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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Women are middle-aged and are immersed in the trivialities of life, but in fact they will not indulge in the life between husband and wife.
Whether it is a couple who depend on each other or who have been separated for a long time, they will maintain a more indifferent attitude and will not force anything.
After all, women in this period worked hard for their family and worked hard for their children, and were already very indifferent to their emotional needs.
Furthermore, many middle-aged women begin to enrich themselves, know how to discipline themselves, and quietly settle themselves.
They will not spend too much effort on men, but to improve themselves and make themselves better.
After a certain period of accumulation, they will exude a more charming atmosphere and live with a more positive attitude.
In reality, many women show happy smiles on their faces. This is the result of their own efforts and the best proof of becoming charming women.
After all, the secret in the hearts of middle-aged women: a woman who has passed by 40 years old may not need a life between husband and wife.
1. Only by restraining desire can you accumulate rich connotations
In marriage, although women need the nourishment of love, the way to truly make them connotations is to restrain desires .
When a woman is over 40 years old, her appearance has no advantage, and her connotation is the magic weapon to measure the charm of women.
Therefore, many women will not be addicted to emotions, and their demand for men is no longer strong, and they even think that men are dispensable.
They will spend a lot of time and energy on enhancing their charm and quietly settle themselves.
If a man loves him, they will be more happy. If he does not have a man to accompany him for a long time, they will not give up on themselves.
At this time, they will focus more on their lives, restrain their inner desires, and no longer devote their energy to meaningless things.
In fact, for women who are middle-aged, whether they live a happy life does not depend on the man, but on themselves.
A woman knows self-discipline and can restrain her emotions so that she will not get into trouble.
When men work hard for life outside, they will not complain too much, but will give certain support.
Because, they no longer regard emotional needs as the focus of their lives, but focus on improving their connotations and caring for a good family. Women like
are getting better and better. Only when they have fewer desires and understand the meaning of ordinary life can they live a more peaceful life.
A truly smart woman will not be entangled in the affairs between men and women, but will look at it longer, give herself more charming qualities, and become a charming woman in the eyes of men.
2. Only by learning to abstinence can one make one more advanced in life
Smart women will slowly learn to abstinence after they are 40 years old, so as to make their life more advanced.
In reality, some women do not understand this, always pursue emotional satisfaction, live a low-end life, and have no real sense of happiness at all.
Only those women with patterns in will understand the meaning of abstinence. They do not indulge in love, nor rely on men, but constantly change themselves and become more elegant.
A woman like this is calm and composed in life, has her own principles when doing anything, and walks without panic.
They are not only happy physically and mentally, but also live with a positive attitude, making it easier to gain a high-level life.
Of course, they are not that they don’t need men anymore, but that they are restrained in everything, no longer revolve around men, and have their own space, and will live a better life.
So, more and more women have learned to live abstinent, which is what makes them better. Women like
will never indulge in low-level desires at any time and have a clearer understanding of the state between husband and wife.
No matter whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not, they will not let themselves go, nor will they rely on men, but will always have their own dignity.
They are with men, have their own space and their own social circles, and live a pleasant life.
A woman who can regulate her mood and control her desires will definitely get better and better and her life will be more fulfilling.
They will not force the life between husband and wife. It is beautiful to be able to get the love of men, but without a man, they will not feel a pity, let alone anxiety.
After all, their thoughts and patterns are getting higher and higher, and in a self-disciplined and independent life, they will inevitably get better and happier.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In summary, women who have passed by 40 years old may not need a life between husband and wife. This is the secret in the hearts of middle-aged women. They believe that only by restraining desire can they accumulate rich connotations. When they use their time and energy to improve themselves, they will eventually accumulate rich life.
Only by learning to abstinence can one make one's life more advanced. Middle-aged women understand this principle. If they want to make one's life more advanced, they must give up their low-level desires, so that women can maintain elegance and calmness.
In short, when women reach middle age, what they expect in their hearts is no longer the love between men and women, but the desire to have a more quality life.
Many men do not understand the thoughts of middle-aged women and think that their relationship has faded. In fact, this is a misunderstanding.
In fact, middle-aged women are not only more sincere in their feelings, but also face a more meaningful life with a more positive attitude.
So, men have truly entered the psychology of middle-aged women. I believe you will have a deeper understanding of them, so as to make your marriage life happier and more textured.
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