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Yang Feng This year, he is 36 years old, but after his thirties, he is very confused about the future. He has money but doesn’t know whether to spend it or not. He has a mansion but is unwilling to live in, and he has a job but would rather stop working at home.
As a rich second generation, Yang Feng is now living in a dilapidated rental house with his family. The environment is dirty and messy. He eats the roadside snacks he used to be disdainful, and his taste has changed drastically. All he did is only for one reason, that is, he suspects that he is not his parents’ biological child!
So what is going on? Why did Yang Feng give up his enviable life? Was he born to his parents?
beat my father and scold my mother
In fact, Yang Feng, a rich second generation, lived a "unusual" rich life a few years ago. He lived in a large 140 square meter floor in the city center purchased by his parents. In addition to work, he also had more than 10,000 yuan in pocket money subsidized by his parents every month. This kind of life is really something that the gods will never change when they come. However, at the beginning of 2021, something happened to cause a huge change in his life.
One day in March 2021, Yang Feng came home from get off work and wanted to take a shower and relax his body, but as soon as he entered the bathroom, he saw his mother wiping his son's body. Seeing this, he did not hesitate to say that he first threatened his mother to stay away from his son, and then even beat his mother.
Yang Feng's father Yang Jian immediately came over from the inner room to check when he heard his wife's crying. Unexpectedly, Yang Feng was as if he was crazy and beaten his father. He was beating his son while protecting him, and that attitude seemed like he had encountered a human trafficker.
The fierce fighting and scolding lasted for more than ten minutes, and it was not until the police came to the house that the three of them chose to stop. After that, Yang Feng packed his luggage and left the mansion, moved to the rental house with his wife and children and had no intention of going home until now.
Such a plot development is really surprising. I believe many people will have a question in their hearts, that is, why did Yang Feng fight against his parents, and what irreconcilable conflicts are there between the two parties. Could it be that Yang Feng is really not the biological child of Yang Jian and his wife?
During the reporter's interview, Yang Jian and his wife also gave their own opinions.
According to Yang Jian, he has experienced all kinds of hardships and difficulties in his life. In the 1980s, he was a grassroots cadre in a coal mine agency. He had a strong job, a generous salary, and had a good future. It can be said that he would become a leader of the unit in more than ten years. However, it was this job that outsiders envied and couldn't have time. After a long time, Yang Jian chose to resign.
Yang Jian said that it was the beginning of reform and opening up, and it was under the call of the country that he had the idea and courage to go into business. Of course, Yang Jian is not unprepared. He has accumulated a lot of experience and connections in state-owned units before, especially in mechanical processing, construction manufacturing, and bridge construction.
You should know that these three aspects were urgently needed by the country at that time, and no matter how much money you spend, you might not be able to find professionals. Therefore, Yang Jian, who started doing business, received policy support with his own ability, had enough loans to build bridges and roads, and had all kinds of auxiliary machinery. He also made his first pot of gold in his life and became the first local millionaire.
The 1 million in the 1980s and 1990s is not a small number. According to the price at that time, it is equivalent to 150 million today. In addition, money can make money. Even if you don’t manage this amount, it will grow like you have the ability to reproduce, not to mention that Yang Jian is still working hard to operate and develop.
With Yang Jian's efforts, he became a well-known rich man in the near future. Even now, his business is the best in the local area.
grew to this point. Yang Jian endured more hardship than he ate salt. But even so, he still didn't know why his only child was so disobedient and unfilial. He gave as much money as he wanted, and the house and car were the same. As for work, he even arranged Yang Feng to the company's senior management. How could he stretch his fist at his parents?
After thinking for a while, Yang Jian then told the reporter a possibility. He said
"Can I be too strict with him?"
Yang Jian said that he is a billionaire, but he only has this son. From a very early days, he hoped that Yang Jian would inherit his family business, so he naturally became more strict with him.
