text: Liu Haitong
On August 6, 2022, I suddenly received a call, which was called by the hospital.
I answered the phone in confusion, and the doctor said, "Are you Mr. Zhong Zhijun's wife? Your husband was in a car accident and was in the hospital for treatment. Let's sign a name..."
When I heard this bad news, I was shocked first, and then fell into hesitation.
My heart is churning with blood, gritting my teeth.
After some ideological struggle, I finally passed.
When I arrived at the ward, I saw the skinny man I loved deeply. He was lying on the bed, looking at me with confused eyes, speechless, and wearing a ventilator, looking very pitiful.
, but I pulled out his ventilator angrily and refused to dissolve the thrombus. Under the doctor's shock, I took the documents in the doctor's hand and signed a few big words "Give up the rescue." After signing
, under the shock of all the doctors and nurses, I left. My husband also saw this scene of
, and he must have been cut into pieces in his heart.
He is only 49 years old, but I want him to die sooner.
I married my husband in the early years and thought I would be happy for the rest of my life.
We have a son and a daughter, which adds up to a good word. I thought I was the happiest mother in the world and the happiest wife in the world, so I was so kind to my husband and willing to be his nanny, let him do whatever he wants.
Our original relationship with each other was indeed very good. I remember that he had drunk alcohol before and said it was a social event, but I told him that the money was not obtained by drinking alcohol. He seemed to know what I was right, so he decisively quit drinking. After
, it is a problem of smoking. He has all the defects other men have. Not only is he poor, he also needs to smoke, and most importantly, he smokes Furongwang .
The first time I warned him not to smoke, he did not dare to disobey me and did not dare to smoke at home, but I could smell his bad breath, so when I warned him not to smoke for the second time, he decisively quit.
I heard that quitting smoking is more difficult than quitting sex. My husband must really love me, so he quit smoking. I feel very comforted.
My husband is a taxi driver, which is a very useless job. I usually respect people from the bottom of society, but I look down on those ungrateful men. My husband told me confidently that he would make a lot of money in the future.
I believe it, and as long as he says, I believe it.
I am a team leader in an electronics factory. My work is very stable and I have been working for many years.
As a driver, I know that he will meet many female tenants, but I am willing to believe that he knows loyalty.
I remember that I elopeed and followed this man, but now I think about it is really worth it.
My father is the owner of a large restaurant. This restaurant is now inherited by my brother. I have been pampering since I was a child. I am usually generous and often go to play, which leads to the fact that I left the society after graduating from high school.
I went to an electronics factory to do qc quality inspection. When I got off work, I often took a private car to rent a house. Because I was beautiful, my husband asked me to talk to me.
He was pretending to be a good man at that time, very gentle, not that bad, five years older than me.
He tickled me hard, and soon he got me. We lived together, and then after half a year, I became bigger.
My father asked me what the man did, and I said he was a driver, a single-parent family, and my father firmly disagreed with letting me marry him.
But I was young and energetic, and I was determined to go alone, and I ran away from home resolutely and moved directly to live with my husband. I only explained to my mother's family after giving birth to the child.
My husband did have nothing at that time and had no house, so I could only rent a house with him.
Maybe because I am very nice to my husband, my husband was also very nice to me in the first few years, and sometimes I would give me small gifts.
Later, my mother saw that I was alive and had no regrets, so she forgave me for taking action first and then reporting.
But I didn’t expect that a man’s heart would change. In the first few years, he did obey me and never quarrel with me. I always thought I had chosen the right person.
However, when the child was 10 years old, my husband said he had saved some money and was preparing to do business.
I know that my husband may be afraid that I will blame him for being unpromising, so he did business. In fact, he has no ability at all.
In order to support him, I gave him all my deposits and asked my mother for 100,000 yuan.
But what I didn’t expect was that my husband said that doing business was just to open a supermarket, that’s all.
No matter what, the supermarket has not gone bankrupt anyway, and my husband did not embarrass me too much. He returned the 100,000 I gave him.
But at the same time, my relationship with my husband gradually became dull. I know that all couples are like this, at least we didn’t quarrel, which is already very good.
One day, my husband told me: "I am the only child. My mother raised me with great difficulty. It is very difficult. Why don't you take your son back to your hometown to take care of my mother and let me stay alone in the city center. After a while, I will see if I can bring my mother here to support her."
I had no doubts at the time and agreed. I know that my mother-in-law is a widow. It is indeed not easy to live alone. She needs personal company and care.
