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Wealth allows people to survive in the world and also breeds a lot of negative emotions.
People in the world long for their own life to be rich. Whether it is spiritual carefree or material wealth, both of them can make people live in this world with ease.
However, modern people are prone to deviations in pursuing both material and spiritual, which leads to disorder in all parties and it is difficult to get both fish and bear's paw.
is like a person with countless wealth, but is depressed all day long and anxious;
is like a person who has food and clothing problems, and dreams of poetry and distance, and ultimately can only become a "capable man" passed down by people through word of mouth. People are no longer there, so what if there are many praises and honors.
Yishu wrote in " Round Dance ": Abundance is a psychological condition, the richest is a satisfied person, and wealth has no big connection with money.
A person, as long as his heart is rich, even if he is at the trough of his life, he can still forge ahead and find the path to reach the peak.
But a person's heart is poor, then no matter how much wealth he has, he will be defeated one day in the future.
So, it is not scary for people to be poor, but what is scary is that people are poor and their hearts are poor.
There are many ways to live. Everyone has their own pursuits and ideals and plans for the future. No matter what path they want to take, they must go through hardships and ultimately gain a foothold and develop in this society.
Perhaps, some people’s pursuit is not about money and stability, but more advanced things, but in the persistent pursuit, material wealth can naturally be abundant.
But if a person is obviously very dissatisfied with his current life situation but complains about the world and is not enterprising all day long, then he is destined to achieve nothing in his life.
Live in the world, and come from a society, that is, dealing with all kinds of people, making friends has become a necessity for people to base themselves in society.
The old saying goes that those who are close to the red are red and those who are close to the ink are black. You must be cautious when making friends and don’t be friends with these three types of “poor people”.
There is always a loan but no return. People with "poor wealth"
Money is a kind of number, which has nothing to do with the future and the past. It is as much as it is, but we cannot define poverty and wealth as numbers.
There is no absolute in the world, and of course there is no absolute between poor and rich. The gap between rich and poor in society is tangible.
However, we cannot pursue absolute balance.
Wealth poverty can probably be defined as the amount of money is very small, and it is difficult for oneself to have the potential to make money, and it will be difficult to get rid of poverty for a long time in the future.
In today's society, people's food and clothing are no longer a problem, but this does not mean there is no pressure.
There are many cases where people become poor due to illness and poor due to accidents, but people cannot look at people with tinted glasses, and they cannot stay away just because the other party has no money. Although friends are a resource, friendship has always been the primary priority.
Wealth or poverty cannot be used as a condition for making friends. However, there is such a person who is poor and destitute, but does not want to work hard. He lives by relying on other people's support and always asks people to borrow money to live a life of all kinds.
It is obvious that it is definitely difficult to get back if you lend money to such people.
Make friends with such people is like meeting a bottomless pit. When you no longer have no money to lend him, he will disappear from your eyes, and repaying the money will be in a long way.
Just live a life of mediocrity, people with "poor ambitions"
There are all kinds of people in society, and there are always those who spend time and advocate "life is short, and enjoy timely".
Such outlook on life does not conform to ordinary people’s pursuit of life. Everyone has their own ambitions, and no one can say that it is a mistake.
However, if you get too close to such people, you will always be influenced by their outlook on life. While drinking and drinking, their " " thoughts will subtly invade your thinking.
People are poor and have endless ambitions. The lack of wealth in money just means insufficient material conditions. You can find ways to overcome them and set your ambitions and work hard. Everything has the possibility of change.
But those who are poor and have short ambitions are destined to live a life of silence, and they will never benefit from making friends with them.
Discussions can never escape the principle of "those who are close to the ink are black". They do not seek "those who are close to the vermilion are red", but they do not seek to be influenced by those "poor" who have a bad tendency in their minds.
You should know that once a person becomes cynical and self-deprecating, it will be a disaster for personal development.
People who are confused have their own lifestyle, but it is difficult for the world to understand and integrate into it. They can be respected but not worth getting closer.
Unreasonable, "poor emotional intelligence" person
As mentioned earlier, from a society, you are dealing with all kinds of people. In addition to being polite and humble to make friends, you also need to have a certain emotional intelligence.
Emotional Intelligence can also be divided into many types, such as emotional intelligence in love, emotional intelligence in friendship, emotional intelligence in work and career, etc.
Some men are so dull in love that women are crazy, but they are deeply appreciated by leaders at work, and their emotional intelligence cannot be absolutely shaped.
The cultivation of emotional intelligence requires certain talents, and secondly, it requires certain acquired cultivation and training.
For those "flowers" who have lived in greenhouses for a long time, when they first enter society, their expression of emotional intelligence will be their shortcomings. However, low emotional intelligence is not scary, but what is scary is that it is unclear.
Things have priorities, and people should maintain a rational and clear position in the face of major issues.
people should have principles and bottom lines, such as honesty and trustworthiness, loyalty, patriotism and family love, etc.
These are things that people should put first and stick to. Some people talk nonsense when facing setbacks. In this way, people who are unreasonable will always cause trouble and will involve their friends one day.
In order to avoid causing big trouble for yourself, when encountering people with low emotional intelligence, you can nod and nod to them.
Time and Emotional Class:
What is friendship?
is a chat on the Internet or a chat in reality?
Is it just a few sentences or a long talk all night?
Some people think that having communication is considered making friends, while others think that having in-depth understanding is considered making friends. There is a personal principle of making friends, and all of them are friendship under the principles.
But no matter what, be careful when making friends. Some people can only make nods, otherwise it will have a great negative impact on your life.
Although it is said that the consequences of inadvertent friendship can be minor or serious. You cannot treat others with excessive caution, otherwise you will not be able to make true friends.
But you must be careful with others. No matter who you interact with, it is always right to leave a way out. Some "poor people" can only be passers-by with them.
If you have to interfere with him, you must be prepared to suffer a great loss.
