The youngest daughter-in-law Ji Geng cried and told the mediator, Her sister-in-law had a fight with her parents-in-law, and after doing it, she kept wiping her tears.
Why can’t my sister-in-law stand up when she quarrels with her parents-in-law? Do your sister-in-law really feel sorry for her parents-in-law? Or is there something else? After reading it, I realized how hateful these two daughters-in-law were.
All of this starts with Mr. Sun's request for help. When Mr. Sun saw the mediator, he burst into tears. He said that it was a happy thing to have children and grandchildren, but now he felt uncomfortable and just wanted to cry. Because the two daughters-in-law at home competed with each other, they helped this one, but couldn't help that one. After a while, the old couple was exhausted and left behind, and both daughters-in-law accused them of being unfair and being biased towards each other.
A few days ago, the eldest daughter-in-law and her husband had another dispute. She invited the village cadres to mediate, but there was no effect. A few days ago, the eldest daughter-in-law rushed back to her parents' home angrily, but after learning that the mild case had come, the eldest daughter-in-law also took the initiative to return home...
What happened in this family? Why is it so troubled? In order to find out the truth of the matter, the reporter decided to find the eldest daughter-in-law Yanyan to find out the situation first. Yanyan also admitted frankly that she had an argument with her mother-in-law a few days ago. On the day of the incident, she came back from outside. When she saw that her mother-in-law was idle, she asked her to help her bathe her daughter. Her daughter was naughty and could not take care of herself, but her mother-in-law was anxious and said that she still had a lot of things to do and she wanted to make dinner for her sister-in-law .
As a result, Yanyan was not happy. insisted that her mother-in-law cook for her sister-in-law after bathing her daughter. The mother-in-law disagreed, and the two started arguing . Not only did her father-in-law not persuade her, she started arguing with Yanyan, which made Yanyan feel very wronged. She is also their daughter-in-law, so why are her parents-in-law so partial to her sister-in-law?
After hearing this, the mediator felt incredible, just to give the child a bath and make the family mess? Regarding the accusation of the eldest daughter-in-law, , the mother-in-law, Mrs. Yang, admitted that when the eldest daughter-in-law asked her to bathe her granddaughter, she said she wanted to cook for her young daughter-in-law. As a result, the eldest daughter-in-law lost her temper and said that if she didn't wash her, she had no choice but to bathe her granddaughter first before cooking for her young daughter-in-law.
Old Mrs. Yang said that as parents-in-law, whether they are grandsons or granddaughters, they are their pearls in their eyes. It was just a matter of use to bathe their granddaughters, but the reason why she did not agree was because the young daughter-in-law had just finished giving birth and was in confinement at the time. The younger son Xiaoqiang drove a big car and was not at home now. As a mother-in-law, she wanted to make dinner for the young daughter-in-law who was in confinement. Unexpectedly, this would make the eldest daughter-in-law extremely dissatisfied with .
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博小子子子子子子子子 said that she and her husband Xiaoqiang have been married for 12 years, have two daughters, and now they have a son, the son has only 18 days, and there are two daughters to take care of. If there is no mother-in-law helping to cook, the four of them will be hungry, let alone have a good confinement period. In-laws are grateful for her care, but because her parents-in-law cooked a meal for herself, she did not expect that it caused a quarrel between her sister-in-law and her mother-in-law, which made her, who was already fragile, even more guilty.
Yanyan said that during the confinement period, the mother-in-law can do anything to help her, but the mother-in-law must first help herself and then help her sister-in-law after she finishes her work. This is difficult for the mediator to understand. After all, it is not difficult to take a bath for the child, so why do you have to let the mother-in-law wash it? The mediator told Yanyan that as the eldest daughter-in-law in the family, she should take the lead. If she is really sensible, she should remind her mother-in-law to cook for her sister-in-law first, instead of causing chaos in the family because of a small bath.
However, Yanyan didn't care about this. After repeated questioning by the mediator, Yanyan said what she said, "The conflict between her and her sister-in-law and her mother-in-law is far from that simple. In order to make her in-laws be impartial to her and her sister-in-law, she and her sister-in-law signed an agreement. The mother-in-law has been helping her sister-in-law like this, which is a violation of the agreement.
The mediator was curious, what agreement is this? At this time, Mr. Sun took out an agreement and handed it to the mediator. The content of the agreement: In-laws helped the two sons take turns for a month. During this period, no matter whether they were sick or something big or small, they could not take care of the other family. They could only rest on Saturdays and Sundays, and they could not have dinner at their son's house. The two daughters-in-law signed the agreement.
mediator was shocked by the content of this agreement. Old Mrs. Yang explained that a year ago, the two daughters-in-law agreed to let the old couple take turns to take care of their family. No matter which company is turned to , they must take care of this company wholeheartedly. For families that have not yet been turned, no matter what big or small things happen at home, their parents-in-law cannot interfere. Uncle Sun said that over the years, they have been like this.
