Original Youshu Xiaore Youshu 2022-10-07 06:30 Posted in Fujian
article | Youshu Xiaore · Anchor | Chu Qiao
"Prepare a little more, and eat a few bites when you miss home."
"Taste of hometown, take it back to give your friends a try."
"This is what you like, don't worry, bring more."
Accompanied by the advice of our parents, the National Day holiday is coming to an end. We embark on the road of wandering outside and say goodbye to our parents.
I have heard a saying before:
"The so-called parents are people who are both happy and sad in front of their backs, want to recover their hugs, but dare not speak out."
stood at the door of their home and waved goodbye. Looking at the child's backs getting farther away, parents' eyes couldn't help but wet.
watch the child gradually disappear from his own vision, and at the same time, he is looking forward to the next reunion with anticipation.
Even though parents are reluctant to leave, they seem to have learned to face the back of their children.
Because they know in their hearts that if they force their children to turn around and face themselves, they must turn their backs to the future.
Zhihu netizens discussed a question:
"Why do Chinese parents never say I love you to their children?"
When dragging extremely "heavy" luggage; looking at the trunk of the car that was "filled"; touching the wrinkled money in his pocket, he knew the real answer.
This is the expression method exclusively for Chinese parents. They are not good at expressing words but incorporate love into every detail. They use their own actions to express love to their children quietly.
There is such a scene in the variety show "Friends of Hundred Rivers" that makes people moved. Most of the guests in this program are ordinary middle-aged and elderly people, and Uncle Jiang is one of them.
Uncle Jiang and his son Xiao Jiang both live in Beijing, but they rarely make phone calls or have the chance to meet.
Uncle Jiang also expressed a relatively good understanding of this:
"He is busy, busy with work and object, and I'm embarrassed to bother."
program team said that when the program team called to invite the child to the scene, Uncle Jiang dialed nervously.
But as expected, Xiao Jiang politely declined his father's request because of his busy work.
Although he kept a smile on the surface, Uncle Jiang secretly put it away and looked forward to it.
Later, the program team read the letter his son wrote to him.
A man from Northeast China cried into tears when he heard his son say he loved him in the letter.
At this time, the son also arrived at the scene without telling his father. At this moment, Uncle Jiang could no longer hide his excitement and hugged him tightly.
Taking advantage of the right mood, the other uncles began to urge Uncle Jiang to say the "three words".
And Uncle Jiang immediately said:
"You are hungry, I'll give you some skewers."
The three words I love you are difficult to say from my parents' mouths, but I rub all my love into the details of life. This is Chinese parents.
For children, they cannot express themselves like lovers or talk like friends, but in the eyes of parents, children are their entire world.
Not long ago, the topic #How long does it take for parents to go home# became a hot search, which caused widespread heated discussion among netizens.
It turned out that a woman in Jiangsu called her parents-in-law before returning home. After returning home, she found that she had a call to go home during the surveillance. Her parents had done so much preparation work.
Clean up the house, find out the uncommonly used large dining table, kill chickens and cook...
In-laws are busy from around 8 o'clock in the morning to around twelve o'clock in the afternoon, just to come back and eat hot meals and live in a clean room.
Netizens couldn't help but sigh:
"Every time I come home, I eat hot meals. I don't know how much preparations my parents have made for this."
Someone commented:
"My mother knew I was going home, so she specially learned how to make internet celebrity chicken feet from the Internet, because I said casually before, I really wanted to eat it."
Our words were casually said, it was a big fight between parents.
This video is like a microcosm of Chinese parents' lives, silently giving their children, giving them all without asking for anything in return.
In the TV series " Meet Happiness ", a conversation between Zhen Kai and his father Zhen Jianguo was impressive.
Zhen Kai drove the express train. When she encountered a fierce man, she rushed the passenger out of the car, and was complained again and was besieged by the Internet.
Zhen’s father argued for his daughter and started fighting, and was then detained in the police station. After the matter was resolved, the father and daughter sat together and had a long conversation, and had the following conversation:
Zhen Jianguo apologized to his daughter for his irrational actions, believing that he had caused trouble for his daughter.
Zhen Kai also said "thank you" to his father for his bravery, and took the responsibility for the matter on himself, comforting his father and said it was because she was worried.
Zhen's father said earnestly:
"When I was born, I thought you could walk and run, so I felt relieved;
and then you could walk and run, so I thought I felt relieved when you went to school;
Later you went to middle school and college to work, got married and had children, and got divorced again...
Only then did your father understand that this is the fate of his parents. No matter when, you will always be my daughter, I have to worry about you, right? "
Isn't our parents the same, since the birth of the child, they devote all their efforts to the child.
think that if you worry more, your children will worry less, so you will spend your whole life worrying about your children.
However, what makes people feel most heartbreaking is that the most selfless love of Chinese parents is also the humblest.
