[Marriage and Love Consultation Case 51] I am 30 years old this year. My family is very anxious and give me special partners everywhere. There are many boys with good conditions and ages similar to mine, but I just can't accept it. The reason for this made me unable to know about

[Marriage and Love Consultation Case 51]

I am 30 years old this year. My family is very anxious and give me special objects everywhere. There are many boys with good conditions and ages similar to me, but I just can't accept it. The reason for this made me unable to know about my family, because I and my boss have been secretly together for three years. He said that his marriage was not harmonious and he also wanted to divorce and marry me, but it took time. Every time I date another boy, I think of my boss, but even though I know that he is just a game with me, I still can't extricate myself! Actually, reason tells me that I really should find a normal boyfriend and get married and have children, and live a happy life like others! I still have a hard time controlling the pace of my feelings…How can I get rid of him?

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[Case Analysis]

In today's society, there are more and more office romances. Because we spend time together day and night, there are more opportunities to generate sparks. You may think that the older person has a lot of social experience, and compared to his peers, the mature person is more attractive. In fact, the love of a mature man is a cup of overnight tea . It seems unfathomable, but in fact it has long been no longer the original flavor.

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and this is not the worst, the worst thing is that your boss is still a married man. Most of the consequences of this extramarital affair ended miserably because it cannot be considered a relationship at all. The first prerequisite for choosing a lifelong partner is that the other party is "free". "Free" means a single person who can freely date you, not get married, not engage, not have a fixed partner, and only date you. If the man you fall in love promises to break up with another woman earlier; or if he says he doesn't love that woman, he loves you; or if his original partner accepts your existence, they don't intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while... none of these are free.

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Don't date people who are married or have partners. No matter what the excuse is, the result will be the same. You are destined to be heartbroken. Don’t forget that while you have this man, you are actually causing harm to another woman.

A relationship, the right to choose is in your hands and the responsibility is in you. If you want to be happy, the most basic thing is that you have to choose the right person. A married boss like this doesn’t need to consider at all, how many years do you have to waste it? Maybe the reasons he mentioned are all excuses. Even if he divorces or is with you, it is difficult to guarantee that you will not become the next "failed wife". What's more, he has never made a promise to you, maybe he just treats you as a beauty.

While the news has not yet been revealed, he should resign and change the company and leave him completely. This kind of fruitless relationship will only make you suffer the longer the longer you are entangled.