Text/Da Meng has no perfect partner, nor a perfect marriage. When men and women get along together, they will sooner or later become tired. If they spend enough time together, they will inevitably feel emotionally withdrawn because they lose their freshness. What love is afraid o

text/Da Meng

There is no perfect partner, nor a perfect marriage. When men and women get along together, they will sooner or later become tired.

spend enough time together, and it is inevitable that they will feel emotionally withdrawn because they lose their freshness.

What love is afraid of is coldness. It is because they want to go on together, but they can only choose to withdraw from each other's lives halfway.

It is difficult to continue in marriage without the nourishment of love, but true love is not a heart-warming, but a heart-to-peace.

is to sincerely put the other party in the bone marrow after recognizing a person.

However, women who can make men cherish so much are not ordinary people, and they must have given men a unique feeling.

Women who are good at doing the "three things" in marriage often make men particularly valued, and it is difficult for anyone to replace the other person's position in their minds.

1. It has strong empathy, can understand the uneasiness in a man's heart, and provide timely comfort

Life is like a vast ocean. If you are not careful, you will rush over to a huge wave, knocking down those who are struggling to row, and pushing them to a state of no return.

As the main supporter and operator of life, men bear heavy responsibilities, but people are not gods. Even if they are as strong as men, they will be wronged in the process of hard work and want to find a place to release their uneasy emotions.

A woman’s empathy ability is the best medicine for men when they are uneasy. It is like the rain of apricot blossoms that are wet with clothes, and like the wind of willows that are not cold on the face. It will make men feel that their hearts are understood, and their emotions have a good outlet for venting, and most of the injured hearts will be healed.

Men do not want to encounter career dissatisfaction and be troubled by their boss or clients. When they return home, they are chattering women who need to wear masks outside and get along with others. When they return home, they still need to spend time to make their lover happy, and they will feel tired.

A smart woman can keenly feel the fragility in her husband's emotions and the uneasiness in her emotions, and do things that make her partner feel comfortable.

2. Have a sense of boundaries when doing things, respect the privacy between husband and wife, and do not casually suspect men

Psychologists say that sincerity is the most common and popular way of getting along with each other.

This is especially true between husband and wife. They trust each other and have no suspicion. Knowing that the other party is a partner who can cooperate with each other for a lifetime in marriage, they can maintain enough relaxation in their relationship.

Women who have a sense of boundaries in doing things will gain more trust from men, so that men can feel at ease to shine their backs to their wives, get along with each other, and not be afraid of emotional betrayal and hurt.

firmly believe in what a man says, without too much suspicion, and without too many behaviors to verify. Giving men with 100% trust will plant fertile seeds in love, allowing it to take root and sprout under the nourishment of love until the relationship between them is consolidated into destruction.

A woman’s sense of boundaries is not only reflected in respecting the privacy and words of men, but also in being able to practice it yourself, not betray marriage, and actively maintain a safe social distance from other opposite sexes, giving her men enough sense of security. A woman like

will make men feel at ease in their relationships and will also make men feel confident and responsible for giving back the same love.

3. Know how to think from the perspective of others, respect each other's different values, and do not interfere with each other

. It is said that in a good marriage, two people should maintain the same viewpoint. Only in this way can we have enough commonalities when we get along, so that we will not cause differences and quarrels and affect our relationships due to small things in life.

In fact, the true consistency of the three views is not exactly the same or similar to each other, but because of liking, it is recognized and accepted. Even if you know that there are too many differences and differences between the two, you can still respect the other party’s habits and choices to the greatest extent.

does not force the other party to change for themselves, nor does it require the other half to give up their hobbies and cognition.

will make women who are willing to spend their whole life with each other's life characteristics of knowing how to think from the perspective of others.

Men are dull and not good at speaking, so they do not require the other party to tell endless love words to themselves every day; knowing that men do not like doing housework and are more willing to do challenging things, they no longer devote their feelings to small things like housework, and regard it as a standard for considering whether a man truly loves himself.

Thinking from the perspective of others is "I am willing to stand from your perspective and understand everything about you". For men, it is a respect and understanding.

Women who can make men addicted must have outstanding features that other women do not have.

A man is willing to fall in love with someone, and he is undoubtedly feeling loved from the other person. In the process of being loved, the understanding and warmth felt from his partner are all needed in spiritual pursuits.

Feeling love is more willing to give love.

Couples are together and are willing to water the flowers of love together so that they can get along with each other for a longer time.

I am Dameng, an emotional counselor, committed to healing myself, and want to help more friends who encounter emotional problems solve problems. If you have emotional problems, please feel free to come to me.