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Daughter is the father's little cotton jacket, which is really considerate. From an emotional point of view, it is understandable that a father loves his daughter, but in our lives, there is a kind of person who is shameless, corrupts human ethics, and ignores other people's gossip, which makes people confused. What kind of psychology is this? It is easy to make others think a lot.
When Guo Dahan was young, he was a bastard, not doing his job all day long, idle, eating, drinking and having fun, and beating his wife after drinking. He was notorious in the village. Because of this, the wife could not stand the domestic violence of her husband, and when her daughter was in junior high school, she followed other men.
Daughter Guo Moumei, since her mother left, she went out to work before she finished junior high school. She left Guo Dahan alone to guard the dilapidated home. His home is also the most dilapidated house in the village and the poorest home. The people in the village gave Guo a nickname "Guo Dapao". Even the children in the village called him like this, but he was never annoyed and looked dead.
Guo Moumei has not returned from work for three years. Every month, she will receive a lot of things sent back from her daughter, including food, clothing, and gifts. Some women in the village often joke about Guo, saying that his wife was gone and his daughter probably ran away with the others. Guo Dahan disagreed and spit out a few swear words from his mouth from time to time.
People in the village asked his daughter where she got rich and why she often sent you good things. In fact, Guo Dahan didn’t know where her daughter works? Guo Dahan lived a lonely life for three years. Sometimes he didn't go home, and he wouldn't even appear in the village for several days. The people in the village also care about his existence.
Until the fourth year, when the Spring Festival was almost over, her daughter came back. When she came, she rented a car. When she drove directly to the door of her house, Guo's arrival attracted many people. Everyone was very surprised. After not seeing each other for four years, Guo looked as beautiful as a flower and dressed up as that enchanting. When she got off the car, she carried several bags of big bags and pulled a large tourist luggage.
Some women in the village even ran to Guo Dahan's house, of course they all went to watch the fun. In fact, Guo Dahan didn't know his daughter's arrival, so he burned the kang at home. Her daughter's room had not been cleaned for several years. Some women in the village even invited Guo to spend the night at her house, but his daughter did not agree, and the father and daughter lived together that night.
has lived here for more than half a year, and the gossip in the village is flying all over the sky, but Guo Dahan and his daughter don’t agree. It’s true that they are upright and not afraid of shadows. You say yours, I live mine, anyway, their lives will not affect others. Later, fewer people talked about it, and it seemed that they were numb about the affairs of their father and daughter. Isn’t it embarrassing to live in the same room as their father and daughter?
After the Spring Festival, someone came to propose marriage. The other party was from another village and the family conditions were OK. The man's father was a laid-off worker, with only one son, Sun Gang, and a carpenter. Regarding the Sun family's proposal, Guo Dahan also agreed to get married, and his daughter Guo also agreed.
Later, I found a matchmaker. After discussing the two families, they married their daughter. Not long after they got married, Guo Dahan always went to see her daughter every now and then. When she went there, she always said that she missed her daughter very much and always came back in the morning and evening.
Every time Guo Dahan comes, Guo always feels that the Sun family doesn’t like his father very much. Because of this, he has quarreled with his husband several times. After every quarrel, Guo returns to his father’s house. Every time Sun Gang comes to invite him to his mother-in-law.
Later, I heard from people over there that Guo was very harsh at home, and his mother-in-law didn't dare to say it, and Sun Gang didn't dare to provoke him. Guo was the only one in the Sun family. Her father-in-law passed away because he couldn't stand the scolding and humiliation of his daughter-in-law. Some people said that the Sun family married a broom star.
But the more this happens, the more powerful Guo is. Since her father-in-law left, Guo Dahan has been to the son-in-law's house more frequently. Not only does he eat at Sun's house, but he also lives in Sun's house and lives with his daughter, making the Sun's mother and son dare not speak out.
It is said that family scandals should not be made public. Sun's mother did not dare to offend her daughter-in-law and corrupted her daughter-in-law everywhere. However, Sun's mother's behavior completely angered her daughter-in-law. Guo seemed to have thrown her apart. No matter what others said, she didn't care at all and still lived in the same room with her father at her in-laws' house.
Sun Gang suffered from his wife being too domineering and had no choice but to let their father and daughter mess around at home. Guo Dahan knew that the Sun family was dissatisfied with him, but he didn't care at all, and he said everywhere that she missed her daughter. Is there anything wrong?
The speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional. Guo Dahan's words can only arouse others' opinions about him, but for an old man who was originally not well-known, it is indeed a bit suspicious.
Guo’s father and daughter spent more than a year intermittently in the Sun’s family. During this year, the relationship between the couple can be said to be inconsistent, sometimes cold and sometimes hot. When Guo Dahan was away, they were husband and wife, and when Guo Dahan came, they were enemies again.
Until the second year, after Guo got pregnant, Guo Dahan stopped staying overnight. Every time he came, he either had eggs or chickens, ducks and fish. However, Sun's mother didn't like to accept it very much, but he told Sun that this was for my daughter to eat, not for you, and then turned around and left angrily.
This fact is really a bit out of moral terms for Guo and his daughter. It can be said that she is shameless and corrupts human relations, but what exactly is happening is just gossip about others.
Even if Guo has a father-loving relationship, he will not live in the same room with his father at his mother-in-law's house. This is unreasonable. After all, Guo is already a wife, so he can at least give her husband some face and some self-esteem.
After every time his father came, Guo always refused to bed with his husband. This was disloyalty and disrespect for his husband. Guo Dahan knew that his daughter had started a family, but he had to spend the night at his son-in-law's house and even had sex with his daughter in front of his son-in-law. This was for any man, as a husband, he could not accept it psychologically. Even if Guo Dahan simply loves his daughter, he cannot spend the night with his daughter in front of his mother-in-law. This is a disapproval of his son-in-law and a humiliation of his mother-in-law.
For this reason, how do you view this issue as to the behavior of Guo and his daughter? Everyone is welcome to discuss and pay attention to me and have more exciting family ethics issues.
