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I saw a question on Zhihu: "What kind of love do you want?"
There is a highly praised answer: "The love I want is not under the moon, nor is it a kind of love, but knows how to think from the perspective of others."
deeply agrees.
Because you care about you, you will look at the problem from your perspective and put yourself in your shoes.
Someone once said: "We cannot see all the snow falling in a person's life. Everyone spends the winter alone in their own life."
No one's life is smooth sailing. Differences and contradictions are inevitable between people. Only those who know how to think from the other side will understand you and tolerate you.
If a person often thinks about you from the perspective of others, it is because he wants the relationship to last.
Someone once said: "Only those who are kind to you will think from the perspective of you."
He can notice your joys, anger, sorrows, and happiness.
In front of you, his anger, his carelessness, and his rage will be extinguished.
How to manage feelings is not from others’ preaching, only those who are interested will awaken.
is not as "busy", it's just that the other party doesn't want to pay attention to you.
A careless person, after being with you for a long time, will naturally understand your habits and your preferences. I didn’t remember that it was because I didn’t care about you in my heart.
Only those who like you will take care of your feelings everywhere.
Those who care about you will pay attention to the smallest things. Those who don’t have you in their hearts will not feel sorry for you no matter how bad things are.
Life will not last long, please love seriously. If no one loves you, you must love yourself well and think about yourself wholeheartedly.
I wish that for the rest of my life, someone will know your warmth and coldness, protect you, accompany you for three meals a day, and walk through the cycle of reincarnation in the four seasons.
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