In a short story called "Like", the 8-year-old nephew told his aunt that he fell in love with a girl. Aunt asked him: "Do you know what you like?"
He said: "I don't like fat people, but she's okay if she's fat."
What is love? It's actually very simple: even if there are three thousand weak waters, you will only take this one of your drinks.
A joke circulated on the Internet saying: If you love him, you have to feed him fat, so no one will snatch him from you.
It is precisely because of this mentality that "happiness fat" after marriage has become a common phenomenon. German researchers have confirmed that they are indeed prone to obesity after marriage by tracking 20,000 Germans for 16 years. In the first 4 years after marriage, the couple's weight gain is usually twice the weight gain when they live alone before marriage. And this effect is not affected by age, health status, mental status, frequency of physical exercise and fertility status.
However, in life after marriage, happiness is a good thing, but gaining weight is not a good thing.
The wife weighs 356 kilograms, and her husband can only play on the floor every day
Event review: In the picture, the woman who was eating with a rice cooker was named Yin Jinhua (pseudonym). In order not to be discovered by her husband Liao Weidong (pseudonym), she specially locked the door of the house before eating.
Liao Weidong saw his wife having sex wildly again from the window, and he was so angry that he hurried to knock on the door. Unfortunately, no matter how he shouted, Yin Jinhua, who was enjoying the food, was unmoved and replied to him: "Don't shout, I just want to eat!"
After finally entering the house, Liao Weidong found that in just a few minutes, his wife actually swept away all three dishes and a pot of rice on the table. What made him even more disappointed was that his wife's meal was not long before they finished lunch.
Faced with her husband's accusations, Yin Jinhua's emotions suddenly became excited. She asked her husband: "What do you do with you?"
Seeing that his wife ignored her figure and health, she always secretly gave her meals. Liao Weidong couldn't bear it anymore and said harshly on the spot: "If you don't lose weight, I will break up with you!"
After saying the harsh words, Liao Weidong smashed the empty plate left by his wife on the ground and then left. Seeing her angry husband, Yin Jinhua, who was justified, suddenly stood there like a deflated ball.
After looking at her up and down, Yin Jinhua was worried that her husband would really leave her and would not come back, so she hurriedly chased her out. In order to keep her husband, Yin Jinhua took the initiative to come forward to apologize to her husband and promised that she would work hard to lose weight.
Seeing his wife begging him, Liao Weidong, who was still angry, calmed down. He said that he did not expect his wife to lose weight to a normal person's weight, and he would be grateful as long as she could recover to her pre-marital weight.
According to Yin Jinhua, although she was not slim when she married her husband, she weighed only about 180 kilograms at that time. However, because her husband was 10 years older than her, she loved her very much after marriage. No matter what she wanted to eat and drink, her husband tried her best to satisfy her. After less than two years of feeding, her weight soared to 356 kilograms. After her weight grew rapidly, her appetite and appetite also grew rapidly, and she had reached an uncontrollable level, which also caused a lot of trouble to her life. Not only did she feel inconvenient to mobility, she would get stuck at the bathroom door when she went to the toilet.
Because she is too obese, Yin Jinhua almost occupied the entire bed alone when she sleeps. Her husband Liao Weidong is small in size. Every time Yin Jinhua turns over and presses her husband. In order to give her more room to stretch and avoid being pressed, Liao Weidong simply builds the floor on the floor beside the bed. I originally thought that everything would be fine if I sleep separately like this. Unfortunately, for Yin Jinhua, because she had too much fat on her body, her limbs were completely out of control. She had to try to turn over at night. Several times she fell off the bed. Because she was too heavy, she almost traumatized her husband.
Although his wife is only in her 20s, the young couple can only be forced to separate. Speaking of this pattern of getting along, Liao Weidong, who has been separated for more than two years, said helplessly: "Mind is to mind, but what's the use? It can't change anything."
Liao Weidong said that every time he and his wife go out, people around him will point fingers at his wife, but his wife does not feel ashamed at all, and still does what she wants, and even becomes more and more self-indulgent in her diet.
like it for a moment, but true love is never abandoned
After marriage, Yin Jinhua was unable to share any housework for her husband because of obesity. Because of her fat body, it was difficult for her to even bend over. She had to use the bucket to support her washing a few pieces of her own clothes. After 6 years of marriage, she had to sit about ten small wooden stools at home.
