text | Fang Xiaoju
In order to escape the debt owed, Wu Gang left his wife Qin Ling and daughter Miaomiao and ran away without saying goodbye. Moreover, has been gone for five years and there has been no news.
When her husband is away, Qin Ling takes care of her daughter while dealing with those who come to collect debts from time to time. In exhaustion, she suffers from liver cancer , and she is in her late stages. The doctor said that she only has half a year at most.
What Qin Ling couldn't rest assured about was her mother and daughter Miaomiao.
In order to ensure their future, Qin Ling decided to divorce her husband whom she had not met for five years. She wanted to protect her pre-marital property and put the house she bought in full at the time of marriage into her daughter Miaomiao's name.
When I learned that my daughter-in-law who suffers from liver cancer not only wanted to divorce her son, but also wanted to take back her house, Wu Gang's mother first rolled around, cried and clamored to steal the house book from Qin Ling, and then went back on her word with her husband and made things difficult for the judge who came to mediate.
After all the tricks were played, Wu Mu cursed her daughter-in-law again:
"This woman's life is really hard, she can still be so hard when she gets cancer. Alas, why don't she die yet?"
mnm1 A mother-in-law, in order to occupy her daughter-in-law's house, not only did everything she could do, but she even hoped that she would die soon. Why did Wumu dare to be so arrogant? What indulged in the evil in her human nature?
Qin Ling's "too kind" made her husband feel that soft rice can be eaten
Qin Ling is a city girl and a music teacher with formal compilation. She has a pair of smiling eyes. She is not only kind-hearted, but also virtuous and generous.
Wu Gang's parents are both migrant workers, not only do they have no urban household registration, but they also have no stable job, but this does not prevent Qin Ling from falling in love with him.
After falling in love with Wu Gang, Qin Ling neither despised his rural household registration nor looked down on his migrant worker parents.
When talking about marriage, Qin Ling not only did not make any requests to Wu Gang, who had no house or money, but also used the house she bought in full as a new house.
Others have to buy a house and a car when they get married, while the Wu family only spent 20,000 to 30,000 to buy some home appliances, and they can marry Qin Ling, who is both talented and beautiful, which makes Wu Gang's mother always complacent.
Wumu never thinks that the wedding house is bought by the daughter-in-law for money, and she doesn't mind others talking about her son's intrusion. She thinks that the Wu family can marry a wife like Qin Ling, which is the son's ability. Moreover, the Wu family also paid for the home appliances.
So, she asked Qin Ling to write her son Wu Gang's name on the property certificate, and the virtuous and kind Qin Ling actually obediently did it.
I bought the house in full before marriage. My husband's family only spent 20,000 to 30,000 yuan to buy some appliances, so she generously wrote her husband's name. Qin Ling's approach was not only too kind, but also digging a hole for herself.
Wu Gang's parents are villains with bad views and poor morals. Not only do they never feel grateful for their daughter-in-law's virtuousness, but they also regard her kindness as weak and bullied.
In their opinion, since the daughter-in-law is so easy to talk to, wouldn’t it be a loss for the Wu family to not be soft and hard to eat?
So, when Qin Ling decided to divorce Wu Gang, they spoke loudly. Because the real estate certificate contained the name of their son, they increased their investments from 200,000 to 1 million.
Qin Ling's house has a market value of 2 million yuan. Under the judge's repeated mediation, she was racing against death. In order to implement the house in her daughter's name as soon as possible, she promised to give Wu Gang's parents 500,000 yuan in cash.
The in-laws' family can take 500,000 from themselves after paying 20,000 or 30,000 yuan. Qin Ling's kindness moved the judge.
But Wu Gang's parents were not satisfied. They were jealous of money. The day before signing the agreement, they suddenly changed their minds. 500,000 was too little, so they didn't want it. Anyway, their daughter-in-law was not too long, so they survived her to death before the divorce judgment, and the house became the property of the Wu family.
Why do Wujia dare to eat so soft rice?
Because Qin Ling is too kind, her kindness is too kind and indulges the ugliness in the human nature of the Wu family, especially the Wu mother.
