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There are many words about life perceptions, and life management methods are emerging one after another, but why are there still some people living relatively smoothly in their later years, while others are completely the opposite?
Her years are the time after retirement. According to common sense, it should be time for children to be independent, individuals do not have to run around, and have a good time for the rest of their lives.
However, when people come in their later years, they do not get an ideal state of comfort?
In this life, no matter what you do, if you want to achieve relatively ideal results, you must do the preliminary preparations comprehensively and safely. If you are perfunctory or distracted, the result will be affected! The four words "
" are the most familiar. It fully demonstrates that everything is success or failure, all is cause and effect!
In this life, there is no moment for a person to start over. Only by truly living in the present can one make one less uncomfortable in the future - both physically and mentally, one will be spared from being unbearable.
In fact, the ten years of age 40 to 50 are the golden age to lay the foundation for old age!
Once this important decade is ignored, a person's old age will be "sad"!
person's 40-50 years old is the watershed in the golden period of this life. In order to have a better life in your later years, you must do the following:
First, you must have a deep self-awareness:
People who lack self-awareness are easily overestimated or cowardly when facing interpersonal relationships and external things.
At the same time, people who lack self-awareness will not find the real focus of their life in their current life and are often consumed by people or things that are not right with them.
People who have entered the age of 40-50 are still lacking in self-awareness. Instead of caring about other people's vision and evaluation, and always entangling and distressing about some things that they are unable to change, it is better to use acceptance and self-change to save themselves.
With a deep self-awareness, you will understand what you should do, what you should say, what "attitude" and methods should be used to people and things, which will be more conducive to making people feel comfortable and restraining yourself.
To put it bluntly, in the 10 years of age 40-50, people should summarize based on their past experiences and look forward to the future to make breakthroughs and improvements, so that they will not live a sloppy life in their later years and be uncomfortable all day because of their inner "emptiness".
Second, know how to pay attention to physical and mental health
Everyone says that this life is a process of practice, but few people are willing to study what they practice and what they do.
In fact, in this life, what you cultivate is the mind and what you do is the quality!
In this life, everyone has their own obstacles to overcome, but most of the people who insist on correctly will be more and more smooth.
Think too much and do too little, have more wrong obsessions and few correct actions, and people's energy will be consumed by themselves!
0-50 years old, and your life is already half over. There are old people above and young people below. Too many things cannot do as you wish, which is the inherent normal.
Standing in the center of real life, the more "willful" you are, the sad you will be in the future.
For people and things, you can speak and act according to your own ideas, but at the age of 40-50, you must know what "maturity" is.
The more distinct the edges and corners of a person, the harder his life is! If you are 40-50 years old and still like a child, complaining, angering, and letting your negative emotions rise, you will know what "repentance" means in your old age.
If you have a big heart, things will be small! Many times, the smoothness that a person cannot feel is the negative effect of his or her mentality.
Third: Business that focuses on close relationships
What is close relationships?
The so-called close relationship is nothing more than conceptual relatives, friends and lovers!
1 In this life, relatives have no choice. Lover is the person who is responsible for choosing, and friends are wealth that is hard to come by.
However, when faced with various relationships, there is still a "worth".
However, people are often willing to thirst for too much in relationships they think are worthy, and in the end, the relationship also creates cracks because what they desire is not satisfied.
The best relationship between people is to get along with more altruistic and less calculating. Otherwise, being with anyone will only make you helpless, in pain, and cater to you...
people's pressure and energy are limited! If you really think that the relationship is worth it, you should manage it altruistically and let yourself lose your psychological balance for a long time, and give it up or keep a reasonable distance appropriately.
has lost the sense of boundary relationship, and it is difficult to maintain! Therefore, when you are 40-50 years old, you must carefully maintain your closeness in your heart.
The worthwhile relationship at this time is one of the necessary conditions for your happiness in your later years. Don’t ask why, just manage it well.
Fourth: Don’t expand unnecessary feelings
0-50 years old, the marriage and love relationship tends to be dull, and it is easy to treat the superimposed conflicts with the people in front of you as an excuse to develop unnecessary feelings.
However, besides marriage and love relationships, how can there be any real feelings? It's nothing more than a temporary enjoyment of mutual pleasure! If someone falls in love with others at the age of 40-50, his later years will not be able to leave out the following situations:
① The person next to him has always felt wronged and hated, and he still has to talk about infidelity in his later years, and the two suffer from each other all day long;
② The child is deeply hurt by the betrayal of his father or mother, and then when he feeds back, it will be unsatisfactory;
In this life, in the end, he is fighting for harmony with the person next to him, and in bed, his children are by his side.
Once unnecessary feelings are revealed, it will cause unpredictable harm to the two people who are closest. Apart from suffering from their own self-inflicted life in their later years, most of them will have no good results!
Don’t think that those who return to their families can really be forgiven, that is simply impossible.
0-50 years old, you empathize with the and care for the people around you, and just like the education of your children. These all hide the blessings of your old age!
When people reach the age of 40-50, they must understand that living the present well is to gather blessings in their old age.
Not only do you have to make money through hard work in the past ten years, but you also have to save money. At the same time, you must also ensure your physical and physical and mental health and avoid suffering from illness in your later years.
In this life, a family is the happiest old age when everything is prosperous. In my later years, I still have a knot around my pillow, and I can see my children filial piety at the glance. This is the real happy time in my later years.
0-50 years old, no matter what, you must force yourself to grow and mature to a higher level, be low-key, do things in a high-profile manner, be grateful and have a good attitude...
Sow the seeds of these ten years of good causes, and only in your later years can you harvest the fruits that will avoid misery.
This life is worth it!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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