Perhaps, after a person reaches middle age, the love that women want is no longer the dream of staying in their youth.
Instead, I long for a backbone around me and have a support when I am lost; I hope that the person around me can stand alone and can comfort me after suffering grievances; I long for someone around me to heal myself, and can rekindle hope for life when I am unhappy.
Therefore, the love of middle-aged men is often in the details, touching a woman's heart and making her feel at ease.
After all, after half of their lives, they will have some life experiences and some life experiences, even if there is wind, rain, thunder and lightning outside, they can still show peace in the world at home.
Their deep affection will nourish a woman's heart like a drizzle, and will also exude fragrance like a valley orchid, making women intoxicated.
It’s a pity that many women still yearn for romance and desire for prosperity, but ignore the deep love given to her by the people around them, and often complain: he is just a wood, he no longer loves me.
In fact, women don’t need to deliberately look for it. If a man loves you deeply, he will reveal his true heart in many details.
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will make you a meal from time to time, wanting to get your affirmation
Men are middle-aged and seem to have a fixed job and have a certain status, but this age group will also be the most difficult moment in their life.
Because it is very likely that he will fall behind if he is not careful and be caught up by young people. He will not dare to slack off at all because of the pressure of "there are old and the lower ones". He can only fight hard.
So, at this time, he can cook for you from time to time, and always want to show you his cooking skills from time to time. This is definitely a manifestation of his deep love for you.
Life is heavy, but he did not retreat, but instead used a passionate attitude and a caring attitude, just wanting to give your family a peace.
The beautiful scenery is no matter how charming it is, in his eyes, it is not as good as the small world in the kitchen.
I still remember seeing a TV series with a shot inside.
The little boy went straight to the kitchen after school, and his father happened to rest that day and was making him a pot of soup.
After get off work, the man even offered treasures, holding a bowl of soup to his wife's mouth, letting her taste it or not.
A sense of warmth instantly spread from the picture to the audience.
A man’s cooking skills may not be that superb, but the happiness on his face and the smile on his lips are proof of his love for this family, and it also reveals his deep love for women.
In fact, the love of a middle-aged man is to find the feeling that his family needs in trivialities and find evidence that he is slowly getting older with his lover.
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will turn off social engagements and want to share housework with you. I will accompany you more
In Hong Kong dramas, you will always see such plots.
The man received a message from a woman: he made your favorite dish tonight.
He walked out of the office and said to his colleagues: Let's get together tonight, I'll go home for dinner.
Love is when morning, dusk, sunset, and he will turn off some unnecessary social engagements and accompany women.
In life, many men will complain: You want me to make money and want me to accompany you. What are you doing?
However, what he calls making money is just going to have dinner with friends after get off work, which seems to be trying to get rid of the shackles of home. Some people will also call it: personal space is needed.
But I forgot that a woman is taking care of her children and tidying up housework at home, which is even busier than when she is at work.
can be seen. If the person who says that he is accompanying him is not implemented, it will be a talk; the man who says that he is making money most treats women as thieves, fearing that women will spend more.
Only those men who show their attitude and actions will gentlely do housework with women, patiently accompany their children, and sincerely live a good life with women.
There are always men who have passed the age of forty and start to become "appointed", and start to squander their lives, forget the dependence on them around them, and forget the deep love for them by their pillow.
In love, those men who have grown up will use time to tell women: No matter how time passes, you are my little girl, and you are all women I need to understand and support love.
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will always be gentle to you, speak and do things in a harmonious way
In fact, a man's character is hidden in his attitude towards his lover.
TV series " Don't Talk to Strangers ", An Jia and wear suits and ties on weekdays, treating others gracefully and politely, but treating their lovers, which has become everyone's "childhood nightmare".
In life, although there are not many people who commit violence like An Jiahe, there are many people who always push the garbage they have on their daily lives to the people next to them.
The most hateful thing in this world is that men look angry and look on women.
You should know that when a person reaches middle age, a woman has already accompanied him for more than ten years, through his youth, and dedicated her best to their home. All she wants is a person who can love her deeply with all her heart and soul.
So, if a man is always cold and violent, or often shows his face to women, then most of the man is just selfish, but he lives very tiring.
A man who loves women deeply will carefully educate his gentleness and upbringing to his wife around him, and will treat his tenderness with all his feelings.
It can be seen that a man’s kindness and always gentle treatment of women are manifestations of his deep love for women.
Conclusion:
I saw a sentence: The man who likes you the most is not good at saying that he loves you.
The more those who love you deeply, the more they will remain calm on weekdays, but they will always prove their love with their tolerant attitude and positive actions.
When they reach middle age, they seem to be getting more and more oily, but in fact they will become more and more clear-headed. Who is the person who deserves his care the most in this life?
So, if he loves you, he will love you deeper than when he was young, know how to be close to your heart, and will please you more.
So, they seem to be just behind some small details, but in fact, they all expose their deep love.
Cooking and cooking is a trivial matter, but it hides sincerity;
pushing off social engagements is ordinary, but it hides love;
Gentle words, although it is the right thing to do, it hides persistence.
It is only because most men rarely can do it, so they show their sincerity.
Maybe he is clumsy when cooking, maybe he feels a little unhappy when he turns off social engagements. Maybe he also wants to have a big fight with you in his gentle words... But the final result he gives you is obedient to you, accompany you, and listen to you.
So, middle-aged men love you deeply, and the details are all affectionate; the skills are all sincere.
Author, calm fox
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May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
