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Don’t think middle-aged women are better chasing them. They feel that they lack love in their hearts and have no advantage in the marriage and love market. So if you work harder and take a little more attentively, you can let them follow you easily.
If you have this idea, you are very wrong.
Compared with young girls, middle-aged women are much more difficult to pursue, because at this time they have rich life experience and life experience, and they live more sober and smarter than anyone else.
They are too clear about what they want and what they are suitable for. Under the premise of financial independence, love and marriage are just the icing on the cake for them, and they will not make it easy. So unless you meet someone you really like, you will not fall in love casually, and you will not get married casually.
In this case, do you still think they are easy to pursue?
But there is no way to pursue middle-aged women. As long as you understand them enough and grasp their weaknesses and real inner needs, you will often have twice the result with half the effort.
For example, if you take the initiative to give them the following three things, it will be easier to enter their hearts.
1: Give her enough respect to let her feel the equality between you
In a middle-aged woman’s relationship, the first thing she cares about is the respect of the other party. After all, nowadays, many people are prejudiced against middle-aged women. They always feel that they are old and have no advantages, but they still have such high requirements. They are picky and choose all the way, and they are simply overestimating their own abilities.
People with this idea are too narrow-minded and have too small structures. They not only do not understand, but also disrespect a group like them. This sense of arrogance is often the source of annoyingness.
In fact, the reason why middle-aged women are still single when they reach middle age is either not meeting the right person or have been hurt. No matter which one, they have their own difficulties. You may not understand, but you cannot forcefully interpret it based on your own perception. This will hurt them and will not be fair to them.
So if you want to enter the hearts of middle-aged women, you must first know how to respect them.
Respect is the premise of a relationship. Without respect, there is no equality, and without equality, there is no need for contact.
2: Give her sincere care, let her feel your sincerity, feel you moved true feelings
gives them respect, the second step is to show all your sincerity.
Middle-aged women are often very wary of the opposite sex, and it is difficult for them to believe in a person. So if you are sincere, you must be patient and give them enough time to slowly accept and adapt.
Don’t just give up when you give first, as it’s rejected. This will only make her feel that you are insincere and are just playing with your feelings. If you can't stand this test, can you still expect you to live with her for the rest of your life?
Remember, don’t have any routine in the process of pursuing. In fact, they can see through your routines at a glance. If you don’t say them out, you just give you face and don’t want to make you too ugly.
For them, without sincerity as a premise, everything is false and meaningless.
3: Give her a long-lasting companionship, make her feel safe
Love someone is never just a lip service, but a practical action, able to go through the test of time, and prove it over the years.
Some people love someone without asking for rewards or asking for results. As long as they can be with her, it is enough. Such affectionate love and selfless feelings have always been hard to come by.
However, modern people's pace of life is getting faster and faster. If you don't succeed, you will change your goals and continue to express your love. Such feelings are too frivolous and cannot even be considered emotional.
If you really like someone, show the attitude and sincerity you should have.
gives her a long-lasting companionship, making her feel safe, and she will naturally accept you and trust you slowly. Of course, this kind of companionship also requires a deadline. If she clearly states that she has no feelings for you, it is wise for you to look back in time.
It is extremely difficult to meet someone you like. This is the fate that I cultivated in my previous life. No matter how old she is, no matter what she has experienced, no matter what job she is engaged in, as long as she likes it, just pursue it bravely.
But remember that giving her what she wants, not what you want, will often result in twice the result with half the effort.
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