#Sexual Emotion#
Original Author: Yaoyao
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As the saying goes: Being married and being married, both loving and loving are not doubted. I believe that every relationship is the most sincere at the beginning. Which of us is not determined by our wishes? We are not alone in our lives. We are never separated until the end of the world. We are not clouds except Wushan?
Sometimes I wonder, a relationship, why did two people laugh from the moment they saw you to the irreversible situation of seeing each other? Is it the destruction of life or is it human nature? Recently, I have always received private messages from some men in the backstage. They are complaining about their wives cheating. Some say that their wives cheat because of money, some say that their wives cheat because of their cold violence, and some say that their wives cheat because of their nature.
Although there are thousands of excuses for cheating, I think there is only one reason, that is, I don’t love it anymore.
When people reach middle age, divorce is not an easy task. Everyone has been ties with each other for most of their lives and torture each other for most of their lives. How can it be so easy to separate? I believe that most people choose to forgive and redeem because of their children. Most of the marriages of middle-aged people exist for others, and this person is a child. However, not every marriage is suitable for retention. First of all, we must be ourselves to protect our children. If we let our children live in a deformed marriage, it is better to separate happily!
So, can we keep your wife cheating? Is it really necessary to make sacrifices for the children? Of course, the answer is: no need. Generally speaking, there is no need to forgive or retain cheating in the following three situations.
The first type: the other party’s family is not wise, and supports cheating
There is an old Chinese saying that goes well: The upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked. A person's character is closely related to his original family. If his original family is reasonable and reasonable, then I think this person must be good. If a person's original family has a wrong view and no distinction between right and wrong, then I think this person must be not very good. Of course, we can't kill everyone with one blow.
I still remember there was a family in my hometown village. His daughter was very beautiful and got married at a young age. Although the one who married was not a wealthy family, it was one of the best in our village to marry well. In my impression, this family is a well-known family in our village who loves the poor and the rich, and the whole family likes to show off.
His daughter divorced her husband the second year after getting married. It was said that his daughter and a big boss who was engaged in engineering were getting along. After being discovered by her husband and family, she remained unchanged. Later, I heard from the old man in the village that the daughter of this family divorced in the third year and was really with the big boss, who bought her a house and a car. Not only does this family not feel embarrassed, but instead thinks that their daughter is right to cheat during marriage. After all, how can she be with a rich boss if she doesn’t cheat! Their family doesn't care about how the villagers discuss this matter at all, but instead thinks that it's enough to have money.
If your wife cheats and her family does not stop or persuade her, but supports her cheating behavior and is proud of her, then I think you don’t need to forgive or retain such a woman. After all, the family is a person with a distorted viewpoint and it’s very sad to live a good life.
The second type: it will not change after repeated teachings. The nature of water-like poplar flowers
There is a saying: the sun is in the east and the rain is in the west, and the way is that there is no sunshine but there is sunshine. Some women are born romantic and passionate. They cannot bear a peaceful life. As long as life continues, romance will not die.
A person's nature is difficult to change. If she is born passionate, then you cannot save such a person at all. Over and over again, it will only make you more painful.The country is easy to change, but nature is difficult to change. If a woman cheats many times and you will forgive and retain it every time, then your future life will only have endless pain and green light.
I remember reading a book called "Madame Bovary ". This novel tells the story of a woman who wants to die but longs to live in Paris. It tells a story of an infidelity. After experiencing several infidelity, she became unable to end up in a good life.
If a woman’s marriage cannot meet all her expectations and fantasies, she will be uneasy about the status quo. When all novelty and charm lose their attractiveness, she will look for the next goal. You can’t hold on to this kind of woman, so when you encounter such a woman cheating, you can let go as soon as possible!
The third type: you already have a family outside, and your property transferred
is not a sage, who can do nothing? I believe that most couples turn a blind eye to their lives. As long as they do not do anything hurtful, they will choose to forgive. After all, in order to take the overall situation into consideration and for the children, they will choose to continue living together.
However, not every betrayal is worth forgiven. There is one that really must not be kept.
There is a sister by my side, let’s call her Sister Rong for the time being! Sister Rong is 42 years old this year. In everyone's mind, she is a very happy woman. Her husband is gentle and considerate, and her son is smart and sensible. She can be said to be a winner in life.
But life is not satisfactory. One day, she suddenly received a message that a strange woman told Sister Rong that she was pregnant with Sister Rong’s husband’s child. This news was like a bolt from the blue, causing Sister Rong to fall from heaven to hell in an instant.
During that time, Sister Rong lived like a walking corpse every day.
A few months later, several of our colleagues made an appointment to go shopping. On the street, we met Sister Rong and her husband. They were walking happily together with each other. I think Sister Rong was forgiving her husband.
It’s a pity that the good times didn’t last long. One afternoon, Sister Rong suddenly burst into tears in the office. We were all very scared and went over to comfort her one by one. Finally, we learned from her that her husband had completely cut off contact with his lover outside after being forgiven by Sister Rong, and the child's affairs were also resolved.
Actually, there was no. During this period, his husband divorced her in the name of buying a school district house, and then took away all her property.
Now, Sister Rong’s husband and mistress live in another place, and the child was already born. Sister Rong took her son to rent a house, quit her stable job, and delivered food every day to make a living. I visited Sister Rong and her son some time ago. Sister Rong has grown much older in the past six months and there is no light in her eyes!
Sister Rong's story tells us:
No matter a man or a woman, if you have a family outside, you must not keep it or forgive. If you find that the other party is suspected of transferring property, you must pay attention! Don’t be the second Sister Rong, don’t forgive someone who cannot be forgiven. Your sacrifice cannot be exchanged for his conscience. In fact, a person’s life is very short. If we meet someone who truly loves each other, why don’t we keep our original intentions? Even if life is destroyed in every way, as long as your original intention remains unchanged, you will be able to achieve it all the time. On the contrary, if you are not loyal in your marriage, you will eventually be yourself or your next generation. Infidelity is often the most childish choice and practice, and it is also an irresponsible behavior. Don’t let the person who loves you suffer the pain for the rest of his life for the sake of temporary happiness and stimulation.
I hope everyone can manage their marriage well. Of course, unfortunately, if you meet someone who cheats, please remember that some betrayals cannot be forgiven.There are only one first time and countless times of cheating. I hope everyone will consider it carefully!
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Topic today: Can cheating be forgiven?
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