I don’t know when, more and more people are full of fear of marriage. Although there are many different managements, it is still because of money, especially in some remote places. Take the bride price for example, it often starts at 100,000 yuan, and some people even offer sky-high prices of hundreds of thousands. It is precisely because of the high bride price that many lovers have been separated, and the original excellent marriage has finally become a mess.
In addition, some people want to take advantage of their marriage to gain more benefits and do things without principles. They even though they know that their actions will touch the other party's bottom line, they still insist on doing it. They have already agreed on the conditions when discussing marriage, but they go back on their word on the wedding day and are unwilling to fulfill it. Uncle Qiang always felt that no matter what the reason was, since he had agreed, he should not regret it. This is the issue of integrity in life. Just imagine, if a person has no basic integrity, what a terrible thing it would be.
During the National Day holiday, the bride Liu Yu stopped her wedding in public, which made the guests attending the wedding talk. However, after understanding the whole story, Liu Yu's in-laws' family was pushed to the forefront. Liu Yu and her boyfriend are alumni, and they did not meet in college until they met at an alumni party. The party was very late that day. For safety reasons, her boyfriend was responsible for sending Liu Yu back to her residence. The two chatted a lot along the way and exchanged contact information. After several months of getting along, the two officially confirmed their relationship.
Before I knew it, the two have been dating for more than three years. Whether in terms of their relationship or age, they have reached the point of discussing marriage. In addition, their parents have been urging them to get married, so Liu Yu discussed with her boyfriend and prepared to take some time to get their parents together and discuss the marriage. Although Liu Yu's parents were not optimistic about this marriage, they could not resist Liu Yu's hard work, so they had to agree happily in the end.
What surprised Liu Yu was that the two of them had a very smooth marriage and they did not make a frustration because of the dowry. In fact, Liu Yu knew in his heart that the main reason was that their parents were more considerate of the man’s family conditions, and they felt that there was no need to make the relationship very frustrated because of the dowry. After all, the two families would have to interact in the future, especially considering that Liu Yu had to establish a good relationship with her in-laws, before discussing the marriage, Liu Yu’s parents had already made up their minds and only asked the man to give a 50,000 yuan bride gift, and then prepare a 30,000 yuan "tea-deserving" red envelope.
Speaking of this red envelope of tea, Liu Yu's parents were helpless. After all, this is a custom in a village, and they cannot make it special, otherwise they should be discussed by others. In this way, the two families quickly set a wedding date. In fact, the man's parents always felt that the amount of the "tea-respect" red envelope was too much, but after hearing Liu Yu's parents' explanation, they could only agree.
During the wedding preparations, the man's parents called to ask if they could prepare a red envelope for "tea-respectable tea", which made Liu Yu's parents very unhappy. They immediately refused and said, "No cent of this money can be reduced." After this little episode, the man's parents did not mention anything else. It was soon the wedding day. Liu Yu came to the wedding scene in a wedding car in a generous dress. After a wedding process, he arrived at the tea ceremony.
The two of them came to their parents with tea cups. Liu Yu respected tea to her parents-in-law according to etiquette. Her parents-in-law also gave the red envelopes tactfully. Looking at the bulging red envelopes, Liu Yu breathed a sigh of relief. This thing hanging in her heart finally came to an end. After the tea was served, Liu Yu took advantage of the short rest to open the red envelope and found that it was not money at all, but banknotes cut from used newspapers. This made Liu Yu very angry. She immediately called her husband and asked, "What does this mean? Your family is using this to fool me?"
saw that the red envelope was full of banknotes, and the groom was stunned. He said he was unaware. Until he called his parents, they told the truth: "Isn't it just pretending? It doesn't matter whether it's money or not, why bother with it."Hearing this, Liu Yu was very angry at the time. Unexpectedly, her in-laws' attitude became more tough, and she threatened: "Anyway, I have given it, I will not give it to you again." "After hearing this, Liu Yu's face turned red with anger. She didn't care much and directly stopped the wedding in public. Afterwards, the man's parents also apologized, but Liu Yu had already seen through their true faces and was unwilling to give another chance. In the end, the two had to choose to break up peacefully.