Yang Feng was in his teenage years, in order to prevent him from becoming a playboy, Yang Jian not only never gave his son pocket money, but also treated him more harshly than ordinary families. He did not study hard and did not meet the standards of grades at the least, he would verbally blame him, and at worst, he would be a "stick with a stick". Yang Feng would also interfere with his friends. No matter how men and women were discovered by him, he would directly order Yang Feng to cut off his relationship with him.
The same is true after graduating from university. Yang Jian arranged Yang Feng to his own company without saying a word, and started from the grassroots level to learn the experience of managing the company. In order to ignite his sense of crisis, Yang Jian also specially arranged Yang Feng's cousin to join the company and let the two brothers compete for work.
Such behavior is really extremely harsh, not like the life of a rich second generation that everyone sees in TV series. However, this is understandable. After all, such a large family business needs to be inherited by Yang Feng. If he is not stricter, how can he support this billions of wealth?
So the problem is, is it because his father has become more harsh and harsh, that Yang Feng has done such a rebellious thing?
The truth in Yang Feng's mouth
The reporters are not yet able to know this, but they had to seek answers from Yang Feng's mother first. Soon they found Yang's mother who was ill in bed in Yang Feng's mansion. Since she was beaten by her son last time, Yang's mother was bedridden under the dual torture of her mind and body. However, when the reporter asked why Yang Feng beat her father and scolded her, she still forced herself to sit up.
Yang's mother told reporters that the direct reason why her son beat her up was most likely because of his child! According to Yang's mother, Yang Feng was not like this before. Since he graduated from college and started working in the company, he has become much more mature, especially after getting married and having a wife and children, he has become a responsible father.
Seeing that her son was responsible, Yang's mother was also very happy. Therefore, even if she had the ability to take care of her nanny, Gu month nanny, she still insisted on taking care of her grandson herself, wiped her grandson's shit and urine on weekdays, and seeing that her son and daughter-in-law were busy with work, she would take care of the family of three without hesitation and help with laundry, cooking and cleaning the room.
Such a kind mother is really rare. Not to mention a rich family, even an ordinary family, few mothers can do it so much. Of course, because of this, Yang Mother could not guess the reason why her son did it on her. She just made a guess through Yang Feng's actions at that time. Could it be because of the child?
Children? What's the point of getting angry about when a mother takes care of her own children? The reporter who was not sure found Yang Feng, but as soon as they entered the rental house, they were shocked by the scene in front of them.
Because you have just come out of a 140-square-meter-meter-long, magnificent and extremely luxurious mansion, Yang Feng's current address instantly contrasts with his former home. The leather sofas, solid wood furniture, high-end home appliances in the original home, the dilapidated doors, the dirty bedrooms, and the yellowed furnishings in the home are simply a world of difference.
is why the reporter's doubts were even more serious:
"How could a spoiled rich second generation, who would rather live in such a place than go home to enjoy the happiness, and even fight against his parents?"
held this question. The reporter asked why Yang Feng was so arrogant to his parents. Yang Feng did not hide it from this. He said bluntly:
"The direct reason is very simple, I am afraid that they will take my children away."
Take the child away? It's normal for grandparents to take the grandson away? The reporter didn't know what Yang Feng meant. They were about to continue asking, but Yang Feng actually told an unknown past on his own.
According to Yang Feng, his childhood was not as happy as his parents said. When he was just born, it was the most critical period of Yang Jian's career. Therefore, in order not to delay work, Yang Jian and his wife left the young Yang Feng in their hometown to be taken care of by their grandparents until After the age of five, Yang Jian's career stabilized before he took him back.
For Yang Jian and his wife, this was only five short years, but what they never expected was that these five years had caused great harm to Yang Feng.
Yang Feng had a strong sense of premature self-esteem. At just four years, he had the mind of a teenager. He could understand what outsiders meant by "children without fathers and mothers" and knew that normal children had parents, and he was the only one with grandparents.
So from this time Yang Feng became very inferior. He felt that he was abandoned by his parents. Otherwise, why did they not come to pick him up for five years?
