said that her ex can't even grasp my heart, let alone you, so I think her ex is also stupid.
The people around me know that we are talking about a partner, but I don’t know whether we are successful or not, including my ex-blind date. If I don’t show any sincerity and let others know that I love her, I want to secretly hold the beautiful woman. It’s impossible. Later, the blind date girl said that breaking up was a natural thing, and it laid the foreshadowing from here.
Her father said it would be okay to take it away directly. Even though I was in a small mountain village, I looked down and saw each other. Neither of my parents had officially gathered together. I didn’t invite a meal and took his daughter away. That was not reasonable.
The blind date girl said a compromise plan. Or you go first, I will go down after the fifth day of the New Year, and we will be together at that time. What the blind date girl said was a promise.
I left half a month before New Year's Eve, and went to Dongguan alone, but went home for a blind date but came out alone. Is there still a chance to go there? The day before I left, I didn’t tell her and left without saying goodbye.
After the fifth day of the New Year, the blind date girl came out, not alone, but I made a plan. The blind date girl came out alone, I went to pick her up, and then went to the good factory together.
However, the blind date girl did not come alone, but had a few colleagues, including a blind date girl, brother-in-law, and my cousin, among them, there was a blind date girl's ex-girlfriend, which made me a little angry. How could this ex come out together? I learned that they took the bus to , Chang'an, at 2 or 3 o'clock in the evening, and then chartered a bus to Daojiao.
The blind date girl was at her sister's place in Daojiao. She called me at noon the next day and said, "Your cousin is here too, will you come." It made me a little unhappy. Why did I get involved with my cousin? I went to Daojiao to see my cousin.
The next day, I took a day off to Daojiao, but my blind date girl didn't come to Houjie with me. We made an appointment alone for a while in the evening, and I put my hand on her shoulder, but she didn't resist. My cousin also wants to chase the blind date daughter. If it weren't for me first, he would also chase him. I told the blind date daughter, but she didn't say anything.
I said when we made an appointment, someone followed me, and the blind date girl said excitedly, "Who is it, I didn't tell me about her." The matchmaker's son told me before that he went to peek at me in the evening, and the two of them sat watching TV without saying a word.
It turned out that there were eyes staring at me, and the matchmaker's son also fell in love with the blind date girl. In addition to my ex, my opponent also had the matchmaker's son, but I didn't expect it at the time. The matchmaker's son may have always been in contact with his blind date daughter, but I am not without a chance.
After a while, she urged me to go back first. I said stupidly that the driver of the motorcycle didn't call me, why are you anxious? I wanted to wait a little longer, and chatted for a while. I said what I was afraid of when I went to Houjie with me. She said I would say it later. If I kissed her that night, it would be fine.
Later I came back, and I went back to Houjie by myself and sent a message saying that I missed her and she didn't reply. The message may have been sent incorrectly. It should be said that taking care of yourself, or something else. It would be better to see you when you have time. No wonder she didn't reply and didn't hug her before leaving.
I felt discouraged after coming back. I felt hopeless and didn't call.
Fourth brother is really my nemesis. The first time I had a quarrel with my blind date daughter was related to him. I finally broke up with the blind date daughter, which was also related to him, and I will talk about it later. The fourth brother and the fourth sister-in-law are in a relationship, of course they are already in harmony now. The fourth brother has bought land and built a house in the county town. The family lives in the county town, which is pretty good on the surface. The fourth sister-in-law didn’t run away from home. At that time, the fourth brother wanted to divorce. Before the New Year, the fourth brother did not return to his hometown in Dongguan. After the New Year, the fourth sister-in-law went to Dongguan. Maybe she was going to find the fourth brother, but the fourth brother did not meet with the fourth sister-in-law. The fourth sister-in-law went to Dongguan. Someone told the fourth brother in his hometown that the fourth sister-in-law came out and the fourth brother went back to his hometown.
I don’t know where the blind date girl goes to the factory. After a while, my fourth brother called me and asked me to ask my fourth sister-in-law if she had gone out to go to the blind date girl. In the Zhouwu in Dongcheng, the fourth sister-in-law is the distant cousin of the blind date girl, and they are also best friends.
It is OK to ask, but this question is not right. I called the blind date girl and another woman answered it. The other party asked me who I was, and did the blind date girl have no notes on me. I asked the blind date girl, and the other party replied that she was not there. I called again after a while, but the other party still said they were not here. They called four times that day at noon. Finally, I asked when the blind date girl would come, and the other party said they didn't know.
