A netizen said that she and her husband had been in love for 2 years and had two children.
After getting married, she took care of her children at home and never went out to work again. Her family was well-organized. My husband is doing business outside, which is not bad, and he has basically achieved economic freedom.
One year just after the Spring Festival, my husband told her solemnly that he had another woman he liked, younger, more beautiful and capable than her, and was pregnant with his child and needed his care. He would not live at home in the future. But he will not divorce, so that netizens can understand and accept it. Don’t make trouble with him, just take good care of the children at home.
Then he began to pack up his belongings, pulling his suitcase and preparing to leave. Netizens stopped him crying, and he pushed her away.
Once the dick got sick and had a fever. A netizen called her husband. The other side asked a few impatiently and hung up. I asked my husband for money, and every time I gave it a little like squeezing toothpaste, as if I was giving me a beggar. It feels like her husband's heart is no longer on their mother-in-law.
Netizen said that she consulted a marriage expert, and the expert suggested to her: If you are unable to divorce, you might as well not divorce. You don’t have to conflict with this matter, just think that you have already divorced. With this mentality, you will try to be independent in the future and live on your own. Once you do it, you will be no longer afraid of anything.
Netizens said they didn’t know what to do...
I am not an expert and I don’t understand psychology. It’s just that in this matter, I don’t really agree with the so-called professional advice of experts. I think that a man cheated but didn't want to divorce, maybe because he was worried that he might not be able to bear the consequences and costs of the divorce.
neither want to raise children nor pay child support, nor do they want to divide the property to the woman. He was also afraid that the mistress would be separated in a few days. Keeping his wife means leaving a way out for himself, and the children are still his own, so he still has to support himself in the future.
, a man like this, either you throw your child to him and leave the house by himself, go find a job to make money, and come back to fight for custody when you have the ability. If you don’t want to divorce, you don’t have the ability to divorce, so you just live like this, but the child support you should have to be paid. Even if you break up and make trouble, you must negotiate with the man and you can’t let him do whatever he wants. Don’t think that when facing a man who has cheated and changed his mind, you can win back the other person by compromise. In fact, he will only gain a better position.
Inability to divorce does not mean that you cannot divorce. The man doesn't want the woman to file for divorce, which means the man is afraid of divorce or the mistress may not agree to marry him. Therefore, once the woman finds that her husband cheats, the first thing she needs to do is to immediately file for divorce and force the man to submit, and the second is to consider living a life of suffocation.
allows the man to either return to his family or divorce, but in short, he cannot be at the mercy of the man. If a mistress intervenes, she will never tolerate the traitor, and kill him with a quick knife and kill him without leaving any armor. If you don’t have money, you can find a way to solve it. If the man has no sense of responsibility, what’s the use for him?
Time is life, time is money, the right time, place and people are indispensable. Take up time and destroy everything, don't leave the opportunity to the enemy. Be kind to your enemies is cruel to yourself.
Why do many men now think that their wives are not as good as those outside women? How could I get married if I didn’t have the idea of being with me until old age? I once asked my husband if he would betray his family. He thought for a while and said: No, because women are the same. They all seem gentle and considerate when they haven't really lived together. After being together for a long time, there are not so many understanding and gentle people. What do you think of
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