There is a sentence on the Internet that is confusing:
"The greatest sorrow of adults is that their parents become humble in front of you."
A netizen shared his own story, he said:
"I am studying in a big city. I don't know when, and I don't want to go out with my parents again, because I think they are really embarrassing sometimes."
even said:
"My parents have never left a small county town in their entire lives, so when the university started, I also rejected their request to send me to school and chose to go to school alone.
is not because of anything else. I am afraid that my classmates will laugh at me because of them."
As we continue to grow, parents who have been "strong" since we can remember seem to have put away their sharpness and gradually become less and less able to speak in front of us. Original Youshu Xiaore Youshu 2022-10-07 06:30 Posted in Fujian article | Youshu Xiaore · Anchor | Chu Qiao "Prepare a little more, and eat a few bites when you miss home." "Taste of hometown, take it back to give your friends a try." "This is what you like, don't worry, bring more." Accompanied by the advice of our parents, the National Day holiday is coming to an end. We embark on the road of wandering outside and say goodbye to our parents. I have heard a saying before: "The so-called parents are people who are both happy and sad in front of their backs, want to recover their hugs, but dare not speak out." stood at the door of their home and waved goodbye. Looking at the child's backs getting farther away, parents' eyes couldn't help but wet. watch the child gradually disappear from his own vision, and at the same time, he is looking forward to the next reunion with anticipation. Even though parents are reluctant to leave, they seem to have learned to face the back of their children. Because they know in their hearts that if they force their children to turn around and face themselves, they must turn their backs to the future. Zhihu netizens discussed a question: "Why do Chinese parents never say I love you to their children?" When dragging extremely "heavy" luggage; looking at the trunk of the car that was "filled"; touching the wrinkled money in his pocket, he knew the real answer. This is the expression method exclusively for Chinese parents. They are not good at expressing words but incorporate love into every detail. They use their own actions to express love to their children quietly.
There is such a scene in the variety show "Friends of Hundred Rivers" that makes people moved. Most of the guests in this program are ordinary middle-aged and elderly people, and Uncle Jiang is one of them.
Uncle Jiang and his son Xiao Jiang both live in Beijing, but they rarely make phone calls or have the chance to meet.
Uncle Jiang also expressed a relatively good understanding of this:
"He is busy, busy with work and object, and I'm embarrassed to bother."
program team said that when the program team called to invite the child to the scene, Uncle Jiang dialed nervously.
But as expected, Xiao Jiang politely declined his father's request because of his busy work.
Although he kept a smile on the surface, Uncle Jiang secretly put it away and looked forward to it.
Later, the program team read the letter his son wrote to him.
A man from Northeast China cried into tears when he heard his son say he loved him in the letter.
At this time, the son also arrived at the scene without telling his father. At this moment, Uncle Jiang could no longer hide his excitement and hugged him tightly.
Taking advantage of the right mood, the other uncles began to urge Uncle Jiang to say the "three words".
And Uncle Jiang immediately said:
"You are hungry, I'll give you some skewers."
The three words I love you are difficult to say from my parents' mouths, but I rub all my love into the details of life. This is Chinese parents.
For children, they cannot express themselves like lovers or talk like friends, but in the eyes of parents, children are their entire world.
Not long ago, the topic #How long does it take for parents to go home# became a hot search, which caused widespread heated discussion among netizens.
It turned out that a woman in Jiangsu called her parents-in-law before returning home. After returning home, she found that she had a call to go home during the surveillance. Her parents had done so much preparation work.
Clean up the house, find out the uncommonly used large dining table, kill chickens and cook...
In-laws are busy from around 8 o'clock in the morning to around twelve o'clock in the afternoon, just to come back and eat hot meals and live in a clean room.
Netizens couldn't help but sigh:
"Every time I come home, I eat hot meals. I don't know how much preparations my parents have made for this."
Someone commented:
"My mother knew I was going home, so she specially learned how to make internet celebrity chicken feet from the Internet, because I said casually before, I really wanted to eat it."
Our words were casually said, it was a big fight between parents.
This video is like a microcosm of Chinese parents' lives, silently giving their children, giving them all without asking for anything in return.
In the TV series " Meet Happiness ", a conversation between Zhen Kai and his father Zhen Jianguo was impressive.
Zhen Kai drove the express train. When she encountered a fierce man, she rushed the passenger out of the car, and was complained again and was besieged by the Internet.
Zhen’s father argued for his daughter and started fighting, and was then detained in the police station. After the matter was resolved, the father and daughter sat together and had a long conversation, and had the following conversation:
Zhen Jianguo apologized to his daughter for his irrational actions, believing that he had caused trouble for his daughter.
Zhen Kai also said "thank you" to his father for his bravery, and took the responsibility for the matter on himself, comforting his father and said it was because she was worried.
Zhen's father said earnestly:
"When I was born, I thought you could walk and run, so I felt relieved;
and then you could walk and run, so I thought I felt relieved when you went to school;
Later you went to middle school and college to work, got married and had children, and got divorced again...
