Although there are still more men and fewer women, women must pay attention to their qualities when looking for a partner. If you are like this woman in the article, you will not be able to find it in the end. No matter how good your conditions are, no matter how much your pension or salary you have, you cannot blindly make any requests.
Otherwise, you will never find the object. At that time, you will only blame others. If you didn’t make blindly requests or say too much, will others despise you? I hope this case can remind everyone and let’s take a look at this matter together. The 57-year-old aunt cried: I have a pension of 5,000 yuan, and I don’t want a car or a house to find a partner, why isn’t the man willing to do it yet?
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57-year-old aunt Wu:
I can’t understand, like my conditions, why can’t I find a partner until now, and even found a partner when I was ugly than me, and why can’t I find a sister who is a little younger than me, and is 56 years younger than me this year. She looks ugly than me and is shorter than me, but I found a man who loves him very much, and I am more beautiful than him, taller than him, and has a pension, why can’t I get it?
What is going on? Not to mention that other women are uglier and more uncomfortable. They can all be found, why can't I find it? Is it because my requirements are too high? I think my requirements are not high. Other women require cars, houses and savings, but I don’t need these because I have cars, houses and savings. For me, there is no big demand for cars and houses, so I don’t want these.
Since everyone says I have no requirements, why can't I find it? Is it because I am too ugly? It's not right. I'm about 1.6 meters tall and weigh only 130 kilograms. I'm not fat and I'm not good at all. Don't many men like this? Then why are those men unwilling to be with me? I have 100 left now and I still can’t find a suitable partner to do it. What’s going on? Is it because those men have too high horizons?
is not right. Now there are more men and fewer women, and the person they can find is already very good. What qualifications are there to choose? If you can choose, ask us women directly. Our women have the advantage in terms of quantity, and then my conditions are so good. There is also a pension of 5,000 yuan. Although 5,000 yuan is not much, 5,000 yuan can also do a lot of things. I even read some data. Some college students only have three or four thousand yuan a month, and they work hard for only three or four thousand yuan a month. But I don’t have to do anything now, and then I have 5,000 yuan. Is it still less?
is not bad. If you are with me, I can still share your money. At that time, you will have money to spend without doing anything. Why can’t you find anything wrong? I didn’t ask the other party to have much money, nor did I ask the other party to give me how much money and gifts. Since this is the case, why can’t I find it?
The more I think about it, the more I feel helpless, and the more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable. Why do I know that I can’t find it? Why can’t I find it? Is it because I have high requirements for 5? I don’t think it’s high. I have found dozens of requests from other women, but can’t I find the 5 requests? There are only 5 requirements, but there is no requirement for the other party to have a car or a house. Why is this happening? Is it really that I have high requirements?
The first requirement is to give me everything you have after marriage.
Since I am with you, since we are married, then we are a family. Since we are a family, it is normal to give me everything you have. Give me everything you have. Loneliness gives me a sense of security and also gives me the reason for the future. You and women need a sense of security. If you give me everything, you will give me a sense of security.
I feel safe and I will live with you. If I don’t feel safe, I will make a fuss with you. You don’t want to make a fuss with you because of some small things. If we make a fuss, it will be of no benefit to you and there will be no happiness at that time. So you must give me everything and give me everything, so I will have a sense of security and not make a fuss with you.
And if you are not responsible to me, whoever is responsible to me, giving me everything you have is responsible to me. If you leave one day, at least everything you have is still with me, and then I will be guaranteed in the future. If you don’t give me all this, what should I do if there is really that day? Everyone will be responsible for you when you leave, so you must give me everything you have to be responsible to me. Only in this way can I have a support for my future life.
The second requirement is, if you leave one day, you have to let your child raise me.
I am with you and I am your wife, so your child is my child. Although I have no nurturing or giving birth to your child, I am with you and I am your wife, so your child is also my child. Since it is said to be my child, you must be responsible to me. If you are not responsible to me, who will you be responsible to me?
You are no longer in this world, so you must make your child responsible for me. For example, if your child is responsible for you, it is just transferring this favor to me. Isn’t this supposed? Don’t think that if I have children, I can let my children be responsible. I am with you and I have married you. What does my relationship with my children and me have nothing to do with you?
Since it has nothing to do with my children, why should I bother them? Even if you are embarrassed to ask me to bother them, I am embarrassed to bother them. I have married you and I have nothing to do with my children anymore, so I will not let my children be responsible for me, let your children be responsible for me. Of course, if you leave enough money to me, I will not bother girls. If you leave me with not much money, I can only trouble your children.
The third requirement is, if I leave one day, then what you leave me must be left to my children.
You gave me everything you have, it is mine. Since it is mine, then I have my right to exercise. It’s mine, I use it to whom I give it to, or it’s all my own business, it has nothing to do with you, of course I won’t ignore your business. If you give me everything, and then I leave again, and I give all this to my child, then I will definitely explain it to your child.
