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" Pride and Prejudice " has a saying: "Emotions should be bound by reason, and you must always have a sense of your work."
No matter how much you love the other person, you should have a little restraint. But in real life, many girls are prone to lose their composure in love, and they just ignore it as long as they fall in love.
But the more you act, the more you cannot lose the other person and care too much, the more you can't hold on to the person you like. In his opinion, your efforts are nothing more than a cheap relationship.
What really fascinates men is often this kind of woman, and it is hard to forget if you fall in love with her.
Women with clear thinking are mostly very smart. They are far-sighted and have a different understanding of love and life. They are full of charm in the eyes of men and cannot be rejected.
01: Keeping a rational woman confident and calm in her heart is easy to make men want to explore
Sheng Minglan in the TV series "Know or Not" is very rational in dealing with feelings.
As a concubine daughter, her father has never loved her since childhood. Although she is very smart, in a complicated era, if she wants to live well, she must pretend to know nothing and not be able to show off.
Her sister and sister have more support, while Minglan is the only one left in her except her grandmother.
So, she has always maintained independence and rationality, and the same is true for love.
When Gu Tingye was pursuing passionately, although she felt a little happy, she still acted very reserved.
Minglan did not complain too much about her own experience and the dissatisfaction of her original family.
Gu Tingye knew that her situation was not easy and she lived a very frustrated life in the Sheng family. As long as she was willing to marry herself, she would make her life better in the future.
Minglan was still not confused by Gu Tingye's sugar-coated shells. She even said that she had enough food and clothing since she was a child and did not need anyone to save her from water and fire.
From this point of view, we can see that she is a very rational girl. I will not easily believe men's promises, nor will I rely on marriage to change my destiny.
A woman who keeps her rationality and calm heart is easy to make men want to explore.
Just like Sheng Minglan, after marrying Gu Tingye, she continued to maintain the rationality she should have and did not rely too much on men's pampering and help.
The more she is, the more Gu Tingye loves her and attaches great importance to her feelings.
02: Women who keep rational love themselves more and will not let men treat them at will
Love yourself. Not every girl can do this. Even if they are very beautiful, they will also become inferior in their relationship.
The woman who can really fascinate men is not just because she looks good, but more because of her personal charm.
Most women who remain rational can recognize their own value and will not only care about other people's opinions.
Sun Ye (pseudonym)'s personality is very popular, she knows how to love herself very much.
Before, she dated a boy who was very handsome and had very good conditions. No matter what request Sun made, her boyfriend could agree.
However, this state gradually changed, and Sun also felt that his boyfriend actually did not really love him, and he had a strong desire to control himself.
For example, Sun also needs to contact the opposite sex at work, and his boyfriend will find a way to make her feel guilty.
Later, he even proposed to ask Sun Yat to adjust his position. What is exaggerated is that she cannot even have any contact with her former male classmates.
After realizing the problem, Sun did not lose his mind, but expressed his position with his boyfriend firmly.
She is very independent and knows what is an act of transgression and what is the basic right to be a human being.
The boyfriend's excessive control is not a manifestation of love, but a selfishness.
Unhealthy relationship, Sun would never leave any memories for a moment, and she took the initiative to break up.
No one around me can understand. Sun was not satisfied with a man who was so handsome and gentle to her.
But only Sun himself knows the problems between each other, and it doesn’t matter how others talk about it.
Sun also loves it very rationally, but it makes men unable to forget it.
They have been breaking up for more than a year, and their ex-boyfriend still misses the past relationship in his heart. He looks back many times, hoping that she can give herself another chance.
But no matter how sincere your boyfriend's attitude is, Sun will never try it again.
She loves herself very much and will not let men treat her at will. A man who doesn’t know how to respect his partner and has a strong desire to control himself will never approach him.
What can really fascinate men are often women who always remain rational. Their spiritual world is very free and they will not regard feelings as life-saving straw.
If you want to be loved all the time, love yourself first.
Your world becomes rich and colorful, and your heart is full of strength, and you can attract better people and have higher-level love.