Only then did your father understand that this is the fate of his parents. No matter when, you will always be my daughter, I have to worry about you, right? "
Isn't our parents the same, since the birth of the child, they devote all their efforts to the child.
think that if you worry more, your children will worry less, so you will spend your whole life worrying about your children.
However, what makes people feel most heartbreaking is that the most selfless love of Chinese parents is also the humblest.
There is a sentence on the Internet that is confusing:
"The greatest sorrow of adults is that their parents become humble in front of you."
A netizen shared his own story, he said:
"I am studying in a big city. I don't know when, and I don't want to go out with my parents again, because I think they are really embarrassing sometimes."
even said:
"My parents have never left a small county town in their entire lives, so when the university started, I also rejected their request to send me to school and chose to go to school alone.
is not because of anything else. I am afraid that my classmates will laugh at me because of them."
As we continue to grow, parents who have been "strong" since we can remember seem to have put away their sharpness and gradually become less and less able to speak in front of us.
Mother who once spoke and shouted, once chased and dealt with my father because I did something wrong, but now he has become cautious, afraid that any words or actions of his children will disgust.
parents did nothing wrong, but they still received scolding from their children.
They just got old and were no longer able to shelter us from the wind and rain like they did when they were young. Instead, because of their age, they became defeated by their children.
The love of Chinese parents is so selfless, and so humble.
When it comes to children, money seems to be just a number for them.
But in yourself, "eating well" can be reduced to "eating full", and "wearing well" can be replaced by "whatever you can wear".
even bargain for a few dollars just to give the best to your children.
There is a passage in the Korean drama " Please answer 1988":
"Sometimes I feel that my mother is embarrassing because she doesn't even have the minimum face and dignity, which makes me very angry.
Later I realized that compared to herself, my mother has more to protect, and that is us."
Now we are just stepping on the shoulders of our parents and seeing the prosperity they have not seen.
That's because we have long become the poems and distances of our parents.
Someone asked: "What are the biggest characteristics of Chinese-style parents?" The experience of host Li Ai, the host of
can be said to fully reflect the characteristics of Chinese-style parents.
In the variety show "Dad is in the home", Li Ai talked about this experience between himself and his mother, and the guests on the scene instantly broke the defense.
She said:
"Once I accompanied my mother to have a physical examination. After taking the pulse, the doctor told her mother that she was in good health and should have a long life."
"I don't want to live long because longevity will drag the child down," Li Ai's mother responded immediately.
This is the true portrayal of Chinese parents. They all have a characteristic called "no trouble for children."
Parents always put themselves in the position of "giving". When they feel that they can no longer give anything to their children when they are "old", they feel that they are dragging their children's lives.
I remember there was a CCTV charity short film - " Dad's Lies ".
The old father received a call from his daughter who was working outside and kept saying to her: "I eat well, sleep soundly, and I am not bored at all."
When the daughter asked her mother again, the old father said, "Your mother, I'm not here, I'm going out to dance."
kept repeating in his mouth: "It's okay, it's okay, don't worry." The shot of
The old father who hung up his daughter's phone appeared in the hospital.
turned out that my wife was admitted to the hospital. In order not to worry her daughter who was far away, the father concealed the truth.
Writer Liu Tong said:
"Sometimes, don't worry is indeed a kind of comfort, sometimes, don't worry just don't want to cause trouble."
From childhood to adulthood, parents have weaved countless lies for us.
They always say "the money is enough", "I'm fine", "Don't worry about us", but they don't know how many hardships and the storms of life have been swallowed up for us behind our backs and downs.
When everyone cares about whether you fly high, only parents care about whether you fly tired.
They are always sacrificing themselves to fulfill your years of peace and peace, supporting your poetry and distance.
You have your career and persistence, but your parents only have you.
Don’t ignore parents because they are unwilling to bother them.
People say:
"The best thing in the world is that when we grow up, our parents are not old yet. When we have the ability to repay our parents, they are still healthy."
No matter how busy you are after the holiday, remember to contact them frequently. Your seemingly simple care and greetings are the best reward for them.
lit [Watching], May all parents in the world be happy and healthy, have more companionship, and less separation.
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They are always sacrificing themselves to fulfill your years of peace and peace, supporting your poetry and distance.
You have your career and persistence, but your parents only have you.
Don’t ignore parents because they are unwilling to bother them.
People say:
"The best thing in the world is that when we grow up, our parents are not old yet. When we have the ability to repay our parents, they are still healthy."
No matter how busy you are after the holiday, remember to contact them frequently. Your seemingly simple care and greetings are the best reward for them.
lit [Watching], May all parents in the world be happy and healthy, have more companionship, and less separation.
Note: The pictures in this article are from the Internet and the copyright belongs to the author. If there is any infringement, please contact us to delete
