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The dowry room of the daughter-in-law should be the pre-marital property of the daughter-in-law, not the common property of the in-laws' family.
But there are some mothers-in-law who like to take the daughter-in-law's dowry house for themselves, and ask the daughter-in-law to send the house to her youngest son to get married, so as to achieve the purpose of marrying two daughters-in-law in a wedding house.
Deng Min never expected that her mother-in-law lived in her own food, and finally thought about taking her dowry house for herself. It would be fine if her own son had a soft meal, but she still wanted to eat a soft meal and took over the dowry room for her younger son to get married.
02
Deng Min is the only daughter and married her husband in a free love relationship. At that time, my parents did not agree with this marriage. If Deng Min had not been determined and insisted on marrying her husband, the two might have parted ways long ago, and they would not have had a big fight in the end.
When we got married, my mother-in-law kept crying poor, without a wedding house or a bride price. Deng Min got pregnant in the first year of marriage. In the name of her pregnancy, my mother-in-law naturally moved into her dowry room.
Deng Min wanted to object, but her husband said that her mother-in-law was kind-hearted, and he couldn't refuse. After her mother-in-law moved in openly, Deng Min's life became a bit difficult. The mother-in-law was domineering and was just right, and arranged orders at home, and no one was allowed to oppose or interfere.
For the sake of her husband and the unborn child in her belly, Deng Min did not fight against her mother-in-law. But the more she endured her feelings, the more her mother-in-law thought she was weak and could be bullied. Not only did she point fingers at her, but she even pointed fingers at her parents' property.
03
The mother-in-law has lived in for the third year, and her brother-in-law is also preparing to get married. But because the wedding room was not settled, the woman never nodded and agreed. My mother-in-law was so anxious that she jumped up and down and found ways to raise money. But after getting together, it was still a big difference from the down payment of the wedding house.
, the mother-in-law who couldn't get the down payment, finally came up with a solution, which was to think about going to Deng Min's dowry room. At the time of marriage, my in-laws couldn't afford a house, and Deng Min's parents were unwilling to be wronged by their daughters and in-laws, so they paid for their daughter to buy a house for them out of their own pocket.
Who knew that this house not only did not shelter his daughter from the wind and rain, but also made the in-laws think about his daughter's house and wanted to take it for themselves. As the marriage period of my brother-in-law approached, my mother-in-law began to make all kinds of tricks. She first complained about the fatigue of taking care of the children, but she also despised her son and daughter-in-law for her use as a free nanny.
Even to the end of the matter, my mother-in-law cried and wanted to go back to her hometown to retire and no longer serve such a large family. Her husband said all the good things and coaxed her for a long time. Then the mother-in-law told her true purpose. She felt sorry for her younger son that she did not have a wedding house and hoped that her eldest daughter-in-law could give up the dowry house for her younger son to get married. As long as their wish is fulfilled, they will naturally stay and help take care of the children.
04
After listening to her husband's retelling, Deng Min couldn't help but sneer. My mother-in-law was not complaining, she was blatantly asking her for a house. My mother-in-law wanted to morally kidnap her and send her dowry room, and take her dowry room for herself to help her brother-in-law.
Thinking of her mother-in-law's partiality and selfishness, Deng Min could no longer hold back her temper. In recent years, she and her husband have delicious food and drink to provide for their parents-in-law, but in the end, their parents-in-law have been thinking about their young son who has not been married and have to take her dowry house for themselves. They say that Deng Min is the only daughter, and her parents have
. Deng Min is no longer polite. She took out the property certificate and printed out the payment certificate of her parents. She pointed to the certificate and said to her mother-in-law that she could give me the house. For the sake of the family, I will sell it to you as a full price of 800,000 yuan, and a lot of money.
When he heard Deng Min shouting that he wanted to pay the money with one hand and buy the house with the other, his mother-in-law was so angry that she cursed at home, accusing Deng Min of being jealous of seeing the money, and her brother-in-law also wanted to collect money and had a lot of money. What is the difference between this and robbing him directly?
Deng Minke ignored her mother-in-law's clamor and husband's plea. She threw her in-laws' luggage out of the door and told them that the child does not need you to take it. You can go back wherever you come from. My brother-in-law is not my own son. I have no obligation to send him a house to get married. Whoever has his son raised him.
The house was not plotted away after all, and my mother-in-law was kicked out of the house, but Deng Min and her husband's relationship was much worse than before. Her husband blamed her for being unkind and not considering him and his parents. Although Deng Min did not divorce, she gradually became discouraged by her husband.
Today's topic:
How do you think that mother-in-law should take the dowry house of her daughter-in-law for herself?