I get along in harmony with my mother-in-law. My husband will go home every once in a while, but I often feel that my husband seems to have something to hide from me.
At first I thought he wanted to make a lot of money, so I thought too much, which made me look worried.
In 2017, a call came over, and my husband actually avoided me, walked away to answer the call alone, and looked at me from time to time. This made me a little confused, but I only thought it was a business partner or a friend who was drinking and drinking to ask him to go out for a drink and social event, so he didn't dare let me hear it. I never thought he would betray me.
Because we have suffered hard days, we can be considered a couple in distress. How could he have an extramarital affair? It's impossible.
In 2018, I said I would live in the city center with my husband and let the child take him to my mother-in-law. I would go to the city center in elementary school and take him to the city center in middle school, but my husband firmly disagreed. My husband's performance made me strange. I think it's no big deal, but he seemed to dare not let me live in the city center.
Later, I finally went to the city center to live, but my husband went out early and came back late. I thought, what was he busy with?
Looking at the empty big bed at night, I was a little disappointed, and the doubts in my heart could not be suppressed. Finally, I called my husband and wanted to urge him to go home quickly.
Unexpectedly, the tone of the man on the other end of the phone changed completely, becoming very cold, not like my husband at all.
He asked roughly, "What's the matter? Call?"
This tone surprised me a little. I asked carefully, "When did you go home? It's so late."
The other end of
still said coldly, "It's not that fast, when is talking about customers, you go to bed first, and hang up."
After saying this, I didn't react, but I clearly heard the charming voice of a woman next to me: "Zhijun, come on."
The voice was very ecstatic, a voice that only lustful women had. When I wanted to ask my husband, the phone was already hung up.
The voice later I realized that it was his lover, and the woman said that purpose was to force my husband to divorce me.
But since I heard that sentence, I have started thinking day and night. The words that make people lose goosebumps are clearly the words of lovers acting cute.
After my husband came home, I did not choose to question him, but kept everything normal and then took steps to follow up.
August 9, 2018, I indeed saw my husband holding the hand of a young and beautiful woman in his arm. The woman seemed to be ten years younger than me. They smiled brightly, and I was in pain inside.
I followed them all the way, and they actually went to the door of a hotel. They seemed to be very familiar with the geographical environment there and must have been going there frequently.
I couldn't wait until I walked forward and raised my hand and slapped the woman.
"Bitch!" I said angrily.
The woman was slapped by me and she was furious on her face. I thought she would hit me, but what I didn't expect was that before the woman could take action, my husband actually pushed me hard.
I fell to the ground and stared at my husband angrily.
My husband actually scolded me: "You shrew, who told you to hit someone!"
Looking at my husband's hideous expression, I was desperate for a moment. It turned out that in my husband's mind, that woman is more important than me.
My husband took the woman away, regardless of the helpless embarrassment of me sitting on the ground.
I stood up, patted the dust on my clothes, and looked at the adulterer and mistress away from my sight.
I swear, I must break my gratitude with that slutty man.
However, divorce is not a simple matter. I have to consider the ridicule and criticism of my son, parents, sisters and relatives. I began to think in my heart about how to deal with my husband and I.
But what made me desperate was that my husband actually appeared in front of me with that woman, sat in the car I bought for my husband with money, and then cheated even more unscrupulously, not even going back to my home.
I finally understood why he insisted on not letting me come to the city center, and it turned out that he had kept a vixen.
I know that many women will do many extreme things after being betrayed, but I don’t know. I won’t harm myself or commit suicide for this wild man. I just think human nature is a very complicated thing. Why did I get blind and get rid of this slutty man?
The first thing I think of is to tell my mother-in-law about this and let her deal with him. If her mother-in-law persuades him without success, then divorce is inevitable.
My mother-in-law was very angry after hearing this. She was so angry that her liver disease relapsed and was admitted to the hospital. I kept taking care of her in the hospital and felt a little guilty. My mother-in-law is so old that I shouldn't have done this.
I told the dead man about my mother-in-law's hospitalization, and he was willing to come back. However, my mother-in-law asked him to cut off contact with the woman in front of me, but her husband hesitated.
Looking at his slutty look, I said in anger that I wanted to divorce him, but my husband surprisingly did not object, which made me feel cold. But my mother-in-law advised me not to divorce my husband. My mother-in-law comforted me kindly, "Haitong, man, I will go home whenever I am tired of playing, so be tolerant."
