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The more charming love is, the more hurtful it is if you don’t love it. Being careful and taking care of each other when you love each other will become indifferent and ruthless when you don’t love each other.
Many people think that love is eternal, and once you say "I love you", it will never change.
But in fact, love is the shortest shelf life in the world. He may have been telling you a vow yesterday, but today he smiled gently at another woman.
Don’t think that a man’s mind changes suddenly. In fact, any change in this world is a sign of premature sign.
When a person doesn’t love you anymore, he will hint you through his words and deeds during the process of getting along.
people are very cold-hearted and once they meet someone they like more, they will not hesitate to abandon the current ones.
No matter what kind of promise he has made to you, he no longer loves you, and his words and deeds are all disgusting you.
Reader Xiaoman's love experience is also reminding all women: love is like the wind, and its coming and going are the most hurtful tenderness.
Xiaoman once thought that his love was eternal and could last until the day he was old.
She never thought that love really disappeared so quickly.
But later when I helped Xiaoman review her failed love, she realized that everything was a sign. If a person didn't love him anymore, he would dare to say these words with confidence. It was really not a joke.
"Do you think we are not suitable in fact?"
When a party in a relationship means that they are not suitable for each other, they no longer love you in their hearts.
At the beginning, when Xiaoman was with her boyfriend Haojun, her best friend Linlin reminded her. If Haojun can't make changes for her, they will sooner or later part ways.
But at that time, Xiaoman had long been immersed in the sweet love with Haojun, and could not listen to what Linlin said, and even thought that Linlin would not be able to see her for a while.
Because of this, their relationship became unfamiliar. So, when Xiaoman took the initiative to contact Linlin, Linlin was a little surprised. But she was not surprised at all when she heard her break up with Haojun.
Xiaoman said: "Actually, in the second year with Haojun, I felt that Haojun was already bored. I often said that the two of us were not suitable. I thought he was just talking casually, and it turned out that this was meaningful."
At first, Xiaoman really thought it was Haojun joking with her, so he didn't take it seriously. But later, Haojun said this more and more, which made her nervous.
And in order to keep Haojun, Xiaoman paid a lot. Perhaps because Xiaoman worked so hard for this love, Haojun's inappropriate thoughts were calmed down for a while.
But the love that is about to get along with cannot escape the torment of not loving, and patience cannot withstand the temptation of freedom.
Really, when a person keeps saying "we are not suitable" it means that he has thought about the necessity of continuing this relationship many times.
"Don't lose your temper at any time, I have a temper too."
Since feeling Haojun's love dissipated, Xiaoman, who has been in a tense state for a long time, has become more and more irritable. If the situation in
was like this, if the two were in love, Haojun would always try his best to make Xiaoman happy and help her relieve her depression.
But now, Haojun, whom he didn't love, no longer had his original patience. Faced with Xiaoman's temper, he was no longer willing to compromise, but instead used violence to fight violence.
As long as Xiaoman has emotions and brings this emotion to Haojun, Haojun will be furious immediately.
He would say to Xiaoman: "Don't lose your temper at any time, I have a temper too."
Such a fierce tone quickly pulled Xiaoman back to his rationality.
Looking at Haojun's angry and impatient appearance, Xiaoman had to put away the emotions and grievances in his heart just to keep Haojun.
Cute love is like singing a double act, no one can do without it. Even if Xiaoman is willing to make a fuss about love, as long as Haojun is not willing, this relationship will not last long.
However, Xiaoman was too dependent on Haojun at that time, so he simply thought that Haojun still loved him. As long as you are sensible, well-behaved and obedient, Haojun will feel sorry for him as before.
"If it really doesn't work, just break up"
In the end, Xiaoman still ushered in the end of this relationship. And Haojun, who had long since disliked, finally couldn't pretend.
Even in the face of Xiaoman's intentional escape and begging, he still said: "If it really doesn't work, just break up."
Such a result is undoubtedly a relief for Haojun, but for Xiaoman, who has always believed in this love, without the appearance of a newcomer or suitable guidance, she will keep blocking herself.
So, when she found me to talk about this today, I asked her to throw away everything related to Haojun.
Although such behavior cannot completely eradicate Haojun from her heart, it can at least prevent her from being sad about the scene.
Hearing my suggestion, Xiaoman cried at first, saying, "She can't bear to leave."
But after his emotions stabilized, he agreed with my suggestion.
She also knew very well that this bad fate that had been entangled for three years was no longer something she could protect by insisting on.
Since Haojun can leave without looking back, why should she make things difficult for herself?
Time and Emotional Class:
Love is an uncertain thing, and it is not something you can decide whether the other person loves you or not. If both parties are forcibly tied together, they will only suffer in pain.
After all, we have loved each other. Since we can't live long until we grow old, we still want to be decent when we leave.
Yes, keeping a heartless person by your side will only make yourself more painful.
People's hearts are fragile and transparent. When facing the betrayal of their partner, you really can't see it.
However, most people are used to evading and deceiving themselves to keep the other party when facing this situation.
But in fact, everyone knows that once one party loses love, being together will only make each other uncomfortable.
Instead of doing this, it is better for everyone to get together and part. At least when you recall it later, there will be no too much hatred in this relationship.
If you don’t love, leave and keep your decent. Please remember one sentence:
No matter what, a person is degenerating on excuses is always not worth forgiven. The less no one loves you, the more you should love yourself.
