Love has uncertainty. You don’t know what kind of people you will meet at any time. Maybe the person you meet has a family, so you are destined to be destined to be destined.
If you are persistent in being together again and again, it will only make both of you suffer, and may also cause unnecessary harm to yourself. What you need to do at this time is to learn to let go.
Perhaps, at first, you will find it difficult, after all, it is difficult to break if you like someone, but when you understand that there is no result between two people, and when you know that this relationship is destined to end without success, you should force yourself to forget it.
Whether it is a day or a month, there is always a time to let go. The key is that your heart must be firm and you must have the wisdom to give up for love that cannot be forced.
If you fall in love with someone with a family, remember to do three things well and be good to each other!
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Don't give yourself too much expectations
When you encounter a relationship, you will have some expectations, look forward to being with the other person, and look forward to having a happy ending, but it is often not satisfactory.
especially encounters a wrong person. If you put too much emotion in, it will only hurt yourself. When you believe his promise and look forward to having a future with him, it will be very painful when it cannot be realized. In this case, don’t give yourself too much expectations. You must understand that meeting the right person at the right time is a blessing, and meeting the wrong person may be unfortunate.
When you understand that there is no result for two people, you should stop the loss in time and let yourself know that it is impossible between you. Learn to let go slowly, so that you can get peace in your heart.
If you are too persistent, you may fall into this relationship and cannot struggle, and it is difficult for you to get out of it yourself.
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33Disconnected from the other party
The most correct way to fall in love with a person with a family is not to contact the other party at all times, but to make yourself more sober and to break from the other party.
Maybe you will not get used to it at the beginning, you can’t forget the person you like, you don’t want to give up this relationship, but what’s the point of being together like this?
Instead of giving yourself an unrealistic fantasy, it is better to let yourself not have expectations from the beginning. If you can't let go at the beginning, then start with the disconnection. When you gradually get used to the days without him, you can let go.
The most important thing is that you have to give yourself a deadline, instead of continuing endlessly. If you fall in love with someone who cannot be together, it is destined to be painful for a lifetime.
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tell yourself to learn to let go of
people should still be rational, especially when facing an inappropriate relationship, they should tell themselves to accept reality and face it honestly.
When you tell yourself to let go from your heart, you will always let yourself remember these two words, instead of just contacting the other party when you think about it, you can't bear to leave it alone.
Sometimes, soft-heartedness is cruelty to oneself. If you are soft-hearted to him, that is, allowing him to hurt you again. When you slowly understand that he cannot fulfill his promise and cannot give you the happiness you want, you will understand that you should not continue like this.
If you can't be together, then learn to let go. It may be difficult to let go, but it is even more difficult to be persistent in a relationship that does not belong to you. Face it bravely.
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Conclusion
The right time meets the right person is a kind of happiness, and meeting the right person is a kind of pain when you are wrong.
We cannot decide what kind of person we meet, but we can decide what way we get along with him. If we find that he is not the right person, then break off contact with him and learn to let go.
You must understand that if you fall in love with someone you shouldn’t love, you are destined to have no results. At this time, what you have to do is accept and respect the end of this story.
If you insist on continuing, it will only make both of you suffer, and even the beauty of yours may disappear.
