Introduction:
58-year-old aunt cried: The people who danced ballroom dance are really scary, I am really scared. What's going on? Why does this look? Let's take a look together.
58-year-old Aunt He:
I am also like most elderly people. It's very boring after retirement. I originally danced square dance. But it was too noisy to dance square dance, I couldn't stand it. That music was so loud. But if you don’t make the music too loudly, you can’t dance because there are too many people dancing. I won't lower the music for you alone, because everyone wants to dance, and you are not dancing alone. I stopped dancing squares later. Instead, I chose a quieter ballroom dance. The environment is relatively elegant and suitable for me. I'm also very scared to dance square dance. One thing is that I can't dance slowly. I am a little clumsy and I can easily forget to shoot every time I dance square dance. Everyone turned around and I was still in front of me. Then everyone looked at me and felt that I wanted to jump faster, but my hands and feet were not in harmony. This situation has happened many times, and every time I am shameless and stop jumping.
I can’t do anything about it either. I just don’t have the same hands and feet. I was thinking about that beat in my mind, but my hands and feet couldn’t reach that speed. So I slowed down. It’s different to dance ballroom dance. Ballroom dance is danced by two people. You two can be faster or slower. Just two people can adapt to the rhythm. There is no need to care about other people’s rhythm. How others dance has nothing to do with you. Square dance is different. Square dance is danced by everyone in a coordinated manner. It’s easy to see if you are slow alone. Ballroom dance is different. You are dancing yours and I am dancing ours. So now for square dance, I prefer ballroom dance. And you can dance and chat while dancing, talking and laughing, but you can’t do it. Square dance is too noisy and you can’t hear what the other party is saying.
I have been dancing ballroom dance for two years, but I am really scared now and will never dance ballroom dance again. Today I told this matter to make all aunts pay attention. Many things do not only happen in TV series, but also happen to us. Just like what happens to me, it may also happen to everyone, so everyone should pay attention. If you don’t pay attention, you may suffer the next one. Because people who dance ballroom dance are more mixed, there are all kinds of people. The man who danced with me at the beginning was single. Then he kept pursuing me and wanted to be with me. Don't stop dancing with him in a few days. First, I think this is not good. After all, I have a husband. Second, he knows that I have a husband, but he still treats me like this. But the man said he didn't care about me, what's the matter with having a husband? As long as I'm with him, it's fine.
He could say such words. I was very angry and decided not to dance with him. But if I stopped dancing with him, he would not come to harass me. He didn't let others dance with me, and he told others what was wrong with me, and what was wrong with me? Said so many bad gossips. I used to think that people who dance ballroom dance would be so mixed, but now I know that there are all kinds of people, and they will do whatever they want to achieve their goals. It can also be said that this is a way for those who are artificial to understand boredom. I really can't accept it. I can't sell myself for dancing. Although I am old now, I should also be responsible for myself, my family and my husband. I also heard that there is an aunt who is about the same age as me and has encountered the same situation. It was because this aunt did not refuse or she could not refuse, and in the end the aunt destroyed her family with her own hands.
Later, the aunt didn't dare to dance anymore, and was even scared, and didn't know how to face it.How to say it, most elderly people don’t want to destroy their families, but many times it’s different from not wanting to refuse. You don’t want to destroy your family, but you don’t refuse, or others keep teaching you badly. These people are too bad. It's so restless to dance a ballroom dance. But I never encountered such a thing when I was dancing square dance before. Maybe it’s because I have a lot of contact with ballroom dance, so I gave those bad men such an idea. Since I rejected that man, I have been a humble man. I thought there were only one or two such men, but I didn’t expect that after I changed my dance partner, this dance partner was also like this. He even asked me to go to his house to be his wife. I told him that I have a husband...
He actually told me that it doesn't matter if he has an account, so how can he go to his house just to cook and wash clothes, and he didn't do anything. Is this really the case? He is looking for a free nanny and free wife. It's really chaotic to have everyone. I refused on the spot, and I have ignored him since then. Later, he kept inviting me to dance with him, but I didn't want to worry about him. Such a person is really hateful. Unexpectedly, I had never been in charge of them, but they did not let me go. I don't know when they took photos of me dancing with others, because when they danced, they would put their hands on my waist. They sent this photo to my husband. My husband was very angry after seeing these photos... Can I blame me for doing things? I explained it to my husband many times, but he just didn't believe me. He just felt that I was with someone else, otherwise how could I be so close. I really didn't have to be with others. These are all people making trouble behind their backs... These people are so terrible...
Even my child misunderstood me. My child told me to tell me not to do this in the future. He has lived with his father all his life. Are you sorry for him when you are old? If this is the case, would it be worthy of this family? I really didn't. The more I explained, the more I didn't believe me, because they felt that the things in the photo were real. How can I explain this? Since this incident, I have never dared to dance. I'm really afraid to face those men. I never thought that dancing would be so complicated. Isn't it just a ballroom dance? How did it become like this? I didn't go to dance, but they came to me. I come every day to ask when I will go to dance. I think they've done a lot. The more this happens, the more my children and my husband think I have betrayed them. How should I explain it? I've stopped dancing now and I haven't cared about them anymore. But my relatives still don't believe me. Don’t be obsessed with ballroom dance. People who dance ballroom dance are so scary...
And I have become a joke in the community. Everyone said that I have a husband, a family and a child, and I have to go out to dance with other men in hugs and hugs... It was only then that I realized how bad it is to dance ballroom dance. I have been dancing for two years and have become the shameless woman in everyone's mind. I did ballroom dance not for fun, but for understanding boring. Now, it feels like I have ruined my lifelong reputation. Others say I am a shameless woman, and men come to find me at home. There are also men who sent my husband some shameful photos. Everyone spread these words more and more. This is really not the case, but no one believed me. They said in front of me that it doesn't matter. But behind me, I was talking about my affairs. Some people even say that such a woman is not worthy of living in our high-end community. He also said that I was embarrassing to my family, and such a woman should have been rushing back to her hometown. I... I am a ballroom dance obsessed with it, and I have only been dancing for two years. Now, it's good that I ruined my reputation for a lifetime, I'm afraid...
Conclusion:
In fact, it's really not very good to dance ballroom dance. Even if others don’t take this photo for your husband, this is also a fact that you made.Didn't you just hugged someone else and danced? Or isn't someone else just hugging you and dancing? What are the explanations of these iron facts? If it is a fact, it should be admitted. This incident advises all of us not to dance ballroom dance, and even if you dance ballroom dance, don’t be too obsessed. The more you are obsessed with ballroom dance, it will give those bad people a chance. Just like our heroine is scared now and stops jumping, and almost makes a big deal. But I want to say that not everyone is so lucky. If you are like the heroine's friend, if you do something wrong, you will definitely regret it in the end. How to say
? No matter what hobby you like, you can’t be too obsessed with, especially ballroom dance dance... Can something happen if you get so close? Think from the perspective of others, can you stand dancing with someone else's husband, or can you bear it? Even if you don’t dance ballroom dance, you can do other activities to relieve boredom. You can do other hobbies when you are old, not necessarily ballroom dance... Cherish them all, stay together for life, don't destroy everything about yourself in the end. Be careful, and hope that all of us can take this as a warning. The above content is derived from the submissions of real netizens. Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area. To help this netizen. If you or your friends around you are also emotionally confused, you can follow and send a private message to @全全. Maybe the answer is not the most professional, but it must be the most attentive. Perhaps the next article is specially published for you.
