I wanted to find a partner to take care of me, but I never thought that I would attract a "trouble spirit" who spends money but cannot eliminate disasters...
Story teller: 74-year-old Gao Lao
I have lost my wife for 12 years and have been living with my son and daughter-in-law. Last year, after they bought a house and moved out, I was the only one left at home.
I got used to the bustling family, and the sudden desertedness made me very uncomfortable.
So, I decided to follow the crowd and go on blind dates to find a companion for myself and live together.
Among the many blind date partners, I chose a partner who was 14 years younger than me, and her surname was Lin.
She is not the best among my blind dates, but she is indeed the youngest and most pitiful.
I chose to work with her out of some sympathy in my heart. Because I think women who have suffered hardships in the past can live a better life and know how to cherish the good life in front of them.
Kobayashi's previous marriage was arranged by her parents. Her ex-husband had a violent tendency and often beat her.
She only had the courage to file for divorce after both sons got married and started a business.
She used to do the hardest and most tiring job, but now she gets the lowest pension, only 1,800 a month.
And my pension is more than 5,000 per month, I think I can support both of us. So I asked her to save her pension by herself and I would support her.
And she is so younger than me, I treat her well now. When I get old in the future, she will naturally be nice to me.
At the beginning, we were really doing well.
I took care of all the pensions for her. She took care of all the housework and didn't let me do anything.
We didn’t eat much food in a month, and she spent all the remaining money on buying clothes and cosmetics to dress up.
She said she never dared to live like this before, she wanted to change and live the days she had been looking forward to for a long time.
Looking at her dressing herself up young and beautifully, I was happy for her.
Although I don’t have a lot of cash in my hands, I am very satisfied with this kind of life.
But the good times didn't last long, and Kobayashi's requirements gradually increased. The 5,000 yuan given to her by
has begun to fail to meet her needs.
She said that wearing good-looking clothes, putting on makeup can only be superficial.
She needs to start by improving her skin and conditioning her body, from the beauty of her inner body to the outer body, so that she can continue to be beautiful for a long time.
So, she started to go to the beauty salon to apply for a beauty card, and also bought bird's nest Gillian and other nutritious food supplements.
Evening went to ballroom dance , saying that you need to exercise and lose weight, and maintain a good figure to wear good-looking clothes.
Every time she finished dancing and went home, it was already around ten o'clock in the night.
When you get home, you don’t just fall asleep after you clean up everything at home.
Since she went to dance, she went home to take a shower and fell asleep, and did not clean up the house and did not talk to me.
The next day I slept until midnight, and I urged her to ask her to get up.
We only had two months together, and the roles at home were changed.
She took the money, but she didn't do anything, but instead became me taking care of her.
Not only that, she also asked me for money for three or two days.
Sometimes she said that her phone was broken and she wanted to change it, and sometimes she said that she was feeling unwell and wanted to see a doctor...
If I was not as good as her wish, she would complain at home, saying that I was not kind to her.
Then I cried and told me how miserable her marriage was in the past and how bitter her life was...
Anyway, I just cried heartbroken, which made me feel upset and dizzy, and I couldn't bear it.
I originally chose her at the beginning, because she was young and could take care of me in the future. When she was not financially good, I could take care of her and everyone took care of each other.
But I never expected that our result would be like this.
I gave her the money, but she couldn't take care of me anymore. Instead, I was serving her every day and gave her extra money.
If this continues for a long time, I am afraid that she will even lose all my money for the rest of my life.
Since she can't count on it, I can only stop the loss in time.I have proposed several times after
. Everyone gets together and leaves no matter how much.
But she was very reluctant and went out of the community to tell the neighbor next door that I am not kind.
On the contrary, it means that I am worthless. How depressed and pitiful she is.
Now as soon as I go out, people from my neighbors will say that I shouldn’t be stingy as a man. Since I have brought her home, I should treat her well, instead of treating her as a free nanny.
…I really have troubles and can’t argue.
As I knew today, I might as well find a nanny to take care of me from the beginning. This kind of employment relationship is simpler and more reliable.
Now, I no longer give her living expenses.
But she still refused to leave, she would eat whatever I cooked. I don’t buy vegetables and cook rice, so she buys noodles and cooks them by herself.
I even changed the lock, but she found a lock unlocking company to open it. Changing the lock once is expensive, so I can't change it every time.
If I say to call the police to deal with it, she will be afraid to help me with housework for a day or two.
She said, I will be determined in this life. If I force her to leave again, she will jump off my balcony and end it.