Why did the jealous mother of Wushu easily let Qin Ling go?
and Qin Ling agreed to divorce. The Wu family received up to 500,000 yuan, and she was dragged to death. Seventy percent of the initiative in the house will eventually be in the hands of the Wu family.
Even if Qin Ling left a will and without her protection, her mother and daughter would be defeated in the inheritance dispute. At that time, the house would still belong to the Wu family.
The simple and kind Qin Ling, when she entered marriage, ignored the ugliness of human nature because she only had love in her eyes. She used her kindness too much and not only dug a big hole for herself, but also laid endless troubles.
If she hadn't met a judge like Zhou Yian and Ye Xin who handled the case rigorously, just and kindly, she would not have been able to hold on the day of the divorce judgment.
If she dies as soon as her mother-in-law hopes, then her real estate will be completely occupied by her in-laws' family, and her widowed mother and young daughter will have no place to live because of losing the house.
Qin Ling, who doesn't understand "stop loss in time", was grabbed by her husband's family step by step
Qin Ling must divorce before her death. Although the strength she showed during the divorce is admirable, it also makes people feel extremely distressed.
In fact, she doesn’t have to toss herself like this at the last moment of her life. If she knew how to stop the loss in time, her life would not be so embarrassed or so passive.
Qin Ling's husband Wu Gang also worked hard to pursue Qin Ling before marriage, but after he got the beauty back, the bad nature of his original family gradually exposed - not only wanted to make a soft meal, but also wanted to get something for nothing.
has no formal job and wants to eat a fat man in one bite. He has been hitting like a headless fly all year round. Today's private equity, tomorrow's fund, and the day after tomorrow. To put it nicely, he is a freelancer. To put it bluntly, he is a jobless vagrant who cheats everywhere.
hides from Qin Ling, Wu Gang cheated many people outside through private equity and funds. Everyone was deceived by him and hated him to the core:
"It disappeared after borrowing money from me. My wife almost divorced me for this matter."
"You go and ask, who has never cheated him of money by him? There are still a lot of people who want to settle the score with him."
After owing debts, Wu Gang kept trying to sell the house to pay back the money. Qin Ling disagreed, so he found someone to impersonate him. Fortunately, the identity verification failed during the transaction, and the house was not sold.
. Most women will think of how to get out of here and stop losing money at the first time, but Qin Ling never thought about leaving Wu Gang. It was not until the end of her life that she thought of divorce.
Qin Ling, who didn't know how to stop the loss in time, gave her mother-in-law an illusion that her daughter-in-law cannot live without her son.
With this idea in mind, Wumu began to grasp Qin Ling step by step.
Hearing the judge say that Qin Ling is going to divorce Wu Gang, she hummed contemptuously: "What? She wants to divorce my son? You have a crush on another man"!
Wu Mu's contemptuous expression was clearly telling the judge that a woman like Qin Ling dared to divorce her son. What ability does she have to leave the Wu family?
So, she not only slandered Qin Ling everywhere, saying that she had an affair and wanted to give the house to another man, but also called her with her wife to steal the house book from Qin Ling.
Qin Ling's failure to stop the loss in time not only made her mother-in-law feel that she is weak and can be bullied, but also encouraged her mother-in-law's arrogance.
In order to occupy the daughter-in-law's house, Wumu actually rolled in front of the judge:
"You court helped Qin Ling grab the house, I won't leave, I will waste my life with you, see who can consume whom, if you have the ability, you can arrest me, I wish I could find a place to support my elderly care."
Learning that Qin Ling's condition had worsened, Wu Mu and her wife firmly disagreed with mediation. Facing the judge who came to persuade them to mobilize them, they not only did not open the door, but also shouted loudly inside:
"Qin Ling has been doing this for a few days. She has not passed on the Wu family's family, so the house must be left for us."
"Stop loss in time" is a famous saying in marriage.
When Wu Gang was cheating everywhere, the bad nature of human nature had been exposed. When he found someone to impersonate the name and wanted to sell the house, he had already touched the bottom line of being a human being. At this time, if Qin Ling could file for divorce in time, there might not be any misfortunes and troubles that would be later.
kQin Ling did not stop the loss in time. She hesitated until the end of her life before she remembered the word divorce.