The mediator asked Mr. Sun, do you think this agreement is fair? Uncle Sun said it was unfair. still has more than ten acres of land, and he also needs an old lady to support him. The mediator said who planted the land of the two sons. Uncle Sun said that he helped them water the land, inject pesticides, etc. When it was time to harvest, the two daughters-in-law harvested by themselves. Both sons were working outside. Speaking of the hardships over the years, the result was thankless and the daughter-in-law was disliked and quarreled by the daughter-in-law. The old couple's eyes were red with sadness.
The old couple said that they were unwilling to sign the agreement at the beginning, but the two daughters-in-law made the family uneasy. The old couple had no choice but to compromise in the end, but even though they followed the agreement, the eldest daughter-in-law and the youngest daughter-in-law still had constant conflicts.
In response to this, Yanyan said that her parents-in-law did help with the children and farming, , but this month, the parents-in-law should have taken care of her family, but because her sister-in-law was in confinement, the mother-in-law violated the agreement and went to help her sister-in-law, which made her feel that her mother-in-law was biased towards her sister-in-law . The mediator criticized her because their agreement violated the interests of the elderly and was invalid. There was no law that grandparents must take care of their son. If the son and daughter-in-law respected their parents, the parents would also help take care of the children.
The mediator criticized the two daughters-in-law. Is this ridiculous agreement respecting the elderly? They said bluntly that they were both too selfish, and at this time the two daughters-in-law realized what was wrong with them, but what made the mediator puzzled was what happened before between the sister-in-law and why did this ridiculous agreement be signed?
At this time, Yanyan told the inside story. Her daughter had a severe fever before, and the doctor asked her to go to a large hospital for treatment. Since her husband was out of the way, she asked her mother-in-law to help take care of her. The mother-in-law agreed to go together, but she waited in the car for a long time, but she didn't see her mother-in-law. So she urged her mother-in-law to hurry up, but the mother-in-law said that the young daughter-in-law would not allow her to go to , which made her very angry. All the backlog of dissatisfaction broke out at this moment. This time, the sister-in-law touched her bottom line.
So after she came back from taking her daughter to see a doctor, she proposed to sign such an agreement with her parents-in-law. So did Ji Geng really do this? Ji Geng admitted that this was indeed true, but there was a reason for this. Because my mother-in-law had just helped her take care of the child for a while, my sister-in-law made an excuse to send her away. She thought it was her sister-in-law who was jealous, so she stopped her mother-in-law from going to .
At this time, the mediator criticized Ji Geng for saying that children's safety is the first priority after all. When encountering this, Ji Geng should not only not stop it, but also actively propose to help the sister-in-law. The two sisters-in-law love each other and help each other. In this way, the two families, including children, love each other and have a harmonious family.
During the mediator's one-hour communication, the two sisters-in-law finally shook hands and made peace. They had a sincere hug, and they let go of all the grudges and knots they had put down, constantly wiping their tears. At this time, they also aroused their guilt and debts towards their parents-in-law. Because of their disagreement, the parents-in-law worried and the family was uneasy.
The last two daughters-in-law found their parents-in-law and apologized to them. Yanyan, as the eldest sister-in-law, took the lead in taking action and thanked her parents-in-law for her efforts over the years. After saying that, she cried and hugged her parents-in-law. She also said that she would take care of her children in the future, try not to bother her parents-in-law, be a filial daughter-in-law, apologize to her parents-in-law, and finally hug her two.
Both say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, but both daughters-in-law have achieved this, which is very rare. They are not parents-in-law. They are clearly two free servants and nannies. They don’t even give them food if they don’t work, and they also have to pay for money. I don’t know what their two sons are, silently supporting them, or pretend not to know?
The eldest daughter-in-law Yanyan was too much. After all, her sister-in-law was in confinement and deliberately obstructed her mother-in-law to cook for her sister-in-law. However, the younger daughter-in-law was not a good person. When her niece got sick, she also obstructed her mother-in-law to treat her niece. As expected, they were all cruel people. You were on the first day of the first day of the lunar month and I was fifteenth. When you met these two daughter-in-law, it was also unlucky for the old couple.
What do you think about these two daughters-in-law’s approach? If you meet such a daughter-in-law, what would you do?