Let your child be responsible for you. After all, your child is your biological child, and they will definitely not ignore yours, so you don’t have to be afraid. No one will care about you in the future, and no one will be responsible for you, and your child will not ignore yours. If that happens, you can go to your child to retire. Don’t you want to go to your child to retire?
Every elderly person wants to go to their children to support their children, and they work hard to raise their children until they grow old to rely on their children. If you have all this, will your children care about you? Surely not. Only when you give all this to me will your child be responsible for you, so isn’t I doing this for your own good?
The fourth requirement is that the other party must be 10 to 15 years younger than me.
You men can find young and beautiful people, so we women can also find young and handsome people, not to mention that I am a superstitious person. A gentleman told me about this before, and he told me to find someone 10 to 15 years younger than me, that is, to find a young and handsome man. Only in this way can I be happy in the future, and that gentleman also said that if I find a man like this, then that man will be happy.
Although I am a little older, I will fall in love and you will take care of you. I know how to take care of you, know how to love you, and know how to understand that it is not easy for you to find someone a little older. Don’t you want to live well in the future? If you want, just be with me, it’s just that I’m 10 to 15 years younger than me. Some men find a wife who is several decades younger.
I saw a man around me who found a woman in his 20s, but the man was in his 70s. Now I’m just looking for someone who is 10 to 15 years younger than me. The gap is not big, it’s not too much. You guys can find younger ones. Then we women can also find young and handsome people. The same is true, although I think this requirement is not too much, there are more young men now.
The fifth requirement is that you must have 20,000 yuan per month.
has 20,000 yuan per month, isn’t it for our sake? If you don’t have 20,000 yuan a month, isn’t it for our sake? If you don’t have 20,000 yuan, and you have a month’s money, how can we live in the future? Do you still want to rely on my 5,000 yuan? My 5,000 yuan should be just enough. I can’t support it at all. You can’t support our family at all. So you must have 20,000 yuan a month. If you have 20,000 yuan a month, we will definitely be happy.
If you don’t have money, how can we live? So you must have this 20,000 yuan. Moreover, the current era is so developed that you can spend tens of thousands of yuan a month when you find someone. I didn’t ask for more than 100,000 yuan or 200,000 yuan a month. I only asked you to have 20,000 yuan a month. You are decades old and you are halfway through your life. Is it difficult to make 20,000 yuan a month?
Anyway, I don’t think my son has more than 8,000 yuan every month. He is only over 30 and 40 years old now. When he reaches that age, he will definitely have 20,000 yuan a month. So it is not difficult to get you 20,000 yuan a month. Many difficult things can be achieved. Some men even have 100,000 yuan a year, and if there is more than 1 million, it means that there are more than 100,000 yuan a month. I don’t have that high requirements, and 20,000 yuan will satisfy me.
I just have these 5 requirements. Are these 5 requirements difficult? I don’t think it’s difficult. Then why is no man willing to be with me? Is it because I'm not pretty enough? Let me just say that, I am 100% beautiful at the same age. Although I dare not say that I am more beautiful than those younger, I am definitely beautiful at the same age.
Since this is the case, why are you still unwilling to be with me? There are many women who don’t have pensions, but I have 5,000 yuan per month. Although 5,000 yuan is not much, I can do a lot of things. No one has quit. But I have 5,000 yuan per month. What else do you want? There are many things you can do for 5,000 yuan a month. To put it bluntly, you can’t spend 5,000 yuan a month. The last month’s one has not been sent, and the last month’s one has been sent again.
So it is 100% beneficial to be with me. More importantly, I can take care of you and I can love you. Isn’t this what you men want? As long as I can meet the requirements of your men, why don’t I be willing to be with me? I just have 5 requirements. Are there more than 5 requirements? I don't think there are many, so why can't I find a partner? The more this happens, the more uncomfortable it is, and I can't figure it out.
Conclusion:
To put it badly, if I had this condition, do you think I would be with you? 20,000 yuan per month doesn’t sound like a lot, but there are absolutely few who can meet this requirement, let alone you want to find someone 10 to 15 years younger than you. This is impossible. If I meet this requirement, I will never be with you.
You can find a young and handsome guy, then why can't I find a young and beautiful guy, why should I find an impossible thing that is 10 to 15 years older than me? If you find a partner according to these requirements, I can be sure that I will never find it in my life, even if I find someone at the age of 107, don't blame others at that time. If you want to blame, blame yourself. You are too naive and you will never get it by finding a partner according to this requirement.
If you want to really find a partner, then be realistic. Although you are a lot of 5,000 yuan per month, and you are not very old at the age of 57, your requirements are too excessive. If you look for a partner, you must be realistic based on the actual situation, otherwise you will never find it. I hope this case can remind all women that you must be realistic when making a partner. Do you understand? #Autumn Life Check-in Season#
