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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
In secular concepts, people think that older leftover women must have experienced a lot. Although they have not gotten married, they have fallen in love many times.
, and even, some men directly prejudicedly believe that older leftover women are left over by others, and no man is willing to "take over".
In fact, this may be a misunderstanding of older leftover women. Even though they are very old, it does not mean that they have a lot of emotional experiences, and they will not easily date the opposite sex.
After all, older single women are not getting married for a long time, just looking forward to finding a suitable partner and don’t want to be a man with poor conditions.
They are very cautious about their relationship. If they think it is inappropriate, they will not be able to date and will refuse directly.
So, do older single women have experienced many men? I interviewed three leftover women and told the truth.
1. Miss Zhao: I only had a relationship once, and I have been single since then
Ms. Zhao is 34 years old this year and is a delicate girl. Although she is not married now, she lives a very quality life.
She said that she had only been in love once and although she wanted to get married early, she really didn't like ordinary men.
At the beginning, she had been in love with her boyfriend for two years, but she felt that her boyfriend was not motivated and could not see the future, so she firmly proposed to break up.
After she was over thirty years old, she was urged by her family to get married and had to participate in a blind date. However, when she saw that the man who was on the blind date had poor conditions, she directly denied it.
In her opinion, some men not only have poor economic foundations, but also do not work hard, feel that they cannot see the future, and are even more unwilling to settle down.
Therefore, she has been single since she broke up with her boyfriend and it is impossible for her to get married before she meets a suitable partner.
Ms. Zhao said frankly that in her emotional experience, she only experienced her boyfriend alone, , and later she never had any contact with other opposite sex. She can be regarded as a pure girl with feelings.
In reality, many older single women have little emotional experience. They are not as complicated as people think, but seem very simple. I hope men can treat them correctly.
2. Shen Bujie: I have only lived together for a year, which is considered clean.
Ms. Shen is 36 years old this year, graduated from undergraduate studies, has a decent job, has had two loves before, but later broke up due to realistic reasons, and has always lived a delicate single life.
Talking about her past experiences and the man she experienced, she said frankly that although she had been in love twice, her relationship was not complicated.
Moreover, Ms. Shen said that when she was in love with her boyfriend, she only lived together for a year, which was considered to be cleaned up by .
The first time in love was during college. The love was beautiful at that time. She was not sensible and thought she had found true love, so she lived with her boyfriend.
As a result, after my boyfriend got her, he did not cherish it. The two had different personalities and quarreled constantly. Finally, they lived together for a year and broke up.
The second time she fell in love was a male colleague she met at work. The two had officially dated for half a year, but Miss Shen was afraid of being hurt because she had met someone wrong and had never agreed to live together.
Moreover, after spending a long time with her boyfriend, she realized that he was not motivated at all and did not want to give at all, which disappointed her very much.
Finally, she proposed to break up and left her boyfriend, and then she stopped dating. Although she also participated in a blind date after she was 30 years old, she never met a suitable partner.
In fact, many older single women like Miss Shen have had one or two love experiences and may have lived together, but they cannot be said to have complicated relationships.
They are more careful because they have had love experience before and will not settle for men casually. If they feel that men cannot meet the requirements, they will not be able to date.
3. Ms. Chen: I am complete, I have never experienced a man
Ms. Chen is 32 years old this year and graduated from graduate school. Over the years, I have been single because of my studies and work.
She missed the age of marriage and was a little regretful, but in order to pursue a higher goal and have a better life, she also felt that she did not regret it.
When asked how many men Ms. Chen had dated, she acted very shy and even a little unnatural, and it was obvious that she had never been in a relationship.
She said that she is still complete and has never experienced men. Moreover, she thinks that the most precious thing must be kept until the time of marriage, and it is very principled.
Once upon a time, there were many men who came to pursue her, but she was very busy with study and work and had no extra time to fall in love, so she politely declined one by one.
At the end of the conversation, she asked her what her partner had. She said frankly: As long as a man has a good character, works hard, and can truly love her, he will agree to date.
Possibly, for older leftover women like Miss Chen, they have a great longing for love. They do not need men's financial conditions, but they must attach great importance to men's character and responsibilities.
They have never experienced men. They are more eager to meet true love than others, and may be more pure about feelings.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Back to the question at the beginning, have older leftover women experienced many men?
By interviewing these three older leftover women, we concluded that most leftover women in do not have much emotional experience and have never dated many men.
In other words, older single women are not as casual as people think. On the contrary, they are more cautious about their relationship and will not easily date men.
They have had a relationship once or twice, but they were also in their youth and ignorant periods. Most of them met bad people. They cannot be said to have complicated experiences, let alone women with casual relationships.
Moreover, some leftover women have never even been in love, and they still maintain their "virginity" body, and are more sacred and pure about love.
So, older single women are not left behind, nor are they unable to get married, but they have higher pursuits and hope to find a truly suitable partner.
I hope people will have a more fair view of older single women, don’t treat them prejudice, and have more understanding, which may be more harmonious and beautiful.
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