Let flowers turn into flowers, and trees turn into trees. This is the final destination of a failed relationship.
Many people are always obsessed with why they have to suffer so much in the process of falling in love. Even though others can feel sweet love, they are always entertaining themselves in the sea of suffering, and lamenting why they can only wander in the pain of breaking up. In fact, the way to deal with broken love should not be to give up on themselves, but to learn to make this relationship the cornerstone of your growth.
Let flowers turn into flowers, and trees turn into trees. This is the final destination of a failed relationship.
People often cannot let go of people who cannot love. The main reason is not how much they love each other, but that their love has not received the corresponding answer, so they feel that their efforts are in vain. They waste their time in waiting year after year, and accumulate loneliness in disappointment again and again. It is precisely because of this that many people find it difficult to get out of that shadow after a breakup. This is the reason.
We cannot ask everyone to get out of the shadow immediately after a broken heart, or treat the people around us immediately with the sunniest attitude, but we can let ourselves be trained in a relationship, and we don’t have to be too obsessed with what the harm this relationship brings to ourselves. Instead, we should ask ourselves what we have gained from this relationship? After a failed relationship is over, the most terrifying thing is not that we indulge in the warmth left to ourselves by the person in the past, but that we are facing a new relationship that is about to begin, making us cowardly, afraid, and afraid to accept the warmth of others.
Let flowers become flowers, let trees become trees, this is the final destination of a failed relationship
Real letting go is to let each other live in the most comfortable way. As the saying goes, let flowers become flowers, let trees become trees, there is no need to worry about whether every relationship really has an ending. You just need to make yourself happy every day, so that you can no longer be afraid when you welcome a new relationship, and you don’t have to worry about whether you have really lost the ability to love. You expect to be timid and cowardly, it’s better to embrace the future boldly. You don’t know what is waiting for you in the future, but you can know that looking at everything around you with a sunny mentality, you can also bloom all the way.
