What is sad in marriage is that you treat the other person as your whole, but the other person regards you as "make up". Some people also say that you should not be so serious in the world of love. For example, if you are a confidant, will you not make friends if you don’t meet a confidant? This is obviously inappropriate. Whether it is a confidant or not, friends always need it! Do you really like to face the world and life alone?
is like marriage. Many times it is not because of love, but when you want to get married, you meet someone who is suitable for marriage (of course, there are also unsuitable ones.)! If they are really married because of love, then first love will not become "first love"!
Sometimes life really needs to be a little "confused"! Just like a family, if every household chore is clear, it is almost impossible!
people, as a living body, are never perfect! It can also be said that no living body is perfect! This is the reason why gold is pure and no one is perfect!
Take family education as an example. Parents want their children to be completely obedient and also want their children to have a complete sense of autonomy, which is also unrealistic! Because what? Children grow up and become more and more self-aware. If everything is consistent with their parents' ideas and everything can be done according to their parents' ideas, it is unlikely to think about it! A child who can completely listen to his parents, who is obedient no matter what his parents say, will he be a giant baby when he grows up? And giant babies are just bad and cannot adapt to life alone!
Where is perfect in the world? Take history as an example. Ganluo At the age of twelve, he was really a model for a young man to become a great man, but what happened later? Then it was gone! Jiang Ziya's life was bumpy and he was able to achieve great success in the end! Things in the world are changing!
Some people have long lifespans but miserable fates, some people have good luck in their lives but not long life; some people are young and promising but poor in their old age, some people are miserable in their youth, but the sunset in their old age is extremely good; some people have no future but are carefree in their lives, some people have achieved success and fame and hard work in their lives; some people have a happy marriage but may not be able to grow old together, and some people have a rough marriage but can hold hands until old age;...
There are many imperfections in the world, and they have to pursue perfection, isn't it a flower in the mirror and a moon in the water?