This inferiority lasted for a long time and gradually evolved into a kind of pressure.
Hou Yang Feng's psychological pressure was astonishing. In life, he did not dare to be naughty, dare to be mean to his parents, and dare not indulge in fun; after school, he worked hard. He did not dare to go home if he did not score in the exam; after work, he did not dare to slack off at all, for fear of letting down his father's expectations, and for fear that he would be compared by his colleagues as the only son of the chairman.
And the reason why Yang Feng was so stressed was very simple, that is, his childhood experience made him have a wrong concept: "If he performs poorly, he will be abandoned and thrown into the countryside to become a child without fathers or mothers." This concept has been throughout Yang Feng's entire life, so it is no wonder that his personality is so extreme.
Of course, the three-foot freezing is not a day's cold, and the defect in character is not a day's success. The reason why Yang Feng beats and scolds his parents is that the last straw that crushes him is actually the expulsion of his father from the company.
As mentioned earlier, in order to motivate his son, Yang Jian specially arranged his nephew into the company and let the two brothers move side by side, but the direction afterwards was beyond Yang Jian's expectations.
Company executives gave Yang Feng one after another for the purpose of testing. The two of them completed well at first. Seeing this, the senior management began to train the two separately, but this separation happened.
The gap between Yang Feng and his cousin was undoubtedly revealed. Yang Feng's cousin showed amazing talent and execution in many projects, and arranged big and small matters to win huge benefits for the company. On the other hand, what about Yang Feng? I don't know whether it was out of tension or not to adapt to the environment where one person worked, he messed up the senior leaders of multiple projects one after another, but it was too late to even make up for the remedial.
Yang Feng suffered a lot of losses to the company. Although this money is nothing to Yang Jian, it makes him unable to bear his face. He believes that the only son he trained since childhood is not as good as a nephew from a remote countryside. This is not only slapping him in the face, but also allowing the company shareholders to rejudge the possibility of Yang Feng's future inheritance of the company.
Yang Jian was angry and fired Yang Feng from the company in anger, hoping to let him study hard and return to the company to work.
Yang Jian's original intention was good, but his attitude and tone became the last straw that crushed camel . After being treated coldly by his father, Yang Feng's mentality collapsed. He seemed to have returned to when he was abandoned by his parents thirty years ago and called "no father or mother" by others. He felt that his father was going to abandon himself again, so when he went home and saw his mother washing his son, he naturally believed that his mother wanted to take the child away and make himself alone again.
According to Yang Feng, this is the direct reason why he attacked his parents at that time. So when it comes to this problem, isn’t it enough to solve the misunderstanding? Why did Yang Feng choose to run away from home? How could he believe that he was not his parents’ biological child? The truth of
is sad
With a question, the reporter continued to inquire about Yang Feng. They asked Yang Feng why he thought he was not his biological child, and Yang Feng said several reasons for this.
Reason 1, Yang Feng said that when he was five years old, his grandparents took him to see a rural woman. He looked ordinary but loved him very much. As soon as he saw him, he stepped forward and touched him.
This made Yang Feng, who had never experienced maternal love at that time, feel very friendly. In addition, his grandparents did not let him tell others about this, so he decided that the woman was his biological mother. Even if he was picked up by his parents later, he always thought so.
Reason 2, according to Yang Feng's recollection, he had seen them several times before he was picked up by his parents. During those times, his grandparents asked him to call them "uncle and aunt" to them. It was not until the last time that Yang Feng was picked up by them and he changed his words and called him parents. When he was a child, he always thought that he might have been adopted, and this concept was always lingering in his heart.
Reason 3, just after returning to the family, Yang Feng was treated differently from his sister. His parents rarely communicated with him on weekdays, and he had never been loved like ordinary people. When he was in school, his parents were not at home all day, and the food was made by nanny. They would also find professional teachers to provide tutoring. During winter and summer vacations, their parents would send him to their neighbors’ homes to take care of him until the eve of school.