Everyone has a love for beauty. What makes her most uncomfortable is that because of her obesity, she can no longer buy suitable pants as a woman. She must find someone to customize the extra-large size, and the shoes she usually wears must be the largest size for men. Yin Jinhua said that although she always acted indifferently, she felt particularly uncomfortable when facing others' ridicule when she went out.
The problem of obesity not only brought a lot of trouble to Yin Jinhua's life, but also brought many harms to her health. She even described herself as "like a useless person." The ridicule of outsiders may only hurt her self-esteem, but her husband's drifting away made Yin Jinhua feel the crisis. In order to restore her slim figure, Yin Jinhua has also tried various ways to lose weight. She even tried dieting for 3 months, but unfortunately she failed in the end with a rebound. Whenever her husband quarrels with her over a meal problem, Yin Jinhua is under great pressure and therefore she eats more.
Finally, the long-term unhealthy lifestyle and huge psychological pressure finally made Yin Jinhua faint suddenly. On the way to send her wife to the hospital, Liao Weidong once promised that he would save his wife even if he was selling the trouble. However, after he placed his wife in the hospital, he completely lost contact by using the excuse of going out to buy food.
Thinking of her being abandoned in the hospital by her husband. After calling her husband all night but no one answered him, Yin Jinhua instantly had tears in her eyes. Regarding the reason why her husband left without saying goodbye, she cried and said: "He doesn't love me, don't want me."
After contacting the hospital from multiple sources, she finally found the clue of Liao Weidong. In order to see her husband as soon as possible, she ignored the doctor's obstruction and insisted on risking her life to find her husband. As soon as she met, Yin Jinhua called the police again. The crying wife, Liao Weidong felt very distressed. He cried and said to Yin Jinhua: "What are you doing? I don't want you anymore. I work and make money now, and I will make money to cure you."
it turned out that Liao Weidong did not say goodbye, not leaving his wife alone, but after learning that his wife's treatment would require a large amount of money, he immediately went out to find a job. In order to raise the medical expenses as soon as possible, he was thin and had to carry thousands of kilograms of goods from morning to night every day, because he was afraid that his wife would worry about him, so he deliberately refused to answer the phone.
Looking at the tired husband in front of her, Yin Jinhua felt so embarrassed that she said on the spot that she wanted to give up treatment. Fortunately, after being persuaded by the doctor and her husband, she returned to the hospital.
Be fat because of love, Yin Jinhua is also determined to lose weight for love. In order to let her husband see a brand new self, Yin Jinhua, with the help of the doctor, finally lost from more than 300 kilograms to 120 kilograms after unremitting efforts.
people have joys and sorrows, and the moon has phases. Although Yin Jinhua successfully lost weight, unfortunately the man who sheltered her from the wind and rain failed to accompany her to the end. When Yin Jinhua lost weight, Liao Weidong left due to lung cancer.
Emotional Analysis
True love can be vigorous and vigorous, or plain and simple. Liao Weidong's "dislike" of Yin Jinhua's weight is actually because of worry. He feels uncomfortable when others laugh at his wife, and when his wife is unable to move, he is worried. True love for someone means keeping her in his heart at all times. Liao Weidong is not good at speaking, but he loves his wife deeply.
Marriage is realistic. It is not like love, mostly filled with romance. The greatest significance of marriage is to accompany each other in ordinary days; when disasters come, support each other and face each other together.
agrees with the sentence: "Half of life has passed, stop and stop, whoever can do it, and true love is revealed in times of adversity."
Whether it is a couple or a lover, in the face of love, hardship is a mirror of demonic feelings, and true love and falsehood are all hidden.
For wives with disfigured figures, some men choose to abandon them directly, some men choose to accept them happily, and some men choose to take their wives to exercise together. There is no standard answer to loving someone, but it is clear at a glance if you don’t love someone. For Liao Weidong, facing his deformed wife, he chose to accompany and wait until she got better and better.
In this world, there is no eternal passion. Any relationship will move from strong to dullness to stability. This is a law and a law. In married life, there are many conditions that can maintain the relationship between husband and wife. In addition to passion, it also concerns love and commitment.
Although a good figure is not a necessity for a happy marriage, whether a man or a woman, eating a healthy diet and maintaining a good figure is responsible for one's own health and laying the foundation for a long-term marriage.
Today’s topic discussion: How do you view “happy fat” after marriage?
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