Modern society is no longer as early as parents’ marriage and early childbirth, and there is no longer any saying that the male leads the outside and the female leads the inside. Most contemporary women are strong women, independent individuals, with their own plans and ideas.
even more and more people are unmarried with Dink tribe . In addition, the pressure of social work is high now, and many people's social circles have become smaller, so finding a partner has become a trouble for many young people.
If parents over 25 years old who have no partner will start urging their marriage mode, then now major parks and various marriage agencies are not difficult to see the inspiration of parents helping their children to date blind dates.
Is the current standard for choosing a spouse has become higher, or is it because young people are reluctant to get married? There is such an interview with women on the street. How would you choose an IT man with a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan?
"Monthly salary of 3,000 civil servants and programmer with a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan" What should I choose? The answer was unexpected
This is how an executive single woman answered: I would choose a monthly salary of 30,000 yuan, the reason is very simple, the salary is high and the ability is strong. I am already very busy at work. If the other party is too idle, then there is undoubtedly the two people's pace cannot be consistent, and the mismatch of income is also likely to cause mental imbalance.
IT men are actually quite suitable for husbands . They go to work at 10 o'clock every day and may be seven or eight o'clock after get off work. Most of them are honest and honest, not so many colorful things, and they work diligently.
Many women also agree with choosing program men. The main reason is that this industry does not need to socialize or contact too many women, so the risk of cheating is much lowered. Most of the time I work or take care of my family, it’s so good to marry a programmer!
Who doesn’t want your husband to be responsible for the struggle, and his wife is as beautiful as a flower. The main reason is that the income is also high, basically it is more than 30,000 yuan a month. There are also jokes on the Internet saying, If your husband gives you 30,000 yuan a month and often doesn’t have time to accompany you, would you like?
Who doesn’t want to do this? Have money, husband and free! , then there is also a bad thing. The biggest pleasure for ordinary programmers is to build computers. Perhaps over time, you will also long for your husband to have more time to accompany you and your family. But after all, you cannot have both fish and bear's paw. You have to give up something to get the you want.
I saw this joke about civil servants falling in love online. A grassroots civil servant accompanied his girlfriend to pass by a mobile phone store. The girl took a fancy to iphone13ProMax. And her boyfriend asked her if she liked it? The girl said she liked it, but she was secretly happy that she wanted to buy it for me.
They actually walked from day to night. Finally, the girl asked him, why did I like it, but you didn’t buy it for me? The civil servant boyfriend replied that the person who loves you is not necessarily the person who is willing to spend money on you, but the person who is willing to spend time with you. The girl nodded with tears in her eyes and said, "I just like you civil servants, but you don't have money, and you can do ideological work."
And most girls are unwilling to marry civil servants. Although this is a job with a strong job, he is indeed the one who enjoys his retirement in the end. Not to mention that civil servants have low salaries, if they are in the system, they often have to work overtime. This is simply because they have no money, no time and can't help their family. Fortunately, outside the system, they left step by step.
To be honest, women in this society now earn more than men. The salary of 3,000 yuan is not enough for one person’s expenses. How can they support their wives and children? This is in disguise, in women’s family pressure is even greater. In addition to having children, they also have their own career to afford the expenses of the family. Otherwise, they really expect 3,000 yuan to spend a month?
There are also girls who will marry civil servants, But the most realistic point is to look at the other party’s family environment . If you are famous locally or have a relatively wealthy family, then the civil servant profession is really flat. After all, with the help of his family, he is even more so than most boys in Guangzhou. They have only children from locals and rent out several houses at home. However, I found a civilian job in the Public Security Bureau in the local area, from 9 am to 5 am.
With this family condition, you don’t have to worry about whether you can find a wife. Even if you don’t go out to meet a girl, you will come in line for someone to introduce blind dates at home.
So in the final analysis, it has nothing to do with career, but has a direct impact on income. At this time, someone jumped out and said that women are too realistic now. I can only say that everyone's 's three views are different from the romance . Some girls are very purposeful and know what they want to pursue.
If a girl is free before marriage, her body and mind are also happy, and her quality of life after marriage is far inferior to when she was single, then what does marriage bring to her?
Not talking about money is not the compassionate mentality of contemporary women. On the contrary, if they do not look at the other party’s economic conditions in this society, women will suffer.
Of course, it is not all linked to money, but the premise is that you can accept that you have no money, but you cannot be motivated. You can't be poor for granted, and you can feel at ease when you lie down.
Summary: I think it is the minimum standard for being a man. also wishes all women to seriously think about what they want while choosing a spouse?