But the attitude towards the two sisters is different. Yang Feng's sister often makes mistakes, but every time she acts cute, her parents will choose to forgive her. They also have more interactions. Their parents never pay attention to this daughter in their studies. It doesn't matter if the exam results are poor, it doesn't matter if they don't listen carefully in class. And the most overwhelming thing is that even if her grades are not as good as Yang Feng, the two will still take her abroad to travel during the winter and summer vacations, as if they are the real family of three.
This is completely opposite to Yang Feng's attitude of being beaten and scolded when he moves. This different treatment also made Yang Feng more determined that he was not his biological child.
Hearing this, the reporters interviewed on the spot couldn't help but agree with Yang Feng's statement. It is true that there are too many suspicions in Yang Feng's life experience, such as who is that kind rural woman? Why did grandparents ask Yang Feng to call his parents uncle and aunt, and why the two of them treat their children so differently? These are all questions that cannot be explained through common sense.
So in desperation, the reporter had to find Yang Feng's father Yang Jian again, hoping to find out the truth from him. However, when facing his son's painful statement, Yang Jian was very entangled. He first explained to the reporter the reason why he treated his children differently.
According to Yang Jian's explanation, the reason why he treated his son strictly with his daughter was completely following the practice of his ancestors " raising children with poor children with rich children with rich children with ". He had high hopes for Yang Feng, hoping that he could inherit his family business, so he would strictly demand it. His daughter did not need to inherit the family business, so he naturally thought about letting her enjoy a happy life.
Yang Jian also knew that he had treated his son badly, but in his opinion, he had made compensation in the future. When Yang Feng got married, he was busy buying a car and a house. After he had a child, he also asked his wife to take care of him. Isn’t this enough? Is it just because you are more harsh and you are fighting against yourself?
Indeed, it is understandable that wealthy people are a little more harsh on their heirs, but the reporter found one thing, that is, Yang Jian did not explain the doubts in Yang Feng's life from beginning to end, and with questions, the reporter decided to dig the bottom of the matter. After their repeated inquiries and Yang Feng's appearance, Yang Jian then told an unknown past.
It turned out that when Yang Feng's mother was pregnant, Yang Jian had not resigned from public institution . At that time, he was catching up with family planning policy. Only one family allowed to give birth to. In order not to lose his job and not be punished, the two had to send Yang Feng to the countryside for raising him. In order not to be discovered by outsiders, they asked the child to call him uncle and aunt.
The sound of uncle and aunt calling the Yang couple was extremely distressed. They knew that their son lacked care since childhood, but there was no way to do so at that time. Therefore, it was not until Yang Jian resigned from the unit and his business improved and he could afford the fine for extra birth. The two took Yang Feng back from the countryside.
So that's it, what about that rural woman? How should Yang Jian explain this?
In fact, Yang Jian is also very confused about this person. In his impression, he and his wife do not know such a person. He thought hard for a long time before he came up with the answer.
Yang Jian said that this person is very likely to be his cousin. Because of all the reasons, people have always been disliked by people in the family. Only his father, Yang Feng's grandfather, felt sorry for his niece, and he would secretly visit her. He was not aware of the fact that his father took Yang Feng to visit his aunt, but after thinking about it, she was the only woman that Yang Feng said best.
The truth was finally revealed, but what surprised the reporter was that when Yang Feng learned that he was his parents' birth, he didn't seem very happy. Instead, he red his eyes and said:
"Since they are biological, why did they treat me like this? He abandoned me since he was a child and didn't give me love when he grew up. Such parents... I don't want it!"
everyone present also fell into silence after hearing this. They knew that Yang Feng needed not only an answer, but more of the care and attention of his parents. They didn't know how to persuade Yang Feng, so in the end of the interview, they could only pin their hopes on Yang Jian and his wife themselves, hoping that they could recognize their own problems and heal their son's injured hearts as soon as possible.
