He and his first wife were college classmates and were married in love freely. After marriage, he gave birth to a daughter.
For many years, they have fallen in love and worked hard together. The two people's careers have improved little by little. I bought a car and changed to a big house.
Life is moving towards a better and better direction. His father suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage in his hometown. After treatment in the hospital, he saved his life, but he could no longer work and needed someone to take care of him.
was originally taken care of by his mother at home. Later his mother fell ill.
He has a sister who has already gone to Chicago to settle down. In desperation, he decided to take his parents to his house to take care of him.
He is very busy at work and often has to go on business trips at home and abroad. Even if he doesn't go on business trips, it is commonplace.
His wife was originally a financial supervisor in a private company and she was very busy at work.
A nanny has been hired for a while at home, but none of them are satisfactory. Either the nanny neglects the elderly or is impatient to pick up and drop off the children.
Finally, he and his wife discussed with him and asked her to resign and take care of the elderly and children at home.
His wife said at first that she would not want anything. After all, she graduated from college and also has her own pursuits and ambitions. Career is also in the rising period.
He begged her to feel wronged for several years because of his grievance. Just work hard for a few years. Yes, he promised not to be too long, and he also promised that he would arrange all the expenses at home in the future. And will love her twice as much as you give back to her.
She believed it.
Later she left her job and worked as a full-time woman at home.
However, their marriage has changed quietly from this moment on.
He has more and more social engagements, and he goes out early and returns late every day. When he gets busy, he doesn't see anyone for a few weeks.
The matter of taking care of parents and children fell on the wife. At first she felt fine, but later she became more and more tired. But he couldn't help at all.
His position is getting higher and higher, making more and more money, but his family responsibilities are getting less and less. Later, for two years, he was seconded to work in the branch.
is because there are fewer and fewer separations. His daughter sometimes saw him with strangeness and complaining eyes.
When he came back, he felt his wife's temper became more and more irritable and her mood became more and more abnormal. The conversation became more and more verbose. She often complained that she became an unreasonable middle-aged woman. It's what he doesn't like.
, and she had made several suggestions to return to the workplace, but he refused.
She has also expressed her boredom and depression, fatigue and anxiety several times, and was regarded as pretentious by him at that time.
He said that she was getting more and more verbose, which made people very annoying. He gradually became disgusted with her.
Her complaints became a nightmare in his eyes.
He was already busy, but later, for a while, because he was afraid of his wife's nagging and complaining, he simply went home late after get off work, otherwise he would have lied that he had not finished his work and locked himself in the study until late at night. Later, he slept in the study.
His wife questioned and protested. He said she was not conscious and considerate.
Later, there were frequent quarrels. The family was in chaos.
Both the elderly and children have noticed that their marriage is strange. The old man advised them to live a good life, but their marriage showed no signs of change.
He felt very annoyed at that time.
I envy other people’s wives and my marriage.
Among his friends, many of his wives are full-time wives. They seem to be very good at managing their families and understanding. Satisfied my husband.
He always feels that his wife has changed. I always feel that I am very hard-working and need a gentle woman to live together to be more enjoyable.
At the same time, he met a woman who was very important to him, and he defined her as a confidante.
He did not betray his wife during marriage, but he was not grateful for his wife's efforts.
He talked to his confidante. I was in a cold war with my wife.
was finally in a big quarrel after the Cold War. He filed for divorce.
He didn't really want to divorce, but wanted to scare his wife with divorce. He always felt that doing so would make her realize that the situation was serious and thus change herself.
I didn't expect that she would agree readily.
This surprised him. He also began to reflect on himself.
She breathed a sigh of relief when she signed the divorce agreement !
She said that what I have paid for over the years is just a matter of course in your place. My grievances in your heart over the years are just unreasonable and pretentious again and again.
She said to him. There is nothing more disappointing and despair than not understanding. It's good to separate. I can also get a freshman.
At that moment, his heart was mixed. I can't explain what it feels like. He repeatedly wondered if the marriage was a mistake? Or is it because he has changed? He is the one who needs change? Not her!
But no matter what, they still divorced!
After the divorce, he sent his parents back to his hometown. I hired a distant relative who knew the truth to take care of them in my hometown.
The daughter followed the ex-wife. He pays 6,000 yuan in child support every month.
He has the right to visit his daughter, but his daughter seems reluctant to see him. Even when we meet, we are still cold and mechanically perfunctory.
The daughter admitted that she hated him a little.
Shortly after his ex-wife divorced, she went to study for a while and then found a job.
For five years, he was busy with his career and also cut off contact with that confidante.
He realized that he wanted to remarry. I also think that as long as he makes a lot of money. To create a better life for your ex-wife and daughter, one day they will experience his goodness and change their minds.