Qin Ling, who did not know how to stop the loss in time, was not only completely controlled by her mother-in-law because of her indecision, but also gradually indulged in the evil in her human nature.
Qin Ling's "no bottom line tolerant" makes the evil changes in her mother-in-law's human nature worsen
"tolerant" word. It is a positive word if used properly, and it is a negative word if used improperly.
The kind-hearted Qin Ling has always maintained a tolerant attitude since she became the daughter-in-law of the Wu family.
Wujia spent 20,000 to 30,000 yuan to buy some appliances, and Wu's mother asked to write her son's name in the house book. Qin Ling made a concession without saying a word when her mother disagreed.
Her tolerance is not exchanged for touching, but for her mother-in-law's contempt.
Wu Gang cannot have children. Qin Ling concealed everyone and adopted her daughter Miaomiao, and claimed to the public that Miaomiao was her and Wu Gang's child.
It is clear that the Wu family cannot have a son's problem, but Wu's mother not only vents her anger on Qin Ling's inability to give birth, but also has always been resentful about her adoption of Miaomiao.
In the eyes of Umu, Miaomiao is a thorn in her eyes, and she has always wanted to throw Miaomiao away.
When Miaomiao was two years old, Wu's mother and her wife said she would take her out to play. After taking her to the train station, the old couple left her and left without looking back. Thanks to the police on duty, nothing happened to Miaomiao.
In order to prevent the daughter-in-law from falling into Miaomiao's name, Wu Mu can think of any way.
She often scares Miaomiao, not only saying that she was adopted by Qin Ling, but also saying that one day she will be thrown away by Qin Ling.
The unintentional behavior of Wumu has caused Miaomiao to feel insecure. Once she has left Qin Ling for a long time, she will keep crying.
Miaomiao is always worried that she will be sold.
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Qin Ling wants to leave the real estate to non-born children who have no blood relationship with the Wu family, and Wumu cannot accept it no matter what.
So, she cried and stayed in Qin Ling's house and refused to leave, forcing Qin Ling to take her mother and Miaomiao to live in a friend's house.
The constant riots of Umamother aggravated Qin Ling's condition. She fell before the divorce case was opened.
When he heard the doctor's words, "I'm sorry, we have tried our best", Zhou Yian and Ye Xin both burst into tears. They regretted that Qin Ling did not support the day of the divorce judgment.
Qin Ling left like this, all her previous efforts will be wasted. Wu Gang doesn’t have to come forward and will become the biggest winner.
Thanks to the miracle that happened later, Miaomiao used a song to recall her mother's life.
After waking up in the singing of her daughter, Qin Ling waited for the court's divorce judgment, and the house fell into the name of her daughter Miaomiao. Her mother and daughter will have their lives guaranteed during the days when she left.
Appropriate tolerance is a virtue. Tolerance without bottom line shows a pathological condition, which not only indulges in the evil of people with injustice, but also hurts themselves.
If Qin Ling did not hold on to the mentality of not being able to make public the family scandals and repeatedly tolerate the harm of her mother-in-law to Miaomiao, Wumu would not have interpreted the evil in human nature so vividly, and became more and more severe day by day.
is written at the end:
Qin Ling's tragedy tells us that as a woman, we must learn to protect ourselves. cannot be "good enough" or "tolerance without bottom line", but also know how to "stop loss in time".
You can believe in love, but don’t believe that only love is enough in marriage. A good marriage, in addition to love, also requires some clear-headed considerations.
For example, the other party’s original family, his economic foundation and ability to make money, and whether the three views of both families match.
You can go along with each other's wish to be with him all your life, but you must also be prepared to leave halfway.
Once you find that the other party’s original family has an irreversible bad habit, once you see that the other party is calculating you without bottom line, stop loss in time is the wisest choice.
Turn around and leave bravely at critical moments, stop loss in time, and be responsible for yourself, but also for your relatives behind you.
Because once an accident occurs in life, it is not only you who are hurt, but also your children and parents.
Don’t easily believe men’s sweet words, and don’t compromise everything. Tolerance without bottom line is often the result of the other party’s intensification.
Hurt yourself in the name of love, that is something that only fools do. The final outcome of doing that is to lose your life, and it may not be possible to get both.