After hearing this, I said to my mother-in-law in disbelief: "Mother-in-law, how can you say that? If my father-in-law cheats, will you let it go? Besides, this man and that woman show their love in front of me so proudly. Did he feel at ease?"
Mother-in-law said that I am a good daughter-in-law, but she actually knelt down on the spot, saying that she might not have too much time to let me tolerate her son. I had no choice but to agree.
But that man was passionate about love and was determined to hang out with that woman, so he simply didn't even go back to home, not only did he not want me and the children, nor did he want his mother.
In September 2019, my husband went home. It was probably the same as my mother-in-law said. He was tired of playing and changed his mind, but I didn't expect that he would file for divorce from me when he came back, saying that the woman was pregnant.
I originally wanted to fulfill his wishes because I was too angry, but I didn't want to fulfill his good deeds. I wanted to drag them to death, so I refused decisively.
My husband blushed and asked me to divorce him, but I was indifferent.
My husband finally had no choice but to do anything to me and slammed the door and came out. But this time, I was really desperate. I found that I had no feelings for him completely. Even if he was about to die in the future, it had nothing to do with me.
Since this divorce storm, I have become so sad that I am devoted to taking care of my children. Then I found a new job and worked as a salesman in a clothing store, and my salary was a little higher.
I found that I seemed to be old, facing the mirror late at night. Yes, can people who often look sad and never grow old?
I coaxed the children and said, "Your father is doing business outside and comes home only when he has time."
Every time I tell such a lie, I squeeze out a smile, but in fact I feel very sad inside.
But later, the children still knew because the children grew up and had the ability to distinguish.
But I said to the children, "This is my business with your father, it's not your business. I live a happy life, you don't need to worry about me."
Very few husbands come back, and we sleep in separate rooms every time. He doesn't have much education and care for the children, so he is not worthy of being a father.
I have known for a long time that a man like my husband who cannot accomplish great things but likes to steal fish will not achieve his career.
Sure enough, within a few years, his business began to decline.
Originally, I raised my child, and he would give me 2,000 yuan a month, but later he simply didn't give me a penny. From that time on, I already knew that he was not good enough and his career had problems.
At this time, my children have graduated from college, which is the most comforting thing for me.
The pain of a woman is not that she cannot get physical satisfaction, but that she cannot get spiritual support. But my son's success made my heart melt like a glacier, and I embraced life again.
My husband went bankrupt, I was so happy that I was. This man was bound by himself and suffered from bad consequences.
I have the ability to raise children, so I don’t need to rely on my husband at all. To be honest, I have saved all the money he gave me over the years, and I haven’t moved my penny because I have enough ability to support the children.
My husband has long been strangers to me. He has become a passerby A or passerby B who I have never met, and a person who is irrelevant at all.
What I unexpected most was that on August 6, 2022, I received a call from the hospital saying that my husband was critically ill and asked me to pay for his life.
My first reaction was shocked, and then I wanted to refuse, because I felt that he was worthy of death, so why are you looking for me?
But out of instinct, I went to the hospital to take a look at him.
Knowing the news that he was critically ill is neither a joy nor a disaster for me. He is just an irrelevant passerby, a man who would rather give money to that woman than spend money in his family.
A man who is as stupid as a pig, is fooled by that woman. Look at that woman. As soon as he falls out, the woman runs away without a trace.
I came to the ward and saw my husband lying there like a vegetative person. I asked him why, and he told me with the last bit of strength that he was deceived by that woman, so he was dizzy and got into a car accident.
After hearing this, I grinned, then walked to the folder, and signed a few big words on the paper, "Give up the rescue."
After signing, I walked away with confidence, leaving those doctors, and watched me leave in a daze.
I know that my husband has gone bankrupt and has no money to help him. Only I can save him. Over the years, I have saved some money.
He is the only son, and his relatives are me and his mother, and his mother-in-law, who had passed away a few years ago.
So, no one saved him.
says I am ruthless or unrighteous or beautiful, but in short, I did this and had a clear conscience.
I want to say that women are not easy to mess with. Don’t think that women dare not treat men. If women become cruel, they will be even better than men.
Marriage is like a gamble. Even though you know that human nature is complicated, you have to fall into it. Then you pray every day and your life with the other person is getting better and better, but the result is very disappointed.
So, until the last moment, you don’t know whether it’s a loss or a win or a win. Choice is more important than business. You cannot lose in choosing a spouse. You should be cautious when choosing a spouse.