But then his ex-wife told him. She has a boyfriend and is considering remarriage, and she has also received blessings from her daughter.
He was angry and began to look for a marriage partner. He vowed to find a woman who was better than his ex-wife to remarry.
Someone told him that it was troublesome to remarry.
How troublesome is he? It’s just love I didn’t understand before, but now I have learned to understand a little; I will do a little better if I made the problem in the past. Others look good, have good jobs, and have the ability to make money. Why worry about not being able to find a woman who loves you? He can find a woman who has never been married.
is like his previous confidante. If he hadn't been married at that time, he thought she would be willing to marry him.
Later he did find a woman who said she loved him very much. Women are also very beautiful. He is 5 years younger than him. Very gentle personality.
But the other party is also divorced, and there is also a son who is younger than his daughter.
The son is raised by the woman's ex-husband.
Her ex-husband doesn't make money and is a idle man. She works in a cosmetics store, her monthly salary is about 6,000 yuan, rents a house herself, and pays her ex-husband’s son’s support for 2,000 yuan. Sometimes her ex-husband felt that it was not enough and often instructed her son to ask her for this and that money.
Before she met him, life was very hard. After she met him, she seemed to find a beam of light. He said he was her life-saving straw.
So she was more gentle and considerate to him and obeyed the will.
He remarried like this. There is an insult. But he thinks there is also a new love.
When they first joined together, they were newlywed and extremely happy. Live a world of two people.
originally promised to have another child. Both sons and daughters are good.
His second wife took the initiative to ask for no work after marriage and would cook, wash clothes at home and concentrate on taking care of his body.
This is exactly what he thinks.
He promised her to pay the 2,000 yuan of child support to her son every month.
Soon after, he took his parents back to live. The current wife is taken care of. She also nodded at the beginning.
I originally thought that this marriage would be smoother, simpler, and longer.
His parents are taken care of, his wife is gentle, considerate, understanding, and beautiful. He also voluntarily resigned and was willing to be the woman behind him at home.
He and she also have something in love in it. He thought he would be happy.
never thought that good times would not last long.
His current wife's ex-husband lost the only property they lived in. Being forced to debt. Her son was arranged to go to the home of grandparents in the countryside.If my son wants to study in the city, it is impossible for him to live in his grandparents' house. He knew that he lived in the same city as his mother, and he also learned that his mother lived a good life after marriage. Plus grandparents’ advice. He contacted his mother, came to the door, and moved in under the name of temporary residence.
I don’t want to leave now.
His current wife feels pitiful to him! How could he have such a big wronged father? Now it's time to make it homeless.
If he doesn’t live at his mother’s house, where would he let him live?
If you don’t give your son warmth as a mother, your son’s life will be too pitiful. When she divorced, she was not living a difficult life, so she did not seek custody. Now that she is in a good life, she will definitely want to get custody of her son. And give your son a good life. This is her responsibility as a mother.
And he felt that "raising a son" was her ex-husband's obligation, not his responsibility. He didn't want to live in a stranger at his home either.
He has a good relationship with his current wife, but he has a daughter himself, and his daughter has not come to live there, and he has not enjoyed the good life he gives, and he does not want to give other people's son a good life ready.
It is because of this incident that there is a rift between the couple. The two of them are usually fine. When talking about this, I always say nothing but a long sentence.
gradually began to quarrel. Most of the time she spends her days, she will still be gentle and obedient on the surface, but she will do whatever she wants behind her back. Don't take care of the elderly when you are in a bad mood.
The elderly often have breakfast without lunch or have lunch without dinner. She said eating less is good for them.
The old man was a little complaining. She just said something bad.
She said she had no obligation to take care of the elderly either.
Once he went on a business trip in Guangzhou. His mother made her own supper at home, but she fell down, but she went to her sister's house to play cards.
However, when her son returned home, he found that the old man fell to the ground, helped his mother up, and called 120 to the hospital, and called him.
His parents finally proposed to live back to their hometown, and his current wife wanted them to go back. They quickly packed their luggage.
At that moment, he was heartbroken and disappointed. He saw through her hypocrisy and perfunctory at once. Yes, this disappointed him. There is a kind of horsepower that tells you from a distance, and you can see people's hearts over time.
He felt it was not worth it for him to love her, and he made money to spend it for her and her son. It's not worth it either. But there is no need to divorce again. If you divorce again, you will be laughed at and your reputation in the company is not good.
His second marriage also lit up a red light. He is getting more and more bored.
When it was late at night, he often remembered his first marriage.
I remembered those years when he and his ex-wife were in the university study room, and they were in love with each other. I remembered the wedding they had personally booked, the birth of their daughter, and I remembered that she gave up her career for him and went home to take care of the elderly and children.
Now I feel that the ex-wife's nagging and complaining about him at that time have also become beautiful memories...
