is a dangerous thing to make an idea for others. Because, if done, you may gain nothing; if not done properly, you may still be useless.
Of course, your willingness to help is based on your enthusiasm. The problem is that what defeats this enthusiasm is often the coldness of reality - years that may not be recognized, and
people's hearts that may not be appreciated.
The advantage of outsiders is that you may be very rational than the willfulness of the parties involved. The downside to outsiders is that you may imagine it to be relaxed in places where the parties are struggling.
In this world, some people want to quit their jobs to pursue freedom, some people want to travel and take risks to live out themselves, some people want to love someone for a lifetime, and some people want to get out of the marital dilemma. Generally speaking, there is no distinction between these major things that should not be. If you want to do it, it is all
. The parties involved are looking forward to it, but they are not determined to be responsible for themselves. At this time, if you push someone or pull them back, it means you have to take responsibility for that part of your unfulfilled determination.
Because, the parties talk with the ending, and you use the original intention to help everyone. No matter how good your original intention is, it becomes unthinkable in the bad ending. In most cases, following the other party’s thoughts can win the parties better than blocking them against the idea.
All things will inevitably have a certain fate in the growth. It is definitely not possible to be able to do it by one's nature. If you are at the mercy of others, you will not be able to survive. There is no smooth life. Only by making mistakes can a person truly grow.
There are some roads that must be walked alone.
Some lives are designed by others throughout their lives. Such a life may be full of flowers and may be easy to do, but such a life must be lacking.
. Only the parties involved know what they really lack, as well as the pain and pain. What others see is just halo and glory.
So, I especially admire the eagle that kicked my child out on the cliff. More animals, from the moment their children leave themselves, let go and ask them to make their own moves. As for which path to take and which direction to go, I don’t care about it at all, and I will never care about it from now on.
Compared to humans, this is the advanced level of animals. A person’s maturity is ultimately understanding: you must learn to bear
responsibility for all choices.
(Excerpt from "Thinking and Wisdom" Ma De/text)