I went to bed in the dormitory to call my daughter on the bed in the evening, and finally came. It was the daughter who answered the blind date. The voice I hadn’t seen and was familiar to me for a long time. I asked my fourth sister-in-law if she had gone there. The girl on the blind date said that my sister-in-law had come out. I don’t know where she went. I asked my blind date girl if she had answered the phone at noon today. The blind date girl said, "Don't be angry with me, okay?" After that, she hung up the phone.
It’s not that I don’t miss my blind date daughter, but it’s mainly because I have nothing to say. After a while, I called the blind date daughter. The second time we called, we started arguing. The blind date girl was furious. She said, “Do you still think of me? You don’t know if I die, let’s break up.” I was anxious for a moment and didn't admit my mistakes with her and coax her well. I threatened me, "Do you break up if you say you'll break up?" I don't know. If you dare to break up, I'll write my name upside down." She scores even if she doesn’t score, she just insists on score. I said she deceived her relationship, and the blind date girl said, do I have feelings for you? I accepted you only because I had no choice.
I was so angry that I hung up the phone. I actually called and said something about separation from life and death. I told him to live a good life in the future, and my blind date daughter would die together. My brother asked me about the number of my blind date girl, and then called her. My brother said that my brother is an honest man, and he only had this opportunity. After missing it, he would not be able to find it. Is it okay to give him a chance?
There was no separation between us, but from then on, our conversation was basically related to breaking up. Some of me called her, and some of the blind date girls called her first. The blind date girl asked me
Why didn’t we break up? I said I love her, but she said she couldn’t feel it. I said I would change it in the future, but she didn't believe it. The blind date girl came up with the old account and accused me of leaving without saying goodbye the day I left. Is this what I love about her?
The day I called her, she was not in the factory. It was her cousin who answered the phone, saying that I was a witch and answered the phone to someone else on purpose, but she didn't mean it.
The blind date girl said that her cousin’s boyfriend is in Shenzhen and comes to accompany her cousin every weekend and often chats on the phone. And what did I give to her? An ordinary friend also sends a message every day, calling every three days, saying that I don’t care about her, saying that she is so pitiful, and that she has no place to go on weekends, so she just lie in the dormitory.
We also discussed the accusations of the blind date girl. I went to Daojiao to pick you up. If you don’t come, I feel hopeless. I have something to say about the phone, but I don’t want to break up.
As for parting without saying goodbye, I didn’t think I was wrong at that time, but it was actually a big mistake. She was a little inferior at that time. If I were a woman, you came to propose marriage but left without saying goodbye. If you left quietly, you would be sad. As soon as I left, she had reason to say goodbye. Why? I will go to Dongguan to sleep for you after the New Year, so I can’t blame her.
In the entanglement in the future, I accused her of setting up a pre-set plan, saying something wrong and not keeping her word. In fact, she did not set up a plan, because I made a mistake in judgment. If I had taken the wine and food to her house to recognize her relatives before leaving, she might have refused, but she wouldn't have thrown it away. The blind date girl later said that I didn’t understand her heart, and the blind date girl also said, “Who am I from you?” Have I eaten your meal?
She said this, but I was still not enlightened. Until I broke up, it was really awesome to be able to marry my wife with my emotional intelligence. It's a pity to think about it now. If I took the wine and food to recognize my relatives, she would not throw it away or refuse. If the blind date girl doesn't love me, she will accept me. This is a mistake in one step for life.
We broke up, and my family knew about it. My aunt told me that she said you don’t agree to break up. I obey my aunt and don’t break up. The blind date girl had to put down her figure and persuade her. Didn’t you say you love me? Didn’t you say you want me to live a good life? I have true love. Let’s break up. I will be friends in the future.
I cursed, farted, and wanted to coax me to break up, is it true, who is true love? She didn't say anything, and I asked if it was her ex, and she denied it. She revealed that if she breaks up, she may marry her hometown and may marry far away. I really couldn't imagine who she was going to marry in her hometown, so I had to doubt her ex-boy.
The blind date girl actually said, "I told me to fight with my true love now, whoever wins will win." I said, just hit it, you think I'm afraid, so I'll call my second brother to go with you, and you can tell me the time and place. The blind date girl said, "Yes, do you think I don't know. Your second brother supports you, your seventh brother supports you, and your brother has called me. You have someone to support me, but I have no one to support me (break up)."
One Sunday, it rained, not too much. I knew that my blind date girl was in Zhouwu, Dongcheng, and I had never been there. Actually, I was at work that day and didn’t have a rest. At noon, I sent a message to my blind date girl, I won’t go to your place today, and it would be a bad omen to make an appointment on a rainy day. I'm just talking, that is, chatting. There is a song called "Breakup is always in the rain." I also heard in our hometown that it's not possible to make an appointment on rainy days, and we can get a breakup.
