Recently, I was dating and chatting with my best friend and talked about a topic:
If you can turn back time, what do you want to do the most?
Unexpectedly, my best friend said, "I want to have a few more relationships."
html Best friend who got married and had children at the age of 124 admitted that he missed the feeling of love the most.
Women who enter their marriage rarely experience the feeling of love.
is not because I don’t desire anymore, but because I can’t ignite the enthusiasm for love with the same person again.
The object is fixed, and with the ties of children, family trivial matters occupy most of life, and women have forgotten what it feels like to be moved.
The words of my best friend reminded me of my past love.
Who was once not a crazy person for love?
Although I have written a lot of articles about love now and answered many confusions in marriage and love for others, it does not mean that I am a master of love.
Being able to face feelings rationally must be the ability that has been tempered by the failed experience before.
Many people who are trapped in love and cannot extricate themselves are actually not stupid.
Others advised them not to be overly devoted, just because they had never experienced the feeling of being deeply in love.
person, there is always a stage where he will do all his stupid things for love. After things change, he will only find that he was so unreasonable when he turned around.
Now, when I recall that time in love, the corners of my mouth still rise.
Actually, I am also obsessed with the feeling of being loved.
Boy A once took dozens of bus stops on my birthday, came to my school, put down the gift at the gate and left.
At that time, we didn't even meet each other, and when I arrived at the door, he had already left.
Holding a bag of small gifts in your hand, I feel indescribable sweetness and joy in my heart.
Someone is willing to work hard for you, just to put down a gift. The feeling of being valued is really impressive.
Maybe this is what is called the "feeling of love".
Although the gift is ordinary, the heart occupies the whole heart.
Boy B is my first love.
On the day he confessed, he waited for me to finish school after the cram school.
It was late autumn. We walked shoulder to shoulder on the street, knowing each other well, and something different happened immediately, but both of us pretended to be calm.
He suddenly stopped, looked at me with a serious expression, and said, "I have liked you for a long time, can you... be my girlfriend?"
I lowered my head, said "um", not daring to look into his eyes.
Then, he didn't know where a rose turned out to dye my cheeks red.
The occurrence of love is all youthful and beautiful.
The feeling of a woman chasing love will never change.
Even when you reach the age of 30, the little flame that throbbed inside will still be lit in an accidental moment.
But they will hide carefully, as if they have forgotten, and they will look indifferent.
That is the seed planted in love, and experience only increases the armor on your body.
No matter how strong a woman is, she doesn’t need love, when she meets someone she truly loves, she will take off her armor to protect herself and love her passionately.
Boy C, his former ex-boyfriend, was the deepest injured by him.
That was the humblest moment in my life. He gave up on me and I refused to let go.
To the extreme pain, losing my mind and due dignity, I am like a girl who lost myself, desperately trying to grasp the last straw.
Even if you know that the other party no longer loves you, you still beg for a reunion and paranoidly to save a long-breaking relationship.
In current terms, it is love brain .
But, I clearly know that I should leave with decentness, why can't I do it?
Because this is the only way for people to mature.
Only by experiencing the saddest pain can you rebound at the bottom, fully realize and grow.
When a woman experiences a ignorant love, a heart-wrenching love, and a love that touches the soul, she will gradually become less likely to sink into love.
So, those women who look free and sober may have already squandered their worst side.
In addition to keeping a desire in their hearts, they also free up space to love themselves.
Married, just demarcating a unique object for love, not love no longer needs.
Love in marriage is more worthy of exploration, management and respect than love in love.
Love is an experience that people desire and pursue throughout their lives.
Even if you know that the other party no longer loves you, you still beg for a reunion and paranoidly to save a long-breaking relationship.
In current terms, it is love brain .
But, I clearly know that I should leave with decentness, why can't I do it?
Because this is the only way for people to mature.
Only by experiencing the saddest pain can you rebound at the bottom, fully realize and grow.
When a woman experiences a ignorant love, a heart-wrenching love, and a love that touches the soul, she will gradually become less likely to sink into love.
So, those women who look free and sober may have already squandered their worst side.
In addition to keeping a desire in their hearts, they also free up space to love themselves.
Married, just demarcating a unique object for love, not love no longer needs.
Love in marriage is more worthy of exploration, management and respect than love in love.
Love is an experience that people desire and pursue throughout their lives.
