always feels that the most beautiful relationship in the world is to go to two directions.
A person's secret love, one-sided efforts will not only not have good results, but the longer the time, the deeper the more difficult it is to let go.
Some people, you just look at the crowd and can no longer give up from your heart. You are in love with one heart and hope that one day he can look back at you.
But you love too humbly, he can't see your existence at all. If you can take the initiative, he will never be moved by you.
But, if you are innocent, no matter how cold and ruthless he is to you, you still foolishly believe that one day he will see your goodness.
But, as there is a saying: you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never move someone who doesn’t love you.
The most difficult thing about love is to explain it clearly. You don’t like the person who really likes you. For those who don’t like you, you have to pursue them persistently.
Men don’t have any feelings for you and will give you these signals. If there is one, don’t make things boring.
1. In the world of love, the most rare thing to say is to attract each other, like each other, and get close to each other.
If it is just your unrequited love, everything you do is just your wishful thinking and self-motivation.
It is not difficult to find that if a man is interested in you, he will always be involuntarily approach you, take the initiative to say hello to you, get close to you, and take the initiative to care and take care of your feelings.
But if a man doesn’t feel about you, he will not only keep a certain distance from you, but will also draw a dividing line between you, not allowing you to cross the line easily.
If you can't let go, are unwilling to give up, and cannot control your feelings for him, you will always be related to him intentionally or unintentionally, and he will only become more and more tired of you.
So if a man has clearly told you that you are not allowed to approach him or refuse you to do anything for him, you must know how to stop at the right time.
After all, the more humble a man you are, the more he looks down on him, the closer you get to him, the more he will hurt you with words.
If you don’t withdraw in time and have not learned to love yourself well, everything you do seems to him to be just a humiliation.
If you still want to make him change his mind through continuous efforts and compliments, it is really just self-harm.
2. If you don’t want to talk to you
If you really like someone, you will be unable to control your desire to chat and talk to him.
Even if you just greet him softly, you will be happy for a long time if you can get the other party’s response.
So, a man who is interested in you will always have a lot of things to say to you.
Before you were familiar with it, he would not only take the initiative to approach you, but also take the initiative to talk to you.
When you are with him, you don’t have to worry about the unlucky situation or feel embarrassed, because he will always talk about topics that you are interested in and can chat with you very much.
However, the most obvious thing about a man is that he does not want to talk to you and is not interested in the topic you are talking about.
Sometimes, if you want to chat with him and send him a message on your own initiative, he will almost never reply, and will not explain the reason to you later. If you ask him, he will only say "I am too lazy to reply" to you coldly.
For such a man, no matter how you do, you can't warm his heart. No matter how hard you try, it will be a waste of effort.
The book "Mr. Lang" says:
"If I send a WeChat message to someone I like and he never responds, I will delete the dialog box. I always feel that seeing that dialog box is like seeing my humility and flattery."
For someone who never answers you and is not interested in you, if you take the initiative and he doesn't respond, there is no need to take the initiative to do it again, because the result will always be the same.
3. Ignoring your efforts
Being loved is a kind of luck. In this world, if someone loves you, you must be grateful and learn to cherish it.
A man who truly loves you will see and remember your efforts and giving.
He will be very grateful for everything you have done for him. He will feel distressed and guilty for the hardships you have suffered for him. He will make up for you in the future.
But there are always some people who, no matter how good you are to him, how many things you have done for him, and how many grievances you have suffered, will never see them, and even say for granted that all this is voluntary and no one forces you.
As one lyrics sings: Those who cannot get are always in agitation, and those who are favored are fearless.
A person who does not have you in his heart will naturally not see your efforts to him. When you are with such a person, all you get is indifference and disappointment.
Your sincerity and sincerity should be left to the person who understands you, cares about you, and cherishes you. You don’t have to put all your love on such a person.
You should know that if a person doesn’t feel about you, your efforts will be unnecessary disturbances in others. Instead of entangling someone who doesn’t have you in his heart, it is better to love yourself well and wait for the right person to appear.
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Author: March.
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