During the National Day holiday, the nanny goes home for a few days to rest. We cannot leave our parents-in-law around us, and we need someone to take care of us at all times. It is really hard for my sister and brother-in-law to take care of me all the time, so I took advantage of the National Day holiday to take a rest from Hangzhou to Nanchang to work as a nanny for my parents-in-law.
I found that when people get old, they really become old children, which is fully reflected in their parents-in-law. My mother-in-law likes to eat since she was a child. The standard breakfast for Nanchang people is ~ egg patty soup . If breakfast wasn't like this, she would show a very difficult expression, relying on "eat a bite, eat another bite, eat a bite, you're so good!" She kept giving thumbs up, praising and encouraging and affirming, and after eating half of it, she would still have a bowl of egg meat patty soup.
In-laws, I would fight to sleep at night. My father-in-law wanted to cover my mother-in-law with a thicker quilt. My mother-in-law refused and still wanted to cover her with a thin blanket covered by summer. My father-in-law actually knelt on the ground and covered her with a quilt. My mother-in-law shouted, "Help!" I was so scared that I lived in the next room. I quickly went to rescue her with my hair disheveled. I felt so funny when I saw this scene.
I seriously, sternly, and loudly (my mother-in-law is a little timid) explained to her mother-in-law: "The weather has become colder, my father is right, you need to cover a thicker quilt, you can cooperate well, can you be obedient?" It was amazing. My mother-in-law immediately became obedient, raised her right hand high above her head to make a "report" gesture, but she said "obey orders". Her cute look made me laugh directly, and her father-in-law also smiled relievedly.
The brother and younger brother often have video calls with their parents-in-law "Xiaodu Xiaodu". Every time they are very excited, especially their mother-in-law. When they look at their son, they can't wait to say, "Baby, you want to come to see me. I think your heart hurts so much. She (my sister) likes me and always supervises me to eat and force me to exercise!" The brother said, "Didn't I just see you two weeks ago? OK, okay, mom, I will come to you often in the future!"
I am old, and sometimes my brain nerves are uncontrollable, just like when we were infancy, I will pull them all over my body, trouble our parents. Now that we are old, we should give back to our parents as children. My parents-in-law, especially my mother-in-law, would occasionally pull her father on her body. The nanny went on vacation, and my sister and I took turns to work together and cooperated to deal with it. Afterwards, the mother-in-law, who was so refreshed, looked at us nervously and embarrassedly and said, "I'm sorry, I'm making you suffer, I didn't mean it." The father-in-law kept poking her mother-in-law with his fingers, "You are so ugly!"
At this time, I looked at them. The hard work just now has disappeared, but there is an inexplicable sadness. Why do our parents live to the end? When they wander around the kingdom of heaven, they still have to please and curry favor with their children who have worked hard to raise with shit and urine since childhood.
These days, I have been in charge of my parents-in-law brushing my teeth and washing my face. I applied the vitamin E milk I bought for her on my face and hands. I ate and picked up food for them. I managed to sleep peacefully without quarrels. I mop the floor, wash dishes, choose vegetables, and cook occasionally. I also made a braised trotter... The nanny is on vacation, so I should do these things. I will do my best to take care of my parents-in-law's diet and daily life with my sister and brother-in-law.
Respecting the elderly and loving the young is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. I want to use this article to awaken thousands of us, as children in society. As children, it is the bloodline of human beings, the flesh and blood of human beings, and our whole life and even everything is given by our parents. Therefore, supporting parents, respecting parents, and being grateful and raising them is urgent. Even the crows are feeding back, and the lambs can kneel down and breastfeed. Only by knowing one’s kindness will you repay one’s kindness, and then you will have a clear conscience!
