text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you, Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
The older you grow, the more you understand one thing. The enthusiasm on the surface is false feelings, and the introverted and deep feeling is the true feelings.
However, there are many people who are blinded by the superficial enthusiasm. Although everything is fake, they naively think that they have met true love. There are many people like
. Even if someone is trying to persuade him to block it, he still has to fight for love.
If you are willing to sacrifice yourself for someone who truly loves you, it is understandable, but if you are willing to sacrifice yourself for someone who is false, you are hurting yourself.
No matter how much you love someone, you cannot hurt yourself in the name of love. Don't be too impulsive before you figure out whether his love is true or false.
You should know that the false intentions you exchange for your sincerity will become a lingering haze that will last your life. Only by giving up decisively can there be hope in life.
If you don’t want to be hurt by false thoughts, please first judge whether the love you have received is true or false.
If you don’t know how to judge, then Xiaojing wants to remind you whether a person’s love is true or false. Ask him three questions and you will know what it means.
1. When did you take me to see your parents?
For men and women in love, meeting their parents is a very cautious thing. If it weren’t for the true love of each other, the two would not have seen their parents.
Since parents reflect the true love between two people, you can tell whether a person’s love is true or false.
Is a person’s love true or false? When will you ask him the question “When will you take me to see your parents”, you will know what you want.
If a person's love is true, then he will have no worries about his parents. He wishes that everyone in the world will know his feelings, especially his parents. Once he is determined, he will be impatient to take his lover back to see his parents. Even if this action will cause a "bloody storm", he will do whatever he wants.
From true love, you will want to get acceptance and blessing from your parents, while false love will not be related to your parents.
If a person’s love is fake, then he will not let his parents participate in the relationship, nor will he take people back to see his parents.
Is a person’s love true or false? His attitude towards meeting his parents is completely different. You just need to ask him this question and you will know it.
2. What are your plans for the future?
Regarding the future, I believe everyone has already drawn a blueprint in their hearts. Although this blueprint is beautiful, it is also changing because it is experiencing it at any time.
The easiest thing in this world that makes a person's plans for the future is actually love. When a person has someone in his heart who wants to protect his life, he has a different plan for the future.
Therefore, if you want to know whether a person’s love is true or false, and ask him the question of “What are your plans for the future”, you will know it.
If he really loves you, he will want to go on with you. Based on this premise, he will plan you into his future.
For him, life will be meaningful only if you create a better future with you. So he will tell you about his plans and invite you to work together with him to create.
This is true for those who truly love you, and the opposite is true for those who are false. If a person's love is fake, then he will not be able to give you a visible future.
This problem seems to have nothing to do with love, but it is the best proof of love. Through this question, you can clearly know whether a person’s love is true or false.
3. Will you marry me?
Marriage is a major event in life. Although many people do not have a clear plan for their marriage, when they meet the person who most wants to work together for the rest of their lives, marriage will be put on the agenda.
The best appearance of love is to join hands with your beloved into the palace of marriage. But if a person's love is fake, he doesn't even dare to mention the topic of marriage.
Whether a person will marry you depends on his feelings for you. I know whether a person’s feelings for you are true or false. Ask him the question “Will you marry me?”
Those who truly love you want to enter the marriage hall with you, because for him, only marriage can continue the love between you.
Sincere love will become the beginning of marriage, and false love will never become marriage.
If the person you love has not given you a clear answer at all, and has even been escaping your question all the time, it is obvious that he does not really love you at all. Is
true love or falsehood? This question can actually be tested, so don’t misunderstand.
Xiaojing's emotional summary:
Not everyone can meet the person they love most at the best time. Many times what everyone gets is just false.
Although some people pretend to be fake, as long as it is fake, it will definitely reveal flaws.
If you want to know whether a person’s love is true or false, then you might as well use these three questions to test him. Through his attitude, you can clearly know what he is thinking.
Once you find that the feelings you have are fake, please let go and stop the loss in time. Even if you really love him, don't deceive yourself.
I hope you can remember that false love will not have good results. Only by staying away from such feelings can you truly get close to happiness.
