There are really few people who can think independently nowadays. They are trapped in information cocoons one by one and can’t extricate themselves. Short videos, cool articles, games, and then talk about it first, and they all forget what life should be like.
Because a lot of knowledge in modern society is indirect knowledge , and the understanding of the world is abstract thinking . Everyone uses expert judgments (such as scores, salary systems) to replace their own standards. Why is
disillusioned?
Every thing has good and bad aspects, and has the same places and unsatisfactory aspects as imagined. If reality is not as expected, you will feel disillusioned. How to deal with
?
First, don’t let the abstract system replace self-thinking, and establish an abstract system for self-evaluation. For example, choosing a major depends not only on scores, but also on personal interests; choosing a career depends not only on salary, but also on work content and workplace atmosphere.
Second, trust your own rationality, and subdivide something when doing something, which aspects you like, which aspects you don’t like, and what percentage is it? When you wake up and recall it, do you feel tired or a little happy, and find the point where you are happy.
3, keep thinking, summarizing experience, and constantly find your own direction.
