Everything is full of things and has a lot of ideas, just like the moon in the night sky, the phases are round and waning, and the same is true for life. If you are too proud and too complacent, everything will turn back when it is extreme, and it will decline when it is extreme, and eventually the disaster will come to regret it too late.
On the contrary, if you are too modest, too polite, pretentious, hypocritical, and cunning, you will leave a flashy impression. This is the truth that too much is as inefficient. Therefore, humility should be moderate and appropriate.
If a person's mind can be like a mountain and a sea, he will be a saint on earth. Even saints should be more humble. , the I Ching once said: Those who have great things should not be deceived.
means that even if the credit is greater than the sky and the official position is higher than the sky, you should not be proud and complacent, but be humble.
Be brave enough to admit that "skills are not as good as people". What's so shy about this? If you are not as good as others, you must study hard and try to catch up with others.
A modest person knows how to learn from others, while complacent people think that others should learn from them. Two different attitudes determine a completely different direction in life.
As the saying goes, there are mountains outside the mountain, and there are people outside the mountain. A mountain is higher than a mountain. If you have strong ones, you will have strong ones.
has given birth to Yu, He Shengliang, this is the most painful and sober confession when Zhou Yu died of .
It’s not that Zhou Yu is incompetent, but that his ability is not as good as Kong Ming . The two have been competing in secret, but Zhou Yu has always been inferior to others in skills and has lost to Kong Ming several times in succession.
Dare to admit that skills are inferior to others is a kind of mind and a kind of demeanor. Some people have misunderstandings about this, believing that once they admit that they are inferior to others, they will be contempt and ridiculed by others. This kind of worry is redundant and unnecessary.
Modesty makes people progress, because the modest demeanor allows you to see the shining advantages of others. Those who are interested will learn from advanced people and improve their skills.
Be humble and not always complain. Complaints will not bring about a turning point or change in fate. On the contrary, it will only increase the resentment and haze in the heart, and bring bad omens to life.
When dealing with people, you should look at others from afar and look at yourself from a close distance. If you can't get promoted, you must be because you are not doing well enough, and you still have many shortcomings; if others get promoted, you must have something better than you, and you should learn from him.
