In today's society, many people are no longer surprised by flash marriages and divorces. Fast-food love is also everywhere. As long as you see each other right, you can get together, or even get married in a hurry. You can quarrel continuously when you disagree. You can divorce easily in anger. If you lack patience with love and lose tolerance and understanding, your relationship will naturally become fragile.
Beautiful love is hard to come by, but some people always miss it, some people don’t know how to cherish it, and some people have too high vision and pursue high-quality life, but ignore the management of their feelings, are too confident, are not satisfied with the status quo, and always hold unrealistic fantasies. Naturally, they will miss the right person and waste their youth.
Xinyu has been a beauty since she was a child and has never lacked suitors. However, due to her poor family background and she does not like to study, she entered society very early, thinking about making money to supplement the family income so as to get rid of poverty. But as time goes by, she found that her ability is limited and she is too hard to work. Until she was in love, her boyfriend was almost obedient to her and would respond to her requests. She gradually became obsessed with this kind of life.
In the future, her pursuit of the opposite sex is basically an attitude of not taking the initiative or not rejection. On the one hand, she enjoys their efforts, but does not give a clear reply. Only when she meets those who are in good condition and generous will she start dating. This has been like this over the years, but sometimes she also hates this false relationship. She also longs for a family and a man who is sincerely good to her.
Until I met my ex-husband, the other person looked handsome, gentle and considerate, able to tolerate his temper, and was willing to give everything. Xinyu also felt the feeling of love, and felt relaxed and happy when he got along with the other person, so he couldn't wait to get married.
After entering marriage, Xinyu also spent a happy time, but with the arrival of her children, the quality of life began to decline sharply. Xinyu often complained that her ex-husband was not capable and could not make money, and compared him with others. Especially when she saw that her former friends were living better than herself, she felt even more unbalanced and often quarreled with her ex-husband. In the end, she chose to divorce and wanted to pursue a better life.
Marriage failure did not affect Xinyu's mood. Soon after, she started blind dates and went to Marriage Agency to introduce her situation and requirements. She said that she was 29 years old and had a short time of divorce. She took her children with her children and wanted to find a marriage partner as soon as possible. As for the requirements, she hoped that the other party would have a house and a car, and could not have a loan. She did not live with her in-laws after marriage. She did not want to serve her in-laws, and she could not have children within five years.
As soon as Xinyu finished speaking about her request, she was driven out by the other party and was sarcastic: With your conditions, it is recommended that you do not fantasize and be better prepared to be single. Xinyu was very dissatisfied. She had never been chased by others at the beginning. With her appearance, she would definitely find the person she liked.
Later, Xinyu asked her to help her get in touch with her, and she really found a boyfriend. The other party has a good family background and is ambitious. Her monthly income is more than 20,000 yuan. Because she was busy with work and never fell in love, Xinyu concealed her own situation and started dating with her. With Xinyu's continuous efforts, the two soon reached the point of getting married, but her boyfriend felt that Xinyu was too proactive, which made him vaguely feel something was wrong. Later, under his investigation, he discovered the real situation of Xinyu, and was very angry, accusing Xinyu of deceiving herself and finally chose to break up.
After two years of going around, Xinyu returned to single again. As time goes by, she will soon become an older single woman. She will have no advantage in the blind date market, so she has to go find her ex-husband, but her ex-husband already has a home, and she only feels regretful until this time.
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, but it is not practical to want a perfect marriage. After all, there is no perfect person. The essence of marriage is food, food, oil and salt. It is necessary for two people to tolerate each other's shortcomings and face the ups and downs of life together to create happiness belonging to two people.
If you set various standards for marriage and link emotions with material things, it will be difficult to meet the right person. You do not recognize your own shortcomings and only know how to pursue material life blindly. Even if you barely enter the marriage, but have no emotional foundation as support, conflicts will occur sooner or later. The best way to get along is to know my warmth and coldness, and I know your sorrow, rather than treating marriage as a bet to achieve a counterattack in life, otherwise it will be difficult to have real happiness. #Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Firm#