The blind date girl was angry. That night, my cousin called and said that it was a bad sign of rainy days. Don’t make her angry. Be kind to her and coax her. I also agreed and got it. Of course, it was the blind date girl who told my cousin that my cousin and my blind date girl were neighbors and best friends. My real sister and her blind date girl had a good time before.
My brother-in-law also called in the evening, and it was similar to what my cousin said. She was kind to her blind date girl and wanted to coax her. My sister married into a blind date girl family, and her blind date girl will also tell her about it.
I should have admitted my mistake with the blind date girl, but later I still quarreled as usual, and forgot to say that I didn't explain, as if it didn't happen.
There is a song called "Pretend". I like to listen. Pretend to be cheerful together, pretend to be like to kiss me... Once when I started arguing, I missed it. I said I went on a blind date girl, don't pretend. She asked, tell me, what am I pretending, I can't answer. I'm sending messages to each other, so I won't reply.
The blind date girl refused to give in. After a few days, I called to ask, but I couldn't say it. She talked about other things for a while. May Day was coming, and I said I would go to your place on May Day. She said, "Don't come over on May Day, and I will not be here if you come."
Two days off on May Day, the factory paid a salary on April 30, not a cash deposit, but it was paid to a rural credit union. I went to withdraw money on May Day first, and there were two teller machines next to the credit union. The queue was very long and it was not received until almost noon.
The blind date girl is in Zhouwu, Dongcheng. There is no direct bus from Houjie to Zhouwu. I took the Nancheng Bus Station first and called the blind date girl, but I didn't answer. It was 2007, and my mobile phone was charged in two-way terms. Is there no phone bill? I bought a recharge card, charged her 50 yuan, and then called and answered. He cursed as soon as he answered, do you think I'll marry you if you charge me the phone bill? I felt that she was avoiding me, and I was angry. I said, "A gentle snake bites people and will die. Don't be upset, it will die." What does she mean? I said, don't try to run away, the heads will be separated by then." She said, I'll separate my heads. I said, if you say it or not, I see where you can hide. After saying that, I hung up the phone and was so angry that I was ready to return to Houjie, and I was bored.
After a while, the phone rang and the blind date girl called. She said, "I'm in Daojiao, come on, it's where you came last time. This time, the tone was gentle and a 180-degree turn. You have also changed too quickly. Because I said something too extreme just now, I just said I wanted to kill her, but I dare not go again. I said, you are in Daojiao, I won’t go.
"I am really in Daojiao", the blind date girl said sincerely, "If you don't believe me, you can ask my sister if you don't believe me." As she said, she handed the phone to her sister, but I didn't say anything, "It's okay if you don't ask your sixth brother, your sixth brother is here too." She handed the phone to my sixth brother. I heard the lively sound over there, and they were drinking and playing rock-scissors, so I quickly hung up the phone, and didn't tell my sixth brother.
In our village, there are several working in Daojiao. When they are not busy, they usually gather at their blind dates and their brother-in-law rent a house. When they get together, they just talk about family matters, brags and jokes. In a crowded place, I can't get in, so I just smiled foolishly with them, so I don't want to go.
The last time I went to Daojiao to pick me up, my daughter's ex-date was there, and she seemed to be unfriendly to me. He smoked, and he didn't want to give it to me. I got together to drink some at night, but didn't clink glasses with him, and didn't say a few polite words. I had to go back to Houjie tonight, and I didn't stay for a long time.
I was thinking about it again, is there any explosion in it? Did the blind date girl ask me to go over and kill me with her ex? If the fight starts, the daughter-in-law of the blind date will stand on her ex-side. They are buddies and their relationship is stronger than me.
I wandered on the road and walked to the shade of trees. I didn't know what to do. The blind date girl called again and asked where I was. I said that at the station, the blind date girl lowered her figure and persuaded her like coaxing a child. Come on, what are you afraid of? Didn't you say you miss me? I still hesitated and said I would go again in the future. After that, when will the blind date girl persuade her to remain indifferent and leave it alone?
In the evening, night is late, and I stop at the bridgehead of Jianshazhou Bridge, which is also the intersection of Daojiao Road. My blind date girl called me repeatedly and asked where I was. Haven’t you come yet? Come quickly, I’ll wait for you. I still said that in the future, the blind date girl said, "Didn't you say I don't appreciate it? If you don't come, don't blame me for not appreciating it in the future.
Horsing at the intersection of Daojiao Road, the bus from Dongguan Cultural Plaza to Daojiao passes through Gaobu intersection and Jianshazhou Bridge. After several trips, I never got on the bus. Turning around and taking bus No. 67, Ma Yong headed to Chang'an, passing through the thick street, and came back with his tired body.
