is now a highly informatized era, but some regions and families still maintain a very traditional inherent idea, such as favoring children over daughters.
Our fans have encountered such problems every month.
She was born in a rural family, and they just happened to have a patriarchal attitude in their village, and every household was proud of having a boy. Therefore, if girls in a family had brothers, they would be treated unfairly.
So, during the growth of every month, she basically did not feel the warmth of her family.
When she and her brother compete for snacks and toys, their parents always stand on their brother's side, even if it's wrong with her brother.
Many times, she was taught to let her younger brother, but she never saw her younger brother being taught to respect and protect her sister. Love was only one-sided, and she was all tilted to her younger brother.
Once, Yueyue had a fever and was dizzy, but she was asked to do housework. She just said something uncomfortable and was severely blamed by her mother: Isn’t it just a little cold? He is so adult, but he still doesn't know how to be strong. As the boss, you must have a good role model and not be so lazy.
But when my younger brother caught a cold, my parents put down all the affairs in their hands, and rushed to the county hospital with my younger brother on his back, and kept guarding him by his side at all times, meticulous and considerate, for fear that he would suffer any grievances. Treatment like
formed a sharp contrast in Yueyue's heart. She felt more and more that she was just that extra one.
is just an education since childhood, which still preserves the concept of family in her mind, making her feel that she has to contribute to her family and relatives.
This idea has always kept her going to college and working.
When she was in college, she was hindered a lot. Her family conditions were not very good, and it was under great pressure to support her two children to go to college, so her father came up with the idea of letting Yueyue learn craftsmanship, be an apprentice, work early, and then support her younger brother to study.
When she saw Yueyue disagreed, her father scolded her for being ignorant and not understanding the difficulties at home.
Later, it was Yueyue who struggled to support him, so the father reluctantly agreed to pay his daughter's tuition, but as for living expenses, Yueyue had to find a way by himself.
people are in other places, and Yueyue can't receive calls from her mother. Her family rarely calls her. Even if she makes a call, she still blames her for not working earlier.
Later, after she started working, her parents asked her daughter for money again and again, which was equivalent to the return of their support for her study.
However, the monthly salary that I just started working is not high, and it is only a few thousand yuan a month. I have some problems living in a big city, and I have to send it to my family, which means I basically have no chance to save money.
She hopes that her parents can understand her difficulties, but she is said to have a job and a promising future, and even her parents don’t want it. She says some very ugly words that make her suffer from the torture of moral condemnation.
Later, Yueyue fell in love. When he took his boyfriend home, both of them were not very popular with his parents. It was not until his boyfriend said that the bride price was usually 15,000 yuan that his parents changed their attitude and began to encourage Yueyue to marry quickly.
When this matter was not yet finalized, the mother secretly mentioned the issue of bride price and asked if she could increase the bride price. Judging from Yueyue’s boyfriend’s expressive reaction, 150,000 yuan of bride price is not a big deal for their family. Since that is the case, it means there is room for negotiation. After all, 150,000 yuan of down payment for my younger brother to buy a house in the future is far from enough.
It was at that moment that Yueyue finally woke up: she was just a tool.
For the first time, she strongly rejected her mother's request and clearly stated that she would accept the bride price herself as the start-up capital of a small family to get married in the future.
It was this sentence that angered her mother. The mother said that she had raised an ungrateful wolf and had never heard of the saying that she could keep the bride price by herself. Others gave it to her parents and scolded her for not being filial.
month-on-month counterattack said that this bride price was not for you. What she knew was that it ended up being in the hands of her younger brother. However, since she was a child, she had always given up on her younger brother. It was good, and it was all for her, but the scolding was all for her. She had had enough of this unfair treatment. She was just a sister, not a parent, and had no obligation to raise her younger brother.
And my younger brother has grown up, and he has both hands and feet. He can make money by himself in the future, so why should he let his sister bear his life? Now it’s a house, and then it’s a bride price. Will she have to bear the cost of buying a car and having a child later?
She doesn't want to, she also wants to have her own life.
So after a quarrel, the mother claimed to break off the relationship between mother and daughter.
Although it sounds ruthless, at that time, Yueyue did feel relaxed wholeheartedly. She seemed to have lost her restraint and ushered in a new life.
As for the environment of Yueyue, her decision was very correct. Since she could not feel the love of her original family and only felt pain, then what can’t be let go?
Daughters do have the obligation to give back their parents and be grateful, but the prerequisite is that the parents fulfill their obligation to raise their daughter and allow their daughter to grow up healthily.
But Yueyue’s parents obviously did not do this. They just simply regarded their daughter as a tool.
Since you have never been treated as a daughter, there is really no need to treat the other person as a real parent. Just live your next life well.